Conversation Skill. Self Improvement. Communication Psychology Encyclopedia

By Soloinc Logic

Book of Variothoughts series “Conversation skill”. The conversation skill is one of the most important and useful in our lives, which should be mastered first. People love those who can talk. Talking is an important social skill. In the book, the reader will find many useful tips, tricks and techniques useful for the art of conversation.
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The main feature of the books "Variothoughts" is their unprecedented honesty and versatility. No censorship of thoughts, absolute freedom of ideas and words. Variothoughts is a guide to the labyrinths of thought. Concentrate of information. Time is money. Secret knowledge, forbidden and lost wisdom. Thoughts that will forever change your understanding of life. Knowledge is power.
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Variothoughts is a book for those who save their time. Ready-made Lego cubes used to put together any ideas and goals. The DNA and RNA of thought. Variothoughts books should be read slowly, chewing every thought carefully. Truth is that which has extension properties, and falsehood is pride, that is, an avid rush.
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The reader is offered a thematic set of Syntalism thoughts, aphorisms and metaphors on the topic indicated in the title of the book. The meaning of Variothoughts is the search for 3D truth. The knowledge of truth comes through the denial of lies, which are infinite, so the act of faith associated with the knowledge of truth is an infinite source of joy and strength. Great thing the truth? Great thing a lie?
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Attention! The book was published in the author's version. The book contains many strange thoughts, fictitious words and non-standard speech forms.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Soloinc Logic
• Release date: May 15, 2020
• ISBN: 9780463235263

Soloinc Logic

SoloINC (anc.greek "combining the uncombinable", keeper of the grain")Soloinc Logic, philosopher from the city of Sofia. Soloinc (Diamond Solo / Solodilov Dmitry), Bulgarian psychologist and Stoic philosopher. Supporter of the merger of logical and sensory methods of cognition. He considers the connection of traditional philosophies with modern science. He is the founder of the cyberphilosophy of Syntalism (Quantum Nanophilosphy), which considers the problems of philosophy, sociology, psychology and economics in terms of systemic cybernetics and logic.Soloinc is not the first, but the last philosopher. Evangelist and cyberpunk guru. The author of more than 74 thousand original ideas and thoughts. Main books: “Variothoughts”, “Diamond Stoic”, “Theory of Existence”, “Money Bible”, “Quantum Philosophy”, “Mathematics and Progression”, “Velerechie”, “The Device of the Mind”, “Royal Buffoon”, “Liberastia” , "Surrotic", "Surfutur" and others, in total more than 888 books.Knowledge in ancient books is clothed in the form of allegories and riddles in order to isolate it from those in whom there is no love of truth and beauty. On the other hand, overcoming obstacles breeds love. Love is God, one of the facets of truth.The key to the door is love, and the door is love. When there is no love, there are no keys and no door. Variothoughts is a book of allegories, secrets and lost wisdom. The truths contained in Variothoughts are reliably protected from people in whom there is no love by such entities as extension, distribution, abstractions, falsehood, translation features. People deprived of love are lazy, inattentive, impatient, greedy, venomous, full of skepticism and doubt. Truth is inaccessible to the proud, and it pleases, for truth is power. Truth speaks to the proud, go to hell.Variothoughts is a guide to the labyrinths of thought. Concentrate of information. Time is money. Secret knowledge, forbidden and lost wisdom. Thoughts that will forever change your understanding of life. Knowledge is power. The main feature of the books "Variothoughts" is their unprecedented honesty and versatility. No censorship of thoughts, absolute freedom of ideas and words.The meaning of Variothoughts is the search for 3D truth. The knowledge of truth comes through the denial of lies, which are infinite, so the act of faith associated with the knowledge of truth is an infinite source of joy and strength. Great thing the truth? Great thing a lie?****************************************************In fact, Variothoughts is very tedious. I have seeked the truth all my life, then I found it and concealed it in a different place. Variothoughts is an intellectual quest and a mosaic of truth, broken into thousands of pieces. I found the truth in plain sight and concealed it back as well as before... What’s the point? It’s a game or a way to kill boredom. We live eternally and boredom turns our life into hell. I want to save you from sufferings for some reason...

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Conversation skill. Communication psychology encyclopedia

Variothoughts Series

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Prologue

10.22334. A grain of sand.

Variothoughts is sand, not gold.  According to Syntalism, our world is built of sand, not gold.  The most valuable thing is sand, sand is bread, and gold is salt. 

10.22742.

Variothoughts books should be read slowly, chewing every thought carefully. Truth is that which has extension properties, and falsehood is pride, that is, an avid rush.

10.22339.

There are no questions that cannot be answered in the Variothoughts. The Variothoughts is an endless source of inspiration for hearts searching for truth.

10.22266. Nutcracker.

Breaking stereotypes and patterns.  Variothoughts is a brain-crushing book, the meaning of which is to achieve the integrity of the mind.  First, all beliefs should be destroyed in the dust, and then it will all stick together and enlightenment will come.

10.22554. The living and the dead book.

In the original, Variothoughts is the ideal of the perfection of truth, but the ideal is dead and, therefore, there is no joy in it. To bring back the joy of life to Variothoughts, I decided to salt the bread. Salt-free bread is too sweet. In Variothoughts translations, I threw a couple of spoons of chaos. My act of monstrous vandalism led to the loss of 20% of the meaning, and made the texts very strange and obscure. You will call me a scoundrel and a vandal, but I don’t think so ... On the contrary, I believe it made the texts charming, created artificial barriers ... Now, to understand the texts of Variothoughts and find the truth, you have to smash your head and think. Thinking is joyful.

10.15530.

The basis of speech is truth. Cognition of truth should begin with clarifying the meaning of words.

10.16833.

The main feature of Variothoughts is its unprecedented honesty. No censorship of thoughts, absolute freedom of ideas and words.

5.412.

Variothoughts is a book for those who save their time. Ready-made Lego cubes used to put together any ideas and goals. The DNA and RNA of thought.

3.2212. Attainment of truth.

A comprehensive attainment of reality occurs by knowledge’s thinning of its tiniest degree of detail.

3.2213.

Unity is hidden in differences. You unite by disuniting. Holding one onto another, the infinitely small becomes the infinitely big.

10.6168.

The Variothoughts is a basic library of DNA of thought, loading it into the brain can solve any problem. Any dreams, any goals will be available to you, thanks to the philosophy of Syntalism.

3.1971.

Variothoughts implements divergent thought algorithms in order to come again to unity through a multitude. Many grows out of one and one grows again out of many.

3.2211.

Soundness is the ability to dynamically examine things from different perspectives.

3.2216.

Having reached its limit, knowledge transforms into will. What is the limit of knowledge? – Faith.

10.21243. Love of truth.

The meaning of human life is to overcome infinite loneliness and find infinite love.

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10.16033.

Having got rid of pride, a person becomes pleasant, because he does not want to rule anymore, does not seek praise, does not try to eat his neighbor out of hunger.

10.16139.

An honest person, before saying something, asks himself, am I honest?

10.16405.

People like being allowed to make decisions on their own and don't like being imposed on by others.

10.16406.

I forbid you to criticize other people's tastes.  Love is equal to love, criticizing someone else's love is rude.

10.16418.

Ease is the absence of fear, and therefore the presence of experience and knowledge.

10.16987.

Decent people do not argue about tastes, and the proud and ignorant love to argue, praise their own tastes and blame others.

10.17438.

Laugh when you don't know what to say or do.

10.18299.

Proud people are terribly touchy, and they take any disagreement with their point of view with great pain.

10.18426.

The art of conversation is the art of loving one's neighbor.  One must love one's neighbor.  Love is honesty, benevolence, joy, usefulness, respect, tolerance, kindness, mindfulness, relaxation, and the absence of fear.

10.18451.

You don't need much flattery.  Flattery is poison... in order for poison to become a medicine, it must be consumed in small quantities.

10.19104.

Honesty is the best strategy, and miraculously it always produces good consequences.  Good it does not mean expected and does not mean that you wanted it or will be happy with it, but those that in a system-wide sense can be called good.

10.19181.

How to recognize a proud man?  He is impatient, impatient, inattentive, unfriendly…

10.19793. A harmless motive.

People lie a lot when they want to be liked...

10.19851.

And brag you will brag about in return.  Lie and you will be lied to in return.  Tell the truth and see what happens.

10.19865.

To interrupt is pride, fear, impatience, greed, insult, cowardice, and deceit.  By interrupting, you create lies, destroying the integrity of information.

10.20563.

Say politely " no»  you can keep silent.  Silence is a polite refusal.

10.20589.

Remember, you don't have to say Yes to a person if you want to please them.  Many people really like being told No.  "No»  it awakens in people cheerfulness, love of life and hunting excitement.

10.20655.

Let me stay in my delusion, I want to be in the dark at night.  Light in the night is violence, and I want to sleep.

10.20671.

Try to refrain in conversations from judgments that you were not asked about, judgments are pride and aggression, people do not like it.

10.20732.

You see that a person is playing, play along with him.

10.20803.

Love your neighbor and accept him.  Let the person be themselves, have their own opinion and do what they want.

10.20818.

Everyone is afraid of being thought badly of.  This is normal, we all live in a society.  On the other hand, given that everyone is focused on themselves, people think about others solely about their attitude to themselves.

10.21962.

Breaking someone else's borders is an act of disrespect and aggression, which means that there is no love between you.  But there is a thirst for power and pride.  Keep your distance from those who don't understand the word no.

10.21982. Politeness is when you are calm.

At all costs, be polite.  Decent people swear very politely and constructively, without getting personal.

10.22263.

If someone tells you that they will do something useful, answer, thank you, I just wanted to ask you about it.

1554.

The following ways can be used to create a comfortable psychological background: support by agreement, support by approval, flattery and admiration, approving gestures, sharing common interests and ideas.

1547.

A person gets very nervous and upset when they don’t trust him. Mistrust can be compared to an offence, to an insult .

7.92. Don't waste energy on resistance.

No need to argue, no need to justify anything.  You need to listen carefully and think about how you can use the situation for the benefit of the case.  Even if I disagree, there is no need to argue.  Say, all right, all right, let's think.

5.15.

It is stupid to keep saying yes to your interlocutor. You’d better restate and sum up his point of view in short answers, thus making it clear to your interlocutor that you are all ears.

5.11.

In conversation, hold your breath more often. Your interlocutor uses this pretext to make you a listener, which is good. The more you listen and the less you speak, the more intelligent and smart in all respects you seem to others.

5.12. A vehement listener.

The most important thing in communication is to learn to listen attentively. Don’t get distracted, don’t idly observe flies while reflecting upon the nature of eternity, but listen with great and vehement interest, soaking in every word and gesture of your interlocutor.

5.7. I’m a fool…

Nothing spoils a person more than his infinite desire to criticize or to give valuable advice… The two common cents you contribute to the conversation are like flies in a soup. Nobody likes flies, so remember that your criticism, moaning and valuable advice are as if you kept saying I’m a fool, I’m a fool, I’m a fool…

5.9.

The safest type of conversation is when you listen to the interlocutor, understand, empathize with him and clearly articulate their own problems.

121.

Tell people more about

your problems.

This way you give them joy

and raise their mood...

386.

An empty cart rattles heavily.

Who has nothing to do, he says a lot.

An empty man is like a ringing bell,

In the ears is the hum from it is terrible…

Sheep get scared, cows don't get milked,

Chickens don't grow, rabbits don't get divorced,

From silly talk, my ears hurt.

To kill him, but I am afraid, will put…

490.

If you people say something, smile back and nod, they love it.  To delve and, especially, to do anything at the same time is not necessary.

5.13. Summer conversations on a green meadow.

Extremely frustrating when you say something to him, and he looks at you like a sheep at a new gate.  What is there to talk about with a sheep?  Remember not to be a sheep, read more.  Reading able any sheep magically turned into a quite decent man, with whom pleasant to communicate. 

5.14.

A conversation is not only what you say but also what you wisely leave out.

5.16.

As a consolation, reflexive answers work well.  By affirming aloud the right of a person to suffer, it is as if you are freeing him from suffering.  Now that he knows he had a right to his emotions, it'll be a relief.

536.

A sense of delicacy is the ability to keep silent, when one craves to say what's on the mind.

6.35.

The questions indicate that we managed to attract attention.

6.41.

If you're in doubt about something, break it down into the simplest things that are not in doubt.  So you will know the truth and the faith.

6.42.

A person does not need to be deceived, it is enough to push him, throwing hints and hints at his feet, and then he will deceive himself.

6.47.

Neurotics are vain and crazy about compliments and flattery.

6.49.

It's hard to argue about where everyone agrees.  No joy there.

7.30.

A great way to get out of an unnecessary dispute is to say Yes, of course.  Yes, of course you're right.  The main thing is not to prove