Dear Woman #You Deserve to Know...

By Azaria Simelane

Others thought I had more than one book in circulation, yet up my sleeve I do...

It is important to take Care of yourself before you Take Care of Others.

Yodi said, ‘it, pin points the battle of finding Mr Right, changing from being informative to inspirational, still with a plethora of relevance.’

The qualities of the personal trainers in issues of love life is very infinite.
Without a vision you are a liability even to yourself let alone other people...

They are jealous of what you could become and therefore withhold guiding you...

Some men will tremble in your presence, dear. They will find themselves needing you, as a model and mentor. No one can curse the blessed like you. Be careful how you use this enormous power you posses.

Bizarre but unfortunate acts continue to unfold accompanied by more excuses, for a moment now he love you, and suddenly now he loves you not. When the personal trainers,who were shaping his life see for themselves that you are a cut above them they will ever respect you.

One therapy to deal with a disappointment head on is writing up part of what is causing it... When things, in your business, do not go as planed, what do you do? Between midnight and 3.am is the fertile creative time for you to visualise your plans, sing a song of deliverance over your life.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Azaria Simelane
• Release date: Mar 27, 2018
• ISBN: 9781370092208

Azaria Simelane

Azaria Simelane stated teaching Secondary Mathematics and Science inhis early twenties; At Nhletjeni, then Good Shepherd High, then NgomaneHigh and then Ubombo Technical and Commercial High Schools also assistingStaff members with computer and other office automation with ICDL skills athis disposal.His creativity has won him 1. Two National Competitions on Conservation, and his write up was published on a national Newspapers. 2.the first prize for the LULOTE-BMEP (Business Management Educational Programme) logo 3.Startup for Nkilongo Learn to Play Preschool in 2007, 4. The country prize from Saville Foundation Pan-African Awards (teach-a-man-how-to-fish) 2013 for promoting entrepreneurship and innovation in Education.Azaria Simelane continues to fuel his passion for creative writing and his enthusiasm for getting whatever he works on completed inspite of challenges. His life experiences and travels to some different parts of world, has seen him draft more than ten manuscripts to be published on various chosen life changing genres.Contact Details:Azaria M. SimelanePostal Address: Box 108, Big Bend SwazilandMy PostEmail: [e-mail]: [phone]

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DEAR WOMAN

YOU DESERVE TO KNOW

DEAR WOMAN

YOU DESERVE TO KNOW…

Azaria Simelane

Copyright © 2018 Azaria Simelane

Published by Azaria Simelane at Smashwords

First edition 2018

All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording or any information storage or retrieval system without permission from the copyright holder.

The Author has made every effort to trace and acknowledge sources/resources/individuals. In the event that any images/information have been incorrectly attributed or credited, the Author will be pleased to rectify these omissions at the earliest opportunity.

CONTENTS

Foreword

Acknowledgements

Introduction

1. All kinds of Men

2. All kinds of Women

3. Who are you?

4. Seek Basic qualities of A Lovematic Woman

5. Taking Care of yourself before you Take Care of Others

6. Legal Participation for You Is Important

7. What does your Husband to be, Possibly Think, of you?

8. Terms and Conditions-Do’s & Don’ts

9. Why will A Lovematic Man Marry Her

10. She manages her man and their Home

11. She never Gives Up on Her Man

12. She brings out the best in Her Children

13. Relating to other Women

14. Relating to other Men

15. She uses Everlasting Life Lubricant

16. Wifey Material - gets more from her man Lovematic Poem

17. Husband Material

18. What to Do When Things do not go As you Wish

19. A quiz for You First

20. Notes

About the author

Foreword

Dear Reader,

I cherish the era of letter writing between the beloved. The post master was kept busy sorting and then sending the postman, to deliver those, love emitting letters. Feelings were relayed properly by those letters. The hand written ones were the most interesting especially those with challenging handwritings with the note,please do not mind the hand writing but the message, dear, and please reply very soon.

Best regards

Azee

Acknowledgements

For the success of this book I want to express my gratitude to the following people for their assistance in kind, advice, time, guidance, proof-reading and more: The Almighty GOD, My wife and better half, Smangele she advised that I should take my time writing this book as the first one, was a good book. Pastor H. Xaba who said that even with the challenges I was facing in life I should write more books like Paul did in the Bible and that set of my think tank and springs of ideas in motion in spite of trials that were on my being as I was working on this book and living my life with some challenges oozing.

I also want to extend my appreciation to all those who acquired my first book and gave me feed back, Nono was the first who asked me when was the next one coming and that got me thinking about the follow up to the book, "Beyond Kissing you Lovematic woman". Others thought I had more than one book in circulation, yet up my sleeve I do. When more people asked the same question afterwards, the ideas for this book were visualised and prioritised accordingly. The fact that I always wanted to write books and now it was happening gave me much needed alacrity to do so and the visions of the completed projects at hand succeeding made it possible to go on undeterred. The testimonies about the Love of Jesus Christ and his mercies abound also edged me to just do it.

Make Nqala said the first book contained everything. Monica said that she envied my write up and I was blessed. When you are blessed you count your blessings to let everyone know what the Lord Jesus Christ has done for you so that their lives are also blessed, transformed and uplifted by Him. Joel Osteen’s sermon, tilted; God uses your enemies to promote you, blessed my soul in the month of May 2015. It made me understand that the circumstances and upheavals, which I was going through, were meant to promote me using all those who were causing them. This was a great boost to my creative writing spirit.

As I was already writing this book more people who had read the first book began asking me, "where was the next book?" This further probed me to move towards getting it published earlier than I intended to as now they were thirsty to read my next write up. Babe Shabangu from the Irrigation department in Big Bend, your queries, got me moving forward on all works related to this book. His comments on the first book were also so constructive and encouraging.

My gratitude also goes to the UNESCO (United Nations Educational and Scientific Organization) National Commission of Swaziland for assigning me to represent the country in several international workshops. Preparing those country reports sharpened my edge to write books, the response I got when reporting at international level made realise that I had so much to offer to help people.

My daughter Yodi said, "This book pin points the battle of finding Mr Right. It changes from informative to inspirational, still with a plethora of relevance. It is an absolutely outstanding piece of work." Nokwanda Mntungwa - prophesying waya waya, said that it is profound and awesome. Five ladies in the community I live in wanted to be the first to get the copy of the book. As the Almighty is the catalyst may their wish be granted.

Introduction

Dear lovematic woman

I am reminded of the time when writing love letters was a meaningful gesture of affection. Some would write a letter out of a crush for someone and because of just that crush quickly turning into a crack or having developed a new crush for a different person then the letter would end up not being sent or delivered. Sometimes for unknown reasons the letter would never ever, reach its destined recipients to the detrimental blow of its author, who had high hopes, dear to communicate.

Sometimes it would be received by wrong hands and stir some trouble for the recipient. I believe the letters in this book will be received and read by lovematic people, who would appreciate and value the message in it. Other letters would be penned in such bad hand writings that the author of it would apologise for the illegible writing and request the reader not to mind the appearance, of the letter, but pay more attention to the content. Some would have been narrated by someone who could not write at all but urgently wanted to communicate in writing to a beloved person through the help of a learned party.

I am writing this book, made off letters, in each chapter directed to the; real, true women, trendsetters, confident, vivacious, courageous women, bold, envy of the society, goal getters, diva or role model. May the grace and mercies of the almighty set their lives on a truly lovematic life course. This is for aspiring future princesses and queens of their own chosen lifestyles and destiny. For the woman who realises how strong she is when hurt and pain polishes her being-ness, just as an eagle renews her beak, claws and wings to fly more viciously and hunt tenaciously. From time to time, an eagle endures this cycle to sharpen its prowess and survival skills without fail. For a woman who believes in love, in a lovematic world as I would call it. One with fire works that sparkle around this love world at any given time, illuminating it with all the colours of a rainbow. A world surrounded by strong over-stretching lovematic fields with perimeters that can not be measured because it is infinite love.

This love was here in the beginning of everything. It is always there when you reach out you can touch it, feel it, taste it, see it, hear it, smell it and it is will always be there. There are just more ways you can experience this love if you allow yourself to observe it. You just have to take your time slowly observing with a perceptive mind, heart and soul. When you do take some time sensing it, then your whole body will feel it, your tongue will taste it, your eyes will see love, your ears will hear love calling on you, your nose will smell it, that is, all your senses will enjoy love for what it is, not for what we humans want it to be.

A love so wide that you can not go around it, so low you can not go under it, yet so high you can not go over it. That is the pure love from our Almighty Creator. This is for those who believe in hitting the storm with prince charming in golden armour if that is their destiny. It is for lovematic women who earn respect and admiration for living their lovely exemplary life with their chosen husbands and family members, their children included. Even when a partner does not readily show up this love is always in the air because it comes from the Almighty and always embraced by the person owning it. With or without a husband, this one is for you, dear lovematic woman.

As I did define lovematic (a word influenced and inspired by magnetic as a magnet has a force field around it here it refers to the very wide love field that attracts loving people from afar to each other and repel non loving ones), in my other book, Kissing your lovematic wife. As human beings we are capable of emitting a love field around us that has a very high magnitude when compared to the field around a mere magnet. The radius of our lovematic field can go beyond a thousand of kilometres or miles between people who love one another. It can pass through mountains, oceans and go beyond horizons that we see connecting people in love with each other. Where it really exists it makes a way for the people involved to experience it in a very tangible manner, that is how powerful it is, dear.

"You should not use outward aids to make yourself beautiful, such as the way you do your hair, or the jewellery you put on, or the dresses you wear. Instead your beauty should consist of your true inner self, the ageless beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of the greatest value in the sight of the Almighty." Women who know and apply this information in their lives are few and very successful. They make part of the 3% of women welding power in this world. They are not following the crowd or masses and getting lost in the process. They are so focussed on almost daily basis. They are winners when their counterparts who are men fail in leadership.

Many women use so much make-up kind of ignorant of the fact that if they sleep wearing make up it kind of cause their faces to age faster than it would under normal circumstances. They are also not aware of the fact that most men love them as natural as they are. For some the make up make them assume false beauty, yet true beauty comes from within the person, it is not a physical phenomenon. How I wish many women knew and appreciated this fact, the world will be a better place to live in. Some common sense would prevail which is no longer common nowadays.

Later in life the heavy make up that they were using and leaving over night left them with kind of permanent scares on their faces. Fixing these scare will then cost them an arm and a half. The whole make up practice, also aggravates the aging of their faces. Baggy eyes and blue patches on faces that spoil what they should be if only they knew better the consequences they could have taken precaution. I am talking about washing off the make up before they go to bed to allow the face to be as natural as possible, as to preserve it.

It is kind of daunting to observe that some people do not bother to read or seek the relevant information that is good for them until they are in a crisis. Yet being in a crisis may be due to the fact that you failed to prevent landing in it because they were kind of ignorant or arrogant to facts. Some landed in the predicament because they were stubborn to the warnings paraded at them. They were just too proud to observe warnings around them, yet pride comes before a fall, and unfortunately the price they will pay for it is far too dear to corroborate.

Finding the greatest love of all from within, your own self, as woman first, before sharing such with another human being would be the best thing to do. God is love, that is why those who seek him first, are the daring wiser beings and any other things that they desire are added on their lined up successes in life. Experiencing the greatest love of all in solitude first, will be handy at times when humans deny you of the love that you always deserve. You became a being because of this greatest love of all, the sooner you know that and appreciate it and count such as your first blessing then all through your journey in life you will conquer when most people will be failing to go on. You shall be one of the few women who are in control of their lives as they know the secret about the greatest love of all.

Even before sharing your life with a man get to know the facts above and more, let alone bringing a child to this gruesome or precarious world. The experience of interacting with love within your own self before sharing it with another person is the initial step when you explore love itself unpolluted by the presence of the second person. Let it be an intrapersonal affair before it goes interpersonal and so complicated or very spurious that you end up failing to understand it and get carried away to your detrimental crisis that you live to regret.

Many young women miss out the chance to experience love intrapersonally, without the interference of false love that could be dangled by the next immediate person. False love is so costly to maintain yet one of the partners in the whole affair foots the bills knowingly or in such naivety standpoint. In some cases, if not all, they will live with false love in fear of what other people will say about them, yet what ever they say may not be as important as suffering the consequences of false love. People always talk anyhow, for fun, to show off, to criticise, to boast of being knowledgeable or just for whatever reason that may be of no benefit to you.

It was while I was at the final stages of this book that I got informed that not just two STIs have no cure, but five of them, I was mesmerising but that is the naked fact of life, dear. It is also puzzling that the media hardly warns the members of our different societies about these threatening issues of life. That is why people who read get to find information that is well placed in multi-media resources while those who do not miss out on such. There are good books out there that may change your views and actions that is if you make an effort to find them.

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