I encourage you to first listen to Part 1 here. Today, you get to hear the gory details of how awful I was...from my husband. He is giving you all the dirt on me, for your benefit (hopefully!). There's a ton of mistakes I made that I thought was helping, but was actually driving a severe wedge between us. I was making it impossible for him to love me in the ways I was desperate for him to love me. God has taught me a ton in my marriage. But by God's grace, He continues to teach me. I thought I had it all figured out---but I had a lot more to learn. Through The Surrendered Wife book, I learned so much and I made important changes. But here's my journey of understanding, right from my own husband. In part 2, you'll hear what was really going on behind closed doors. All the big mistakes I made which was wreaking havoc on my marriage though I had no idea. Why my husband didn't want to go to weddings & social events that I so desperately wanted him to attend. How my insecurity caused my husband to be more insecure and wanted to do less of the activities I really wanted them to do. How I would treat my husband at parties, when walking down the street, and even in public at the grocery store ;/ Why he felt like I treated him like a child and why I felt like he was acting like a child. How I realized that the truth of this scripture - Eph 5:33 Let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. There's a ton that has changed but it was a pretty muddy road, and I wonder if you might be able to relate or can hear how to avoid my mistakes. 1:1 Coaching with Belah is 30% off until Nov 24. Click here for details!