Keep It Super Simple: Tips from a Recovering Perfectionist
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Reducing stress and increasing resilience .... A brilliant guide to overcoming overwhelm, ‘Keep It Super Simple’ is the book you didn’t know you needed!
When it comes to creating a simpler life there’s many things that can impact us. This highly engaging book by award-winning business woman and author, Bronwen
Bronwen A Sciortino
Bronwen Sciortino is an Author, Simplicity Expert and Professional Speaker who spent almost two decades as a high powered, award winning executive before experiencing a life changing event that forced her to stop and ask the question 'What if there's a better way to live?' Answering this question took her on a journey of discovery that gave her the knowledge and wisdom to write 'Keep It Super Simple -Tips from a Recovering Perfectionist' and to develop the 'Keep It Super Simple' Principles and step away from a traditional life. Bronwen is passionate about showing people there is a very different way of living life - driven by the power of lifting consciousness, waking people up and increasing self-compassion world-wide. Bronwen believes in the positive impact that communities can have globally, and that the best is yet to come! She is living proof that aligning your life with your value system is critical to decreasing stress, building resilience and embracing change. Bronwen spends every day working with people globally through corporate programs, conference platforms, retreats, professional mentoring and in the online environment where she shares her secrets to success and inspires individuals to live a very different life.
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Keep It Super Simple - Bronwen A Sciortino
chapter 1
Introduction
My name is Bronwen and I am a recovering perfectionist.
My life imploded in the blink of an eye. In the space of an hour, I went from being an independent, highly functioning, award winning business woman to a puddle on the floor, unable to stop crying and unable to participate or function in everyday activities.
I had been told for eight years that I had a patch of psoriasis (a skin condition) on my left temple. Long story short – it wasn’t psoriasis but was in fact a large skin cancer that needed to be removed or it would slowly eat away my face.
Fast forward to the surgery – everything went well. On the afternoon of the surgery I was sitting up in the bed in the ward laughing and joking with the surgeon about having ‘cut the crap out of my life’. Arriving home later that afternoon with a massive bandage stapled to my head, I was straight back into work with my laptop like nothing had happened.
A few days later I went back to my surgeon for the post-operation check-up where they removed the bandages. My husband, Jon, was with me and saw the wound before I did. I knew from his face that it wasn’t good, but nothing prepared me for the shock I was to receive when I looked in the mirror and saw a large chunk of my head was missing. My world changed in that instance and was never to be the same again.
That one glimpse in the mirror shattered my reality and, so it seemed at the time, shattered me into a million tiny pieces scattered all over the floor. I held it together until we got in the car to come home and then the tears started. I remember thinking ‘I’m a monster", over and over again. My whole life seemed to come crashing down and all my hopes and dreams for the future were over and done with. I didn’t know where to turn, I didn’t know what to do, and for the first time in my life I had no idea how I was going to ‘fix’ this situation.
L05_001.tifYou see, I was a ‘fixer’. I’d always been able to sort problems out for others – it was one of my major strengths, or so I was told. If something was broken, someone had a problem, or someone needed advice about which way to turn, what to do or which way to go then I was the one they turned to. That’s great, but none of that helped me in this situation.
From the moment I left the surgeon’s offices I completely withdrew from everyone. I couldn’t go anywhere, see anyone or talk to anyone. I retreated into my mind; into a dark and lonely place where the conversation was negative, hurtful and, at times, vicious and where all hope for the future was lost.
Apart from Jon, who was living in the same house, and a few brief phone conversations with my mother and sister who were living in different states, I talked to no one. I was completely oblivious to emails, phone calls, text messages, social media – any communication of any kind. I was totally lost to the world except for one phone call that penetrated the fog. My friend Anna called me to see how I was doing post-surgery and for some inexplicable reason I answered the phone. Within twenty-four hours of talking to me, Anna had sourced a place for me with a counsellor who specialised in working with cancer patients and so began the long and painful road of recovery to my new path in life.
This is my story, written as part of my recovery, but mostly because I wanted to share what I’ve learned so that others don’t have to reach the breaking point that I did.
When you’re in a million pieces, broken, on the floor and unable to stop crying it’s really hard to work out which way to turn to get some relief. I was so afraid of change that I left making simple changes in my life to the point where change was forced on me by nature. My body and mind could no longer live in the environment I had imposed on them so they created a situation that forced me to change.
Through this process I’ve learned a lot about how we’re made up as humans, and it’s given me an opportunity to help others implement small, simple things into their daily lives that will help them to implement change on a regular basis, without the crisis that goes with it. And for those times in our lives when we do have a turning point that comes from crisis, hopefully implementing these small steps will help us to recover more quickly and transition seamlessly into our new path.
My journey has seen me develop a Keep It Super Simple (K.I.S.S) process that helps me to navigate the demands of everyday life. I’ve used this book to explore different areas of my life that I have struggled with and to share with you some of the solutions, tips and tricks I’ve come across to live my life in these areas in a different way. I’ve combined wisdom and simplicity to come up with these tools and now they’ve become my KISSdoms. Because I want to make this book a really simple tool to use, I’ve included a few KISSdoms at the end of every chapter to give you some ideas about how to get started in including KISSing in your life.
Our lives are so complex when simplicity will do. As children, we’re taught what’s right, wrong, acceptable and unacceptable by our families, friends, schools, communities and the world at large. Perhaps the biggest turning point in my recovery was when I heard someone voice the thought ‘what if they’re wrong?’
It took me a long time during my recovery to be able to look at myself in the mirror. I was utterly appalled at the image looking back at me, but mostly I had lost all sense of who I was. Having cancer presented me with one of the greatest challenges of my life. Surviving cancer gave me the gift of an appreciation of the simple things, along with the courage to traverse a new road.
chapter 2
What If
They’re Wrong?
"Do you remember who you were before the world
told you who you should be?"
(Danielle LaPorte)
We’re all socially conditioned from the time we’re born. Social conditioning is the process of training individuals in a society to respond in a manner approved by that society in general and peer groups within that society. The training usually takes the form of direct and indirect rewards or punishment to move us towards adopting the behaviours and beliefs of our family and community.
In general terms, we’re taught the ‘right’ and ‘appropriate’ social patterns with regards to nationalism, education, employment, entertainment, culture, religion, spirituality and family life. What we’re not usually taught is that the ‘right’ and ‘appropriate’ social patterns differ vastly depending on the social structure within which we find ourselves. This means that what we are taught depends entirely on which family, community, state, country, school and so on we happen to be born into and raised within.
One of the biggest ‘Ah-Ha’ moments of my recovery was watching a video where Gregg Braden (a New York Times best-selling author and internationally renowned pioneer in bridging science, ancient wisdom and the real world) was being