The Ultimate Guide to Chastity: Removing the Iron Panties

By Sandra B. James

If you are a single woman who is tired of falling for men who are wrong for you, check out The Ultimate Guide to Chastity: Removing the Iron Panties by Sandra James. James’s guide helps you identify your personal negative patterns and insecurities that may be causing you to land yourself in unhealthy

• Language: English
• Publisher: Purposely Created Publishing Group
• Release date: Jan 17, 2018
• ISBN: 9781947054882

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THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO CHASTITY

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Copyright © 2017 Sandra James

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ADVANCE PRAISE FOR THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO CHASTITY

This book really gets to the root of the issues many women face in real life. The author holds nothing back. Get ready to be shocked into reality and guided by pure wisdom to acknowledge the things you may be hiding that’s keeping you stuck.

—Valerie Priester, www.victoriouslifecoaching.com

I believe this book will be a real game changer for those who read it. I have seen you work through many personal challenges in your life. I see you helping others work through the issues in their live. I believe this book will help those who feel like they are stuck in an impossible situation to break free and began to really live. May the Lord continue to bless everything that you put your hands to.

—Dr. Ruby Christian, www.ttcotlf.org

In a society where sex sells and is deemed commonplace and even acceptable, chastity and celibacy has become a difficult subject, rarely addressed with any conviction in or out of church. In this book, however, Sandra draws you in inconspicuously with her gentle and tentative style of storytelling.

In Chapter 1, she gets you feeling comfortable and trusting as she sensitively shares her vulnerability. All you as the reader want to know is why her husband left and how the family coped. Then suddenly you look back and you find yourself knee deep into how to stay chaste as a single woman. Sandra has, with stoic military precision, caught you in an ambush designed to help you successfully navigate the chaste life without shame, with joy and in total acceptance. Chapter by chapter, Sandra digs deeper identifying and unmasking the spiritual ploys of the devil to keep you sexually in bondage and then provides tools from her own experience, based on the word of God, to help and guide you along the journey that is very much against the tide of society.

Sandra writes with passion, conviction, and a heartfelt eloquence predicated upon her own life’s experience. You are left with no doubt that The Ultimate Guide to Chastity is a must-read for every single woman and man who is committed to living a sex-free, God-ordained purpose fulfilled life. It is also a valuable resource for church leaders who minister to single people in churches. What are you waiting for? Get your copy today!

—Zina Arinze London, UK, www.believeandliveagain.com

Beloved, this is an excellent piece and deliverance tool. It contains life-changing material, full of power, with life-flowing words packaged with life experience, quickened by God, pouring like rivers of water, through His mouth piece – Sandra James — to bring freedom to the singles. There are laid down principles here on what you can do to your broken heart. The potter is already waiting to put you back together again, only if you can locate the potter’s house.

This is a biography of a changed life. Any single who wants a genuine encounter of a changed life should endeavor to read this book. The sincerity and the practicality of it are enormous.

This martial in your hand is not judgmental or condemning, but a restorer of broken bridges in the hearts of the singles, connecting bridge to bridge, heart to heart, mind to mind. Missing this book will be to you like missing the most precious Jewel in life.

They that shall hearken to the words of this book shall build their old waste places and shall raise up the foundations of many lives and shall be called the repairer of the breach, the restorer of paths to dwell in (Isaiah 58:12).

—James Filas, Onitsha Anambra State, Nigeria

The Ultimate Guide to Chastity is a must-read for every young lady or seasoned woman who is interested in doing things God’s way, as it relates to marriage. This book will guide you in the right direction to be able to choose a suitable mate. God said, When a man finds a woman… but he gives the woman the opportunity to choose. If we do it right, we can have the pick of the litter.

This guide is inspirational, educational, funny, and good reading. Make sure you get your copy as soon as it comes off the press. Men, get one for yourself, your daughter, your sister, or your spouse. You won’t be able to put it down.

—Regina Parker

Sandra, what an awesome and relevant piece of work. Through your candor and insight, many people will find answers to questions that have plagued them for years, men and women alike. This is straight talk from a mature Christian perspective that is much needed.

It is time out for believers pretending that things don’t happen. Things happen to believers as well as non-believers. It is however time for believers to view negative situations as an opportunity for growth. I commend you for your honest passion to help others through your painful and challenging past.

This is a great example of turning your misery into a ministry. As the word says, When you have been converted, strengthen your brother.

—Bishop Samuel Christian www.ttcotlf.org

Dedication

To my parents and pastors, Bishop Samuel and Dr. Ruby Christian ~ Thank you for teaching the truth of God’s Word, causing me to know how to stand firm in my walk with The Lord. Thank you for your love and support in my ministry and in every business venture, hobby, and craft I have ever pursued.

To my wonderful children, Enobong and Arit James ~ You kept me on my knees seeking God for wisdom and direction. My goal was to be an example of what a chaste lifestyle looked like for a single mother.

To my awesome friend and colleague, Vilasi Venkatachalem ~ You helped me get to the essence of who I am down to the core. Thank you for being that mirror for me.

To my sisters, Regina Massey and Sabrina Frazier, and only brother, Samuel Christian, II, who have always thought I was the odd ball. You are right, I am! I love you too.

I dedicate this book to every SINGLE woman who has everything except the man.

TABLE OF CONTENTS

Introduction

Meet the Author

Chapter One

How Did I Get Here?

Chapter Two

Mr. Fixer Upper &