The Art of Love and Friendship. How to Become a Person Who Everyone Wants to Be Friends With.

By Soloinc Logic

Variothoughts series. The more friends you have, the stronger you are. The more they love you, the stronger you are. It's difficult to live without friends. A person lives in a socium and people around can influence this person's living standards. The book reveals laws and principles of relationships between people. How to become a person who they would like to help. How to make friends. How to be worthy of friendship. Why they like some people and dislike others.

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The main feature of the books "Variothoughts" is their unprecedented honesty and versatility. No censorship of thoughts, absolute freedom of ideas and words. Variothoughts is a guide to the labyrinths of thought. Concentrate of information. Time is money. Secret knowledge, forbidden and lost wisdom. Thoughts that will forever change your understanding of life. Knowledge is power.
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Variothoughts is a book for those who save their time. Ready-made Lego cubes used to put together any ideas and goals. The DNA and RNA of thought. Variothoughts books should be read slowly, chewing every thought carefully. Truth is that which has extension properties, and falsehood is pride, that is, an avid rush.
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The reader is offered a thematic set of Syntalism thoughts, aphorisms and metaphors on the topic indicated in the title of the book. The meaning of Variothoughts is the search for 3D truth. The knowledge of truth comes through the denial of lies, which are infinite, so the act of faith associated with the knowledge of truth is an infinite source of joy and strength. Great thing the truth? Great thing a lie?
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Attention! The book was published in the author's version. The book contains many strange thoughts, fictitious words and non-standard speech forms. The key to the door is love, and the door is love. When there is no love, there are no keys and no door. Variothoughts is a book of allegories, secrets and lost wisdom. The truths contained in Variothoughts are reliably protected from people in whom there is no love by such entities as extension, distribution, abstractions, falsehood, translation features. People deprived of love are lazy, inattentive, impatient, greedy, venomous, full of skepticism and doubt. Truth is inaccessible to the proud, and it pleases, for truth is power. Truth speaks to the proud, go to hell.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Soloinc Logic
• Release date: Jun 1, 2020
• ISBN: 9780463343005

Soloinc Logic

SoloINC (anc.greek "combining the uncombinable", keeper of the grain")Soloinc Logic, philosopher from the city of Sofia. Soloinc (Diamond Solo / Solodilov Dmitry), Bulgarian psychologist and Stoic philosopher. Supporter of the merger of logical and sensory methods of cognition. He considers the connection of traditional philosophies with modern science. He is the founder of the cyberphilosophy of Syntalism (Quantum Nanophilosphy), which considers the problems of philosophy, sociology, psychology and economics in terms of systemic cybernetics and logic.Soloinc is not the first, but the last philosopher. Evangelist and cyberpunk guru. The author of more than 74 thousand original ideas and thoughts. Main books: “Variothoughts”, “Diamond Stoic”, “Theory of Existence”, “Money Bible”, “Quantum Philosophy”, “Mathematics and Progression”, “Velerechie”, “The Device of the Mind”, “Royal Buffoon”, “Liberastia” , "Surrotic", "Surfutur" and others, in total more than 888 books.Knowledge in ancient books is clothed in the form of allegories and riddles in order to isolate it from those in whom there is no love of truth and beauty. On the other hand, overcoming obstacles breeds love. Love is God, one of the facets of truth.The key to the door is love, and the door is love. When there is no love, there are no keys and no door. Variothoughts is a book of allegories, secrets and lost wisdom. The truths contained in Variothoughts are reliably protected from people in whom there is no love by such entities as extension, distribution, abstractions, falsehood, translation features. People deprived of love are lazy, inattentive, impatient, greedy, venomous, full of skepticism and doubt. Truth is inaccessible to the proud, and it pleases, for truth is power. Truth speaks to the proud, go to hell.Variothoughts is a guide to the labyrinths of thought. Concentrate of information. Time is money. Secret knowledge, forbidden and lost wisdom. Thoughts that will forever change your understanding of life. Knowledge is power. The main feature of the books "Variothoughts" is their unprecedented honesty and versatility. No censorship of thoughts, absolute freedom of ideas and words.The meaning of Variothoughts is the search for 3D truth. The knowledge of truth comes through the denial of lies, which are infinite, so the act of faith associated with the knowledge of truth is an infinite source of joy and strength. Great thing the truth? Great thing a lie?****************************************************In fact, Variothoughts is very tedious. I have seeked the truth all my life, then I found it and concealed it in a different place. Variothoughts is an intellectual quest and a mosaic of truth, broken into thousands of pieces. I found the truth in plain sight and concealed it back as well as before... What’s the point? It’s a game or a way to kill boredom. We live eternally and boredom turns our life into hell. I want to save you from sufferings for some reason...

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The Art of Love and Friendship

Variothoughts Series

Copyright 2020 Soloinc Logic

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Table of Contents

The Art of Love and Friendship

Afterword

About the author

The Art of Love and Friendship

3.10.

We are different because we are the same.

5.11.

In conversation, hold your breath more often. Your interlocutor uses this pretext to make you a listener, which is good. The more you listen and the less you speak, the more intelligent and smart in all respects you seem to others.

536.

A sense of delicacy is the ability to keep silent, when one craves to say what's on the mind.

7.19. A community of normal people.

There are no normal people. All people are abnormal, but they all want to be normal. Lies are what makes an abnormal person normal. Lies are a mask and an element of socialization that allows people to live in society, pretending they are normal.

7.24.

If a person does not want you to like, apparently, he does not see any benefit in this, apparently, you could not show him that you can be useful for him.

8.22.

Be yourself. When you pretend to be someone else, you seem insincere.

8.74.

The world falls for amazing people. Amaze.

1541.

While being in a relationship learn to make pauses. Give people time to take a rest from you to miss each other. Intruding yourself or making your presence felt, you may distract, annoy or simply bore each other. There should be moderation and balance in everything.

1547.

A person gets very nervous and upset when they don’t trust him. Mistrust can be compared to an offence, to an insult .

10.6935.

Honesty breeds faith, which means love.  Love is what creates truth and puts barriers against lies.  That is, if you need beauty and inspiration, be honest and open.  Tightness and lies are not capable of beauty and truth..

10.6926.

When you love and admire a person, you learn good things from them.  When you are afraid or envious of him, you learn bad things from him.  From the first you grow and rejoice, from the second you degrade and suffer.

10.6789.

Love is not from the words Have and rule, but from the words Look and admire.  The energy of admiration overwhelms you, and you begin to grow.

10.6794.

Love is the ability to be surprised.  If you want to be loved, surprise them.

10.6862. A great and good man.

Courageous people are by definition friendly, open, and curious. Love is curious and open to everything new.

10.6870.

By admiring people, you will stop being afraid of them.

5.3293.

When thinking about others, be loyal to their interests. When thinking about yourself, be loyal to your interests.

5.3709.

There is only one way to make a person listen to himself – is to start telling him what he wants... When a person sees that you are he, you can start telling him what you think, and then the person will think that he thinks so.

5.4949.

The right way to talk is as follows: somebody talks, you listen to him, he goes silent, you think and then talk. It is wrong to think while someone is talking. Thinking while someone is talking is like interrupting him. Thinking when someone is talking means you lack respect for and don’t listen to him.

5.5503.

If you love another person, you should love what he loves. You should learn what is important to this person and try to help and support these things. The unity of love is the Foundation of love. 

6.1472.

The vices of friends cast a shadow over you. Therefore, first, think with whom you are friends, and secondly, do not spoil the honest name of your friends with your vices.

6.3445. We're all sitting in the egg of our fears.

The meaning of the phrase that do to others as you wish to be done to you is that everyone wants and fears the same thing. Therefore, the thoughts and fears that are in your head, there are others.

6.3446.

Three meet in a room and all three think the same thing: "What will the other two think of me?»

6.3447.

You need not fear men, for it is foolish to fear those who fear you.

6.3448.

Smile and joy-a signal, Do not be afraid of me, I'm mine, I'm friendly.

953. [In brevi]

If you find a person precious, keep away from suspecting this person of lies and betrayal...

The fact this person can betray you doesn't change the fact you need this person.

945.

If you find someone really precious and don't want to lose this person, then avoid criticizing him or her.

8.83.

A smart aleck is an arrogant boaster. Be more unpretentious.

8.78.

If you ask, give at once.

7.30.

A great way to get out of an unnecessary dispute is to say Yes, of course.  Yes, of course you're right.  The main thing is not to prove anything, do not justify and do not justify anything.  Shake your head thoughtfully, but in your heart, ignore all this nonsense.

7.22.

Non-contractual expectations - nonsense, it is necessary to expect only about what agreed.

7.13. Pride.

You want to be loved, of course, for no reason.  You want to be served for nothing and you don't want to pay for it.  Such a desire is pride, that is, sin.  If you want love, you must pay those who serve you.

6.88. Try not to speak more than hear.

6.53. On a personal note.

Ask people for a personal favor.  Say that if you fail, you will be punished.  That is, if a person does not help you, you will be punished, and if he does, he will save you.  People are pleased to know that someone owes them now.

5.12. A vehement listener.

The most important thing in communication is to learn to listen attentively. Don’t get distracted, don’t idly observe flies while reflecting upon the nature of eternity, but listen with great and vehement interest, soaking in every word and gesture of your interlocutor.

182.

The main secret of successful relationships is in the ability to forgive and seek forgiveness.

3.4.

We are said to be brothers – that’s a lie. The truth is we are all united. We are one and that’s why none of us is older or younger, even or uneven, better or worse.

4.538.

A good friend is a teacher who doesn't teach, but you look at him and you learn.

4.284. Mjolnir, Thor's hammer.

The meaning of universal morality is that birds of the same plumage stick together. You can create your own moral principles, but then you risk being left alone, which will weaken you.

4266.

Having put tongue out with pleasure, some man was so proudly boastful that some sensitive people even believed him.

The only one joy left in that person's life is lying and being boastful.

So let that person feel some joy! Pretend you believe him.

The easiest way to bring a person joy is to pretend that you believe the lies and boasting this person tells.

4145.

It's better to keep silent with those superior in rank until they give the floor. And when they give, it's necessary to say something right and not keep silent like a fool.

4143. It's not a matter of their lies but a matter of why they lie.

Lies are fun...

Lying is a source of wonder... a source of vanity.

A source of safety and calmness.

They want to seem to be of more value and use.

2930.

Obsessive desire to say too much leads to the need to listen to unpleasant.

2874. A matter of price.

There's not a single person who would like to be used by others for free.

2868. A smiling face.

I'm not fond of people who smile too much. You may never know what exactly they hide behind their smiles. A sincere person smiles at those who he or she is glad to see while someone insincere may smile at everyone and you never know what this person really thinks about.

2863. Be kind to the decent.

Soft kindness is not kindness but weakness that is scared of everything and hence, smiles at everything.

2862. Sometimes it's important.

Any kind person is angry at something and any angry person is kind at something.

2815.

It's only something clear that should be said. And it's better to keep silent about something unclear.

2725.

It's common to mean what you say in the circle of decent respectable people.

2636. The secret of love.

Don't cause people new problems as it's better to help them with solving the already existing ones. It will make them happier and they will share this happiness with you.

2517. Gratitude to enemies.

I'm grateful to my enemies and offenders as they made me so strong that now even my own fears run away from me in fear.

2492.

It's not nice to say no to good people.

2177. Love for the Beast

Surely you also have to love the Beast of the one you love.

2021.

Calmness and placidity are signs of noble nature.

Vile people are carnal minded.

2016.

I met a person and that person was much more virtuous than me and I looked so low next to him. I notice it and felt ashamed. So I took the best from that person to become better myself.

1976.

To know when enough is enough is like to to know how to use spices. There is a fine line between not salting enough and oversalting.

1978. Let's get over insults.

Remember that everything has its time period. Insults resemble debts. And if debts have been long stale, it's necessary to forget and forgive them.

1544.

Everyone lies... People lie a lot especially about themselves and their relatives or fellows. Lie to seem better than they really are. Lie to avoid pauses in the conversation. Lie just for fun...

That's why if they tell you something and it evokes some deep emotions or wonder in you, take it easy as there's a big probability it's a lie.

1538.

Be sincere. Falsehood makes a person unreal, artificial, turns him into a plastic doll, which is unpleasant to deal with.

9.93.

Don't say what you think, just don't. Say three times less or keep quiet.

3.5. We are united.

The main point of Syntalism is that we are united. We are the same in a good way. I am you, you are I, and that’s why we should treat one another as we would treat ourselves without trying to suppress ourselves. The desire to dominate ourselves is arrogance.

3.9.

The same words cause completely different reactions in different people.  However, the smarter people are, the more unified the reaction is, because smart people look at the essence of things, not their form.

4.7. Arrogance’s vicious circle.

A person’s disrespect for another person is the absence of love for a close one. These people are infected with arrogance and despise each other. They have what to despise one another for – the sin of arrogance deserves despise.

5.5.

Half of a person’s success in life depends on his communication skills. Loneliness is always the result of the inner rather than of the external. Any person would be glad to communicate but he is so afraid… so afraid…

5.7. I’m a fool…

Nothing spoils a person more than his infinite desire to criticize or to give valuable advice… The two common cents you contribute to the conversation are like flies in a soup. Nobody likes flies, so remember that your criticism, moaning and valuable advice are as if you kept saying I’m a fool, I’m a fool, I’m a fool…

5.9.

The safest type of conversation is when you listen to the interlocutor, understand, empathize with him and clearly articulate their own problems.

7.7. A proud sufferer.

Ask, and it shall be given you, but many people do not want to ask out of arrogance. We don’t want to ask anything, they say. We want that it be given to us just like that. If we ask, we will be in debt. Arrogance turns them into sinners and makes them suffer.

Ask, and it shall be given you, but many people do not want to ask out of arrogance. We don’t want to ask anything, they say. We want that it be given to us just like that. If we ask, we will be in debt. Arrogance turns them into sinners and makes them suffer.

8.3.

The main weapon of a woman in a relationship with a man is her ability to reiterate her requests again and again until she gets his positive response.

90.

We are all full of flaws, but

I forgive you, my friend...

I'm sentimental...

You didn't bring into my life

wit, not contributed

good mood,

not even a nice attitude.

a follower....

But all OK…

Over the years you've become

part of that landscape, 

which I don't want to change.

94.

A woman will be very grateful for everything you

do for her...

But once you refuse to do something for her...

the first thousand grateful moments will soon be forgotten.

97.

The desire to take without giving anything back

is often disguised by

the desire to give what they don't ask for...

… and then angrily demand what they don't give

back in response...

104.

The traitors burn in the ninth circle of Hell

giving off strong and succulent smell...

since there's no worse sin than treachery...

and no worse sinners than traitors...

123.

Many people naively believe,

that makes others a lot

feelings and emotions.  And that others

nothing to do but talk about them

something to think about.  The truth 

it is concluded that 99.9% 

people passing by we 

perceive as shadows,

with hard remembering their contours.

To remember the name of it is a feat...

Ordinary remembrance of man

looks like a blurry outline.,

which is something it once 

of us want...

167.

Everything demands the sense of proportion, even the sense of proportion...

3.13.

When your only friends are things, it's very sad.

3.21.

People are mostly divided into those who have love and those who have no love.  Those who have no love are always anxious to exchange it for something from those who have love.

3.32. A miracle of love.

A miracle is love. Love is fusion and synergy. Love is more than addition and subtraction. Love is always 1 and 0 transforming into 10.

3.41. Dog idealism.

I noticed that after your friend was a dog, to be friends with people do not really want to. 

3.79.

Those who fight and argue with me love me more than anything, because to fight something, you need to know.  My enemies know me even better than my friends.  Knowledge is love.  My enemies have dedicated their lives to fighting me, I am so glad of their attention.  I know that even if my friends leave me, my enemies will always be loyal to me.

4.16. Leave the Hippo alone.

It's not an easy job dragging a Hippo out of the swamp...  Hippo resists and does not want to leave his warm and cozy home.

4.18.

Vile people cause in the audience the most vile feelings.

4.19.

Interestingly, sympathy, sympathy and solidarity are one and the same.

4.30.

The ability to be honest and tell the truth is the ability to tell bad news.  To break the news to hard, scary and requires a lot of force.  It takes a lot of hard training to learn to tell the truth.

4.60.

The easiest way to kill love is to count it in money.

4.63.

Check whether this is true love or not, very simply, deprive a person of money, ask for a personal favor and look at his reaction.

4.64.

Fake love, if it is deprived of wealth, gets angry and runs away.  True love, even after losing everything, will endure everything and will remain true to itself.

4.68.

Wisdom is happiness, wisdom breeds friendship.  Friendship and good relations with people and themselves a this happiness.

4.88.

Man would very much like to be good, but he is too weak and stupid to have the strength to do it.  Bad to be hurt bad, so bad people always suffer and have a very horrible look.  However, do not be afraid of evil, evil it is very weak and only attack from fear.  If it sees in you good and love, it will run up to you and will, caressing, lovingly lick hands.  Give him a piece of sugar, make him happy.

490.

If you people say something, smile back and nod, they love it.  To delve and, especially, to do anything at the same time is not necessary.

4.90.

The capacity for ritual is the capacity for love.  If a woman sees that a man has dreams and he systematically implements them, then we can hope that he is able to love.

4.92.

An attempt to control a person is an attempt to steal freedom ...theft and enslavement.  Slaves hate their masters.  If you understand love as possession, the one you love will hate and despise.

5.10.

Judge not, lest ye be judged ...because while you judge others, others judge you.  Trust me, you have so many sins that it is worth to know about them to anyone, you will die of shame and fear.

5.13. Summer conversations on a green meadow.

Extremely frustrating when you say something to him, and he looks at you like a sheep at a new gate.  What is there to talk about with a sheep?  Remember not to be a sheep, read more.  Reading able any sheep magically turned into a quite decent man, with whom pleasant to communicate. 

5.14.

A conversation is not only what you say but also what you wisely leave out.

5.15.

It is stupid to keep saying yes to your interlocutor. You’d better restate and sum up his point of view in short answers, thus making it clear to your interlocutor that you are all ears.

531.

And I noticed as well that…

the cold makes people closer and united, while the heat on the contrary drifts them apart…

From cold we press to each other, look for warmth.,

and we get distant from heat, rolling to opposite sides of the bed trying not to even breathe towards each other.

5.33.

If you desire worthy and wise friends, draw wise and worthy people into your teachers and advisers, and then you will Shine like the Sun or the Moon, people will say he is the light, we want to get closer to him.

544.

The 11th bible commandment - take your time...

606.

I noticed: people like to hear most what they want to hear,

especially said in the most clear words...

In fact, they don't hear anything else...

6.45. Paranoid.

Neurotics are very touchy and prone to fears, as soon as they feel the slightest aggression or negative, they immediately take offense.  Chat with them you should either disregard, or love.

6.47.

Neurotics are vain and crazy about compliments and flattery.

6.71. On offended water carry.

First it scares and attacks you to offend.  Then you run away from him, offended.  Then hurt you sit and cry, feeling sorry for myself, and it is ideal friendly and smiling...  Then you carry water for him.  If you want to run away, it repeats everything again.

6.74.

They are so lacking in support, love, confidence that they are willing to give everything for them.

679.

Males are not resistant to flattery. They melt in a puddle from it

and flow somewhere.

698. [In brevi]

In order not to see people as ungrateful, don't be a lender to the borrowers. If you want to make a good deed- give a present.

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The most precious people in this world are the ones who give us job and pay well for it.

The most precious in this world are the people working on us and giving us what we need while making us happy.

7.10. Two of the egoist.

An egoist is a person who doesn't want you to like him.  We like to take offense at those who do not want us to like, this offense is also called selfishness.

7.16. It's a shame when a person does not need anything from you.

Resentment at someone else's indifference is called selfishness.  It's selfish to resent people for not being interested in you.

7.17.

A lie is necessary to hide the true motives of human actions. The truth makes a person bad, he has to lie even to himself to be good.

7.20. «Quid pro quo» system is called social barter.

Social barter is a basis for social division of labour. Quid pro quo, everyone shares what he has. The person who wants to be loved for nothing is an egoist and a freeloader. Every person should bring benefit.

Social barter is a basis for social division of labour. Quid pro quo, everyone shares what he has. The person who wants to be loved for nothing is an egoist and a freeloader. Every person should bring benefit.

7.21. The illusion of a contractual relationship.

A person who does something for another person, secretly hoping to please him and for this wanting something from him, concludes a black contract, that is, a one-sided contract, which is known only to him.  The second party, without ratifying such a contract, is free to execute it. 

7.44.

Try not to create debt, it's not good when people feel like they owe you something, nobody likes debt.  So take a reasonable fee at once.

7.57. A man in whom one can have faith.

A reliable man is a man whom one can trust and in whom one can have faith – it’s a good man. Those in whom one cannot have faith are bad and we call them sinners.

7.67.

Keep your pride in chains, and feed someone else's...  People love to feed their vanity.

7.74. A rotten man.

A dejected man is a flawed man. The following are the manifestations of dejection: laziness, vileness, nihilism, somnolence, apathy and so on.

7.83. What to look at in the first place.

What matters most in a man is how well he controls his monster.

783. [In brevi]

If you want something from someone, just give them what they want.

7.87. Balancing system.

When you give, people automatically want to give something back.  Give people a good mood, thank them, give small gifts, help to realize their desires, amuse self-esteem, and they will love you in return.

787.

I'm trying to get a new thought out of making somebody's acquaintance. To galvanize a person into doing something useful is often a difficult thing to do. But often enough people share information easily, as well as give fresh ideas and galvanize into doing something useful.

Even really empty people may provide me with very interesting and unusual thoughts, or make me want to perform their job for them, and thus train well or just do a good thing...

Even idiots, causing a lot of problems are totally useful.

Those problems that they cause make you muster all strength and make you stronger and better.

And if you happen to talk to a smart person, then you'll simply plunge into an ocean of pleasure. The main thing in it all is to have a subject for discussion, otherwise it's very difficult to get use out of a yuk-yuk. It's like fishing with one's hands in a lake...

788.

Watch your words carefully.  People are quite easily offended, especially loved ones.  Communication is a ritual, the violation of the ceremony of which is fraught with mutual grievances.

7.92. Don't waste energy on resistance.

No need to argue, no need to justify anything.  You need to listen carefully and think about how you can use the situation for the benefit of the case.  Even if I disagree, there is no need to argue.  Say, all right, all right, let's think.

7.93. A nut can be broken down, but a rubber ball cannot.

If you want to break down your team, pretend to agree or act neutral, do not argue and do not protect anyone, avoid pressure, just nod but, deep inside, do not believe and take no notice. Do not be as stupid as a nut, or you will be eaten.

797.

From a particular point of view, all events are quite predictable and obvious. People's motives include greediness, lust, vanity, laziness, pleasures, offence, love, hate and other feelings.

8.13. It brings joy to bring joy.

It's a great pleasure to bring joy as the source of joy is happy.

8.15.

It's nice to realize.

8.72.

A useless waste of time is the same as a useless waste of money.

8.79.

Look for those who are ready to serve you and serve them just as devotedly as they serve you.

8.84. About benevolence.

Try to be less insulting towards people for no reason as there's no use in it but the potential harm is unlimited.

8.85.

The world is wonderful but it can be seen as worse only due to bad mood.

8.89.

Many people's feeling that they give more than get back is often linked with being inattentive to people. You give people what you want and as much as you want, ignoring their real needs and desires. You think you're of high value, but in fact your value is extremely low, and what you get back is your fair price.

If you want to raise your price-raise your value. Study people, study their desires

948.

Wisdom is the ability to listen to another's point of view and take it while finding common points in both opinions. And only after this trying to prove something.

9.78. Think what you ask and who you ask!

When you ask a man for something he can't help you with, you hurt him a lot. After all, helping people is a joy. By depriving him of joy, you hurt him.

9.86.

You never know who is talking about, we'll listen to what they are silent.

1027.

It's very effective to ask for pieces of advice ...they give it easy...as they have enough of them…

Pieces of advice are not like money given unwillingly. But some advice may be more precious than money...

10.42.

A person whose self-esteem, mood or well-being are dependent on other people can be called a weak and dependent person.

1142.

If you go in a circle, the first time it will seem that you go forward.

1180.

Helping a friend is an investment, just like any other investment: you can have 1000% margin, but sometimes you just lose a 100 rubles. Economists say that the resources must work, thus if you do not help, you decrease the value of what you have…

1208.

There are people that inspire you for new thoughts and actions, and those who kill everything which is good in you. I think that you don’t need to be a wiseman to understand how to choose people to be close to rationally…

1216.

The best option of communication is to ask the advice of a person.

1217.

The worst way to communicate is to give advice when you are not asked.

1220.

The larger your audience, the simpler your words should be.

1496.

If a person wants to share joy with you, take it as a sign of trust and participate in joy together. Common joy makes people closer.

Don't spoil or mix this pure desire with dirt by indifference, hatred or what's even worse- by desire to share your fears and concerns for the future with this person.

1516.

Don't judge people by their calm expression on the face or their looks. People like to put on masks and the more experienced a person is, the more masks this person has. Behind a totally calm and nice face a real psycho or an utter idiot may hide. And taking into account that there are no normal people at all, then the nicer and more normal a person seems to be, the heavier and worse this person's sins will seem in close up.

Anyway, it's better to be careful with people from the very beginning as only time and working together will let you get to know them better.

With all other things being equal, the only thing that matters is how well one does one's job and on's ability to engage in personalities.

It's rational to ignore and not deal with people who like to engage in personalities. Any profit or money gained from them don't matter at all. There are many perhaps not quite normal but quite sane people in the world.

1522.

There's no need to overestimate people or consider them better than they are. Generally, people are approximately equal. We often think that we're special or not like others. But secretly we often consider ourselves worse than others; sillier, weaker, less lucky etc. But actually thoughts like these probably torture many people (regardless of their age), no matter how successful, strong or smart...

In essence, any person may get the following thoughts and emotions on the inside: uncertainty, doubts, complexes, permanent lack of understanding of what goes on and what to do next or how to live in general, lack of self-belief.

A person is always full of many desires most of which won't come true. As a rule, no matter how old one looks on the outside, on the inside a person remains the same little young gold fish swimming in a huge ocean of emotions and passions that overwhelm human soul.

And anything on the outside is a mask. A shell. A shield.

That's why let's not be judgemental towards people. Take off a person's mask and he or she will cry or laugh like a child...

1529.

It's important to forgive people. People are far from being perfect and are full of sins and weaknesses. For they don't know what they are doing. People are slaves to their desires, passions and their nature. So what to blame them for if they can't even control themselves... It's only what happens now that matters and it's irrational to