The Great Secret of Moderation

By Abdelaziz Al-Omrany

If you want your life straightened up, you have to oblige to this great secret. You should be moderate in every aspect of your life. You will find relaxation and tranquility. 

  In my book you will discover that the center is in many things around us, and we did not notice it. The middle is in very great cosmic matters, but only the powerful Creator. Including the presence of our land between the middle of the inner rock planets, including the existence of our entire solar system in the habitable zone of the giant galactic galaxy Milky Way. And the dangers surrounding us at the center of the galaxy (the black hole) and the dense star mass. At its extremities, where the deep space and the danger of space between the Hungarian .. The diameter of our galaxy is 100,000 light years and at its center is the black hole and the giant galaxy monster. If the parties are 50 thousand years away .... Where is the place the center and the best and the most appropriate ... It is 25 thousand years the range of good housing. Who put us in the place ... Is it coincidence and alleged random ...

• Language: English
• Publisher: Abdelaziz Al-Omrany
• Release date: Aug 6, 2018
• ISBN: 9781386761280

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The disadvantages and harms of following desires and delectations

Following desires is getting away from moderation, be aware that to be

Patient being away from desires is easier than to be patient on the result of these desires. Desires entail pain and punishment, or prevent a delectation which is more perfect, or it wastes time which you may regret. Or defame your honor that honor is more useful than all desires. Or waste money which saving it is more useful than spending it on your desires. Or you may waste your prestige and esteem which its existence is more useful than losing it. Or lose a bliss which existence is more useful than losing it. Or expose you to the mean people who has never could touch you someday with harm. Or expose you sorrow, grief, distress and fear which don’t match the joy of your desire. Or you may forget knowledge; its benefit is more useful than gaining desire. Or you may make an enemy rejoice at the misfortune of yours, or disappoint a close friend. Or you may cut the way on a bliss that comes to you. Or you may are stuck to a permanent disgrace as certain deeds leads to certain morals and qualities.

A sweet desire may lead to a long grief.

Limits of morals

Morals have got limits , whenever you overstep these limits, you became a transgressor, and whenever you neglect or go far away from them you became imperfect and insulted.

Anger has its own limit which is the praised courage and to be far away from vices and imperfection. If you overstep limits of anger, you became a transgressor and unjust. And if you go far away from or neglect courage, you became a coward and not far from vices.

Stinginess has got its own limit which is reaching sufficiency in all aspects of life. Whenever you go beyond this, you became unjust and transgressor. You may wish the blessings of others to be vanished and interested to harm them. With all of this, you became a mean, weak and ignoble person.

Desire also has its own limits, -by fulfilling the desire- it, gives relaxation to the heart and mind from the suffering of observing worships and gaining virtues. But if the desires overwhelm one’s life, it becomes lust and greediness by the time this person becomes like an animal. On the other side if desire is neglected or ignored even to seek perfection and virtues, leads to weakness, inability and disgrace.

Relaxation also has got its own limits, the relaxation in which you collect and recharge your mental and physical power to be ready to the worship and gain virtues and make these virtues active all time not affected by tiring and weakness. Whenever relaxation exceeded it became laziness, slackness and loss. If the person tends to over-relaxation, he/she may lose his/her most interests and benefits. on the other hand if he/she forsakes relaxation, may lose his/her power and became very weak and may end his/her life.

Generosity and open-handing is the middle between two edges, one edge, if it oversteps limits, it will become extravagancy and wasting money. On the other edge, if generosity is forsaken, it will become stinginess and niggardliness.  

Courage also has its own limits, if you increase courage it turns into rashness, and if you reduce courage, it turns into cowardliness and weakness. The right position is to be courageous in the exact time of courage and avoiding it in the exact time of cowardliness.

Moawya said to Amr Ibn Al-As: I really didn’t know if you were courageous or a coward. You do things make me say you are the bravest and do other things make me say" you are the most fainthearted.

He replied:

I’m courageous if I have the suitable chance, but if I haven’t, I’m a fainthearted.

Jealousy and worry about wife and daughter have limits. If you increased it, it turns into accusations and ill thinking toward an innocent person. And if you neglect jealousy, it turns into negligence and cause dissolution.

Humbleness also has its own limits if humbleness increases it turns into humiliation and disgrace. And if you forsake it, it turns into pride and arrogance. And if pride increases, it turns into hateful arrogance, and if you forsake it, it turns into humiliation and