A Journey to Self-Love: Growing from Abusive Relationships
By White Gerbra
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White Gerbra
White Gerbra is a living example of nurturing love and inner peace. She has a BSc degree in tourism and is a certified angel card reader and trainer. Listening, understanding, and feeling what people mean is her greatest gift. She frequently guides others into a state of love and peace.
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A Journey to Self-Love - White Gerbra
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Dedications
How it all started
Growing up and falling in love
The secret love for my best friend
Handling a stormy relationship
Ignoring relationship red flags
Dying before letting go
How to choose what is best for you
Love is the bridge between you and everything
-Rumi-
Dedications
For the source of higher consciousness who inspired me to share my message with the world.
ThinkstockPhotos486913372.jpgHow it all started
M y name is Sylvia, I was born in a family of 3 children, where I was the first child of my parents. I had a younger sister and brother.
I grew up having a very joyful time with my brother and sister. We lived in the rural areas and my parents had a beautiful large farm, where we could enjoy nature at its best. I loved wandering in nature, looking for singing birds and unique flowers. I could sit under a tree for hours and watch the branches dance on the rhythm of the wind. Whenever I felt unhappy or frustrated, I could escape into nature, followed by my loyal and best friends, my beloved dogs. I could talk with them for hours and they would always give me that innocent and loving look, as if they could really understand me and felt compassion for my situation. This would calm me down immediately in case I was upset. After my wilderness therapy, yes that is how I called it, I could go home again, feeling strong, centered and completely in harmony with my life and the people around me.
But suddenly, there came a time when things at home started to change. My Parents could not get along with each other anymore, and fights between them were beginning to occur more frequently. At first I thought that this was just a stressful period for them, because they had some sudden financial issues. I thought that things would change back soon, just as they were before. But things did not get better, the opposite happened, things got worse. My parents were often fighting right in front of us. But moreover, involving us in their fights, asking us to pick a party. This pressure of being asked to choose between the two people you love the most in your live, was killing me. I could not choose a side, because I loved both my parents very much, and I wanted them both to love me back also. So whenever this happened, I just sat there silently, but in my mind screaming for help, asking them to stop, just stop! It is hard for a child to digest fights between their parents, for most of the times they do not understand why this is happening and feel so powerless for not being able to solve this problem, frequently resulting in self blame. Children are also more open to feel love or fear, for they are like sponges, absorbing every energy that is around them. The best thing to do as a parent is not to fight in front