Coefficient of Grace
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From upstate New York critical care nurse to pastry chef to Civil Affairs Officer in combat in Afghanistan, Rena shares a personal journey of grace and forgiveness. This book chronicles experiences of a nurse/solider spanning continents, war zones, and the COVID crisis, and personifies the human consequence, the spaces in between, and the moments where we live.Focused on resiliency, this is a personal journey of vulnerability and courage which ultimately centers on the profoundness and simplicity of grace and a joyful harmonious life.
A portion of the proceeds of this book will be donated to Racing for Heroes to support their ongoing effort to provide health/wellness programs, educational opportunities and community outreach programs for veterans. These programs are vital to our veterans' journey to inner harmony.
Rena Patierno
Rena Patierno is a New York native with more than twenty-six years of nursing experience and nineteen years of service in the U.S. Army Reserve as a nurse corps and Civil Affairs Officer. She is an Afghanistan combat veteran and the recipient of the French National Defense Medal. Rena holds a master’s degree in nursing and is a board-certified adult gerontology acute care nurse practitioner. Currently, Rena is fighting the COVID Crisis for European Command as a Joint Operations Officer.A portion of the proceeds of this book will be donated to Racing for Heroes to support their ongoing effort to provide health/wellness programs, educational opportunities and community outreach programs. These programs are vital to our veterans' journey to inner harmony.Racing for Heroes (RFH) is a not for profit veteran owned organization established and dedicated to helping veterans with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI). Racing for Heroes exists to prevent veteran suicide and raise awareness to the challenges associated with PTSD/TBI in our veteran community.
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Coefficient of Grace - Rena Patierno
Preface
Maybe this one moment, with this one person, is the very reason we’re here on Earth at this time.
—Jean Watson
Life is filled with joyfulness, love, peace, and harmony. Anyone can achieve a life of harmony and balance, but you must embrace the journey with clarity and purpose: it is a marathon, not a sprint. Life is about being courageous and brave. Living requires commitment to learning about yourself and a perseverance and dedication to control your anxiety and fear. Anxiety causes self-doubt and prevents you from moving forward with a joyful heart. Once you begin to acknowledge fear, manage anxiety, and learn to calm your inner self, you then can discover grace and forgiveness. Grace and forgiveness of self will help you to embrace life as a series of controllable events. Your life is the constant, and how you live it is about managing the variables.
I hope this book touches your heart and provides awareness for your journey—whatever that journey is. God bless and God speed!
Introduction
The Coefficient of Grace is a product of many years of living, existing, and just passing through. These were years of hurting, healing, and resiliency. As I reflected on life, I felt a gravitational pull to expand knowledge of myself, of choices, and of the relationships between human beings. During this period of exploration and healing, I learned to appreciate the spaces in between life events.
As I began to search my soul for a title for this book, I harkened back to my days of watercolor painting and the freedom of expression it provided. I was reminded of abstract art and how it represents reality by using colors and forms without attempting to represent an accurate version of the truth. This is much like life and the lens with which we choose to see the world. Understanding life as a series of events and how we manage these events reminded me of algebra and coefficients.
In algebra, the coefficient is the number by which you multiply. For example, 5 is the coefficient in the equation
5x = y
. For the purpose of this book, life is multiplied by its variables. Variables are experiences and feelings. These variables occur in seconds, minutes, hours. They are cumulative, and how we manage them equates to the balance and quality of living.
Life Multiplied by Variables = Your Journey
The core of a joyful life is managing variables. Take responsibility for you, change the lens, and broaden the optic to visualize life differently.
I began developing the concept of a book upon my return from Afghanistan in November of 2010. The initial concept was generated out of my frustration with the lack of a realistic transition program to assist reserve service members in shifting back to civilian life.
United States Army Reserve soldiers perform two days per month and two weeks per year, sprinkled with a 365-day deployment here and there. In my eighteen years, I have mobilized five times, deployed to Afghanistan, and completed an additional three-year tour on active duty, for grand total of approximately ten years—or half of my reserve career, not the typical trajectory for an Army reserve solider. It’s an easy transition when performing only two days per month. However, deployment in a combat zone is a different story, and transitioning back to civilian life is not so seamless.
My transition to and from the combat zone in November 2010 went something like this: civilian to active duty at a mobilization station for ninety-plus days; boots on the ground in Afghanistan for a nine-month combat tour; return home. At the end of the tour, I recall arriving at the air terminal in Indianapolis in the cover of darkness. About seventy-five members of the 404th Civil Affairs Battalion disembarked the plane after a sixteen-hour flight. The air was cold, damp, and the smell of jet fuel filled the air. We were directed to grab our bags from the belly of the aircraft and move in an orderly