Bullying in the Workplace: A Survival Guide For Canadians
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Bullying in the Workplace - Dr. Carol Pye
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CONTENTS
Chapter 1 Workplace Bullying an Overview
A Brief Overview of Bullying
Some Definitions of Workplace Bullying
Differentiating Workplace Bullying from Other Workplace Problems
A Case Study
A Typical Time Course of Workplace Bullying
Chapter 2 The Factors that Contribute to Bullying
Who Engages in Bullying
Who Gets Bullied
Sexism and Racism as Factors in Bullying
Some Special Types of Bullying
Abuse of Authority
Whistleblowers
What Happens to the Whistleblowers
Whistleblower Protection Legislation in Canada Public Servants Disclosure Protection Act 2011
Career Assassination
Chapter 3 The Effects of Bullying
The Effects of Bullying on Targetsand on the Workplace
Can Bullying Result in Post Traumatic Stress DisorderPTSD?
What is the Financial Cost of Bullying?
Chapter 4 Bullying in Particular Occupations
Armed Forces
RCMP
Medicine
Nursing
Teaching
Law
Academia
Civil Servants
Chapter 5 Rate your own Bullying Experience
Chapter 6 Survival Strategies for Coping with Workplace Bullying
Place the Blame Where it Belongs
Should You Confront the Bully?
Find Reliable Support
Find Other People Who Have Had Experiences of Workplace Bullying
Keep Detailed Records of Bullying Events
Protecting Your Health
Emotional Processing and Mental Clarity
Maintaining Hope and Control in your Life
Dealing with HR, Unions and Lawyers
Dealing with Injustice
Chapter 7 Canadian Legislation on Workplace Bullying
Quebec
Saskatchewan
Ontario
Manitoba
British Columbia
Federal Employees
Other Relevant Legislation
Chapter 8 The Work that Remains to be Done
Public Education
Media Attention to Workplace Bullying
Employer Education
Lobbying for Legislative Changes
Government Initiatives
Union Initiatives
The Professions, Medicine, Law, Health Professions
Chapter 9 Valuable Resources
Websites on Workplace Bullying
Books on Workplace Bullying
Books on Therapy and Recovery
How to Find a Psychologist
Bullying Resource Sites, Support Groups and Blogs
Provincial Resources
CHAPTER 1
Workplace Bullying an Overview
A Brief Overview of Bullying
T here has been an active public discussion about bullying for the last several years. Much of that discussion has been focused on bullying that occurs among school children. Undoubtedly, this focus has been of value in recognizing and addressing the bullying that occurs among children. However, to the observer of the public discussion, it would be too easy to get the impression that bullying stops after children graduate from high school or that bullying among adults is rare and inconsequential. Nothing could be further from the truth. Bullies do not outgrow or end their harmful behaviors when they leave high school. They often get further education, enter the professions, take positions in corporations and work in our public institutions. In those workplace positions, bullies can cause great harm to the people that they target for their destructive behavior. There needs to be a broader public discussion about bullying among adults, most of which occurs in the workplace. Bullying in the workplace is a public health issue that is associated with great mental health harms, great financial cost and lost productivity. We all need to acknowledge the scope of the problem, the harm it causes and the need for a broad based response. Bullying in the workplace is no more a private or individual problem than child abuse is a private family matter.
My perspective on workplace bullying comes from my work as a psychologist. For those of us who provide psychological treatment services, the nature of our work is that we hear many stories of people confronting and surviving painful experiences. The stories of workplace bullying are among the most compelling stories I have heard. There can be little doubt that workplace bullying is prevalent and extremely damaging. A 2012 worldwide survey conducted by Reuters surveyed 14,600 workers in 12 countries. About 30% of them rated their workplace as psychologically unsafe and unhealthy¹. Similar estimates of prevalence for workplace bullying for US workers show about 30% have been bullied during their working lives². One prevalence estimate for Canada in 2006 was higher: 40% of Canadian workers experienced workplace bullying³. People who go through bullying suffer significant psychological impacts and often lose their jobs or even their careers because of the bullying. It can be very challenging to survive workplace bullying. Career RCMP officers have told me that they were more able to cope with threats to their life in the course of their police work than the bullying they later experienced from superior officers. Like most people, the bullying that they experienced from one of their own is not something they could ever have anticipated. The other thing that has impressed me as I worked with people who experienced workplace bullying is that the reality and seriousness of bullying is simply not acknowledged in most organizations. It is scarcely acknowledged by society in general. People who go through workplace bullying are essentially alone in their experience and have few resources to help them deal with it.
For the most part in Canada, it is not illegal to bully someone at work. Employers and organizations usually do not respond well to targets of bullying or offer them any meaningful assistance beyond lip service. Bullying in the workplace needs much greater public recognition and we have a long way to go before we have the type of resources in place to be able to respond adequately to it or reduce is occurrence.
Some Definitions of Workplace Bullying
Workplace Bullying: Canadian Center for Occupational Health and Safety
Bullying usually involves repeated incidents or a pattern of behaviour that is intended to intimidate, offend, degrade or humiliate a particular person or group of people. It has also been described as the assertion of power through aggression... Bullying is usually seen as acts or verbal comments that could 'mentally' hurt or isolate a person in the workplace. Sometimes, bullying can involve negative physical contact as well.
Workplace Bullying: Workplace Bullying Institute, USA, Gary and Ruth Namie
Workplace Bullying is repeated, health-harming mistreatment of one or more persons (the targets)