Improve Your People Skills: The Social Skills Masterclass: Proven Strategies to Help You Improve Your Charisma, Communication Skills, Conversations, and Learn How to Talk To Anyone Effortlessly

By John Matthews

Improve Your People and Social Skills For Effective Communication With Your Peers and In Business Today!

Do you feel awkward in social situations where first impressions are so vital? Do you lack confidence and charisma in your daily communications that make you come off as aloof and unengaging? If so, you could be lacking some crucial people skills that are essential to your survival and success in this world.

When it comes to social skills, there is nothing better than having a set of strategies that are proven to set you up for success. In fact, in this way, you are able to learn and discover a lot of interesting aspects about other people that you would not have the opportunity to know if you were too shy to approach them in the first place. 

In "The 1000 Men Strong Leader" You Will Learn:

• Common reasons Why People Suffer From Social Anxiety
• Determining your Motivation To Become More Sociable
• Why Having Social Skills Is So Important 
• Why We Are Social Animals And What It Means To Be One
• Nine strategies To Become A Better Social Player
• Indispensible Communication Tactics For Greater Connections
• How To Follow-Up Conversations

***BONUS***

• The Power of Networking
• How To Master The Art of Presentation
• The Role of Technology And How It Has Affected Our Communication Skills Negatively
• Proven Tips On Attracting, Holding, and Getting Through An Interview Or Conversations With Ease
• Strategies To Become An Effective Communicator
• Discover How You Are The Key To Your Own Success

And so much more...

Discover the 9 strategies become a better social player, make more friends, and get to know other people more deeply. Take the guesswork out of the equation and allow yourself to make full use of your potential right now!

The 1000 Men Strong Leader drives you through a journey where you can visualize and see with your eyes the way you can create your own stream of wealth in Network Marketing. With plenty of actions to take and advice to follow, there is no room left for you to get it wrong when you start to build your network marketing empire. 

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To Your Success!

• Language: English
• Publisher: John Matthews
• Release date: Mar 23, 2020
• ISBN: 9781393247982

John Matthews

John Matthews is a world-renowned authority on the Celtic wisdom tradition and the Arthurian legends. He is the author of numerous books, including The Encyclopedia of Celtic Wisdom. 

Book preview

Introduction

It was not a long time ago that I was struggling with social anxiety. Talking with other people made me very uncomfortable and scared. At first, I thought that I was just shy—or at least this what my parents told me growing up. Being known as the shy kid gave me an excuse to avoid facing my fears and problems. However, it came to a point where I decided to change for the better. I had enough of always shaking when ordering a drink at a club or purchasing a newspaper. I knew I could change and I wanted to do it.

This is the reason why I decided to start researching about social skills and how to apply them in the everyday life. I spent hours and hours over books and videos, trying to grasp the secret of those who were having a successful social life. 

The following chapters will discuss the primary preparedness principals that you will need to apply if you ever hope to really be ready to face a social situation without any issue. Before getting started and diving into the topic, here are a few things to consider and keep in mind. One of the things that will make the biggest difference is the amount of time you spend practicing. As with any other skill, being able to socialize properly takes time with a lot of trial and error. Do not underestimate this part. The last thing before getting started is the ability to try to make a small change every single day. Every day is a new opportunity to build a bit more self-confidence and become better at the social game, so be sure practice on a daily basis.

There are plenty of books on this subject on the market. Thanks again for choosing this one! Every effort was made to ensure it is full of as much useful information as possible. Please enjoy!

Chapter 1: We are social animals

As Aristotle said, humans are social animals. This was the first notion that I came across when I started my journey to become a better social player and increase my social skills. However, one question kept arising in my head. If we are truly social animals, why is it so hard for so many people to convey their message without turning red or start shaking? I decided that shyness was not a satisfying answer and started digging deeper. I found out that, over time, several factors may justify a difficulty in this area. Here are the most common ones:

Inadequate learning of social skills can be determined by the impossibility of observing adults who surround us—sufficiently effectively and protracted over time—or who surrounds us and shapes our education also has difficulty confronting social situations. As a result, the skills that are necessary cannot be acquired. Why? Because we learn by emulating others and if there is a lack of practical examples, there is no way we are able to get social practices in our system.

There is a lack of positive reinforcement from the surrounding environment. This can be linked to the lack of both valid social contacts and positive feedback that are necessary for the development and consolidation of social skills.

A symptom characterized by social anxiety that can reach an intensity that prevents the subject from using all or part of his abilities. This is why having social troubles does not correspond with being ignorant or not having anything to say. The content is there; it is just difficult to pull it out.

The presence of side effects of drugs that can make it difficult to approach social situations. In fact, even if most people think that alcohol can help them become better social players, it is a game that does not last for a very long time. In fact, even if it is true that drinking makes anyone more sociable, it is also true that after the effect has gone away, the insecurity begins to increase. I strongly recommend staying away from alcohol and drugs, especially when working on social skills.

At this point, I was wondering: what can I do to improve my social skills? I knew that there was a way. I just had not found it yet. Then something changed.

I started taking courses on how to date women and know more people. Day after day, month after month, I began to see tangible progress and, soon enough, I became a strong social player. In the next chapters, I will