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All is connected

A forensic clinical psychologist once told me, “Men who’ve been hurt or humiliated by their mothers will do anything to avoid that pain. They will only tolerate women they can control.” It seemed a striking demonstration of our interconnectedness. We all – women, too – have a part to play in reducing violence.

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