He's a F*ckboy and You Don't Know It!

By Duran Cameron John

We all want to find love in our lives.  But, telling the good ones from the bad can be a difficult and tedious task. Well, this short story is set out on making that task a little easier by taking you on a journey into the mind of a Fuckboy, what to look for in a potentially harmful relationship as well as the qualities of one that is beautiful.

All you must do is read and decipher the clues for yourself.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Duran Cameron John
• Release date: Sep 14, 2020
• ISBN: 9781393296959

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HE'S A

F*CKBOY

AND YOU DON'T KNOW IT!

DURAN CAMERON JOHN

Copyright © 2020 Duran Cameron John

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Table of Contents

Chapter 1 Definition

Chapter 2 The Signs

Chapter 3 The Negative Impacts

Chapter 4 Dealing With It

Chapter 5 A Healthy Relationship

Chapter 6 Tips for Girls

Chapter 7 Tips for Guys

Chapter 8 Conclusion

Chapter 1 Definition

Ladies, let’s not beat around the bush, you want to know whether the guy you’re crushing over, started dating or have been dating for some time is just stringing you along until another comes to take your place.

It can be difficult to know what’s going on in a guy’s mind as we tend to be really confusing creatures.

But how do you identify if this guy has a destructive/ toxic aura that could affect you in a way that is not only negative to you but to those around you.

Firstly, we have to explore what the definition of someone that is toxic really is:

The terms Fuckboy and toxic can be interrelated.

Toxic can be seen as something/someone being poisonous, and that ladies is exactly what a Fuckboy is.

He can be perceived as a wolf in sheep’s clothing and just as technology is ever evolving, so are they!

They believe that they have mastered the art of seduction, that any girl will fall at their feet but in reality, they are just a bunch of douchebags who need to be taught a lesson.

Don’t get me wrong, there are toxic females too and they can be equally as destructive as males.

Have you watched the movie Definitely, Maybe? ... well there's a scene where the kid asked the great Ryan Reynolds what is the male term for slut and he replies, that word has not been invented yet. Now it has and it's called a Fuckboy.

What I'm trying to get at is over the years the female population has been shamed using the word slut and now I believe it is time for the Fuckboys to be in the limelight.

When you think of the term Fuckboy, you imagine someone in his 20’s but that’s not the case. A Fuckboy has no age, he could be that guy who cheated on you when you were 16, the dude that ghosted you in your 20’s or that creepy old guy in his 30/40’s flashing his money at the club.

A Fuckboy is like a Gremlin, they come in different shapes, sizes, and personalities. Just as you are not supposed to feed a Gremlin after midnight, try entertaining a Fuckboy after midnight and you will witness his true intentions.

A Fuckboy has no care for anyone except himself and his needs and as long as you’re able to satisfy and adhere to his rules then he will keep you around.

That sounds like you’re more of a pet rather than a potential/ equal partner as you might as well put a leash around your neck and not in a kinky way too.

It’s not always easy to spot a Fuckboy especially when they hide behind a persona which isn’t even close to what they actually are.

Being in love is like watching a movie or reading a book. We love certain parts of it, suffer through some of them and at the end we are either happy or wish that we knew how it would turn out before it even started.

So tell me, if you figure out that the person you’re crushing over or are in a relationship with could potentially send your life into a downward spiral, would you treat it as a movie/book and end it right there or continue hoping that the ending is different from the direction you already see it going in?

In the next chapter we shall talk about the different types of Fuckboys and signs they give off, highlighting key aspects in spotting them.

Chapter 2 The Signs

I believe the main observation is if all he cares about is getting into your pants! This is the guy that only calls or texts when he wants a quick fling, and I hate to break it to you but you’re not the only girl he’s doing that with.

You identify the signs when he says/ does stuff like:

The typical you up text as he is just finding a way to turn the conversation into a sexual one.

He constantly asks for nudes or pictures of you and throws a tantrum like a 3-year-old that was told no in a candy store when you refuse.

When he meets you, he always tries to pull you in for a kiss or starts rubbing your inner thigh, not even paying attention to a word you’re saying.

He would rather hang out at your place or his rather than in public as you have already fallen into his trap- especially when the first thing he offers you is an alcoholic beverage.

If your friends asked you about him, there really is not much you can tell them besides the basics as the conversation does not get pass surface level topics.

The Party Animal is by far one of the most annoying Fuckboys I have come across and have seen their lifestyle up close.

You identify the signs when he says/ does stuff like:

All he talks about is the party life; his weekends consist of going out, getting drunk and