How to Jump and Find Your Wings on the Way Down: How to get out and stay out of a bad relationship
By Joni Salomon
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How to Jump and Find Your Wings on the Way Down - Joni Salomon
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Print ISBN: 978-1-09831-172-8
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Contents
FORWARD
THE LUXURY OF HONESTY
YOU AINT NO CHICKEN, THE TRUTH
SHALL SET YOU FREE
THE POWER OF FLASH BACKS
JUMP AND FIND YOUR WINGS ON THE WAY DOWN
FORWARD
I first started writing this book 13 years ago. My youngest son was 4 and my oldest was 5 years old. It has taken me this long to perfect it, to get over the embarrassment, to get still enough to get to the raw truth and to hear myself say over and over again, how I wish my book was finished because this or that client/person needed it in their life. I wrote this book to assist those who have been touched by domestic violence in their lives. I wrote this for those who need hope for a better day. I wrote this book for those who are in a bad relationship and want to get out but just do not know how. I wrote this book for those dependent on their partner who are fearful of the repercussions of taking the steps to end the bad relationship. I wrote this book for those who were like me, scared, fearful, not knowing what to do, what to say, and just living in fear knowing life had more to offer but with small children, dependent financially on their partner and not sure of themselves and not sure of much except that the situation they were in was beyond bad. This book is dedicated to my sons who now are 17 and 15 as they were the source of my strength, the fuel to my soul and when I could not do it for myself, they gave me reason to soar. I vowed I would end the domestic violence cycle. I will not raise a monster. This book is also dedicated to my two daughters who are 10 and 6. I never want you to endure the pain I suffered. I never want you to know how it feels to be treated less than human and not be self respected. If me telling my story prevents that, it is all worth the shame and disappointment of reliving my truth.
The reason birds can fly and we can’t is simply that they have perfect faith, for to have faith is to have wings.
-J.M. Barrie,
The Little White Bird
CHAPTER 1:
THE LUXURY OF HONESTY
One cannot consent to creep when one feels the impulse to soar.
-Helen Keller
I sat straight