Seven Marriage Emotions:Decides Destiny

By Jagadeesan Rajendran

There is no such thing called a perfect life. Every human have their own version of problems and recent days most of them experience marital crisis. This book is a sincere attempt of spotlighting the impact of human emotions in relationships and perseverance of reader will help them to self-study of their life to understand how those emotions influenced their life. This book will help you how to think during the hard times of marriage, not what to think. This book is for every person in or was in or wants to in relationship, no matter your current marital status. Recommended if you are in Love, Living together, Married, Separated, Divorced, Single Parent or Joint Parents; not knowing how to handle emotions is cause of most marriage crisis. 

ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Jagadeesan Rajendran was an expert in Sales & Marketing from Chennai, India. He held a MBA in Marketing Management, a B.E., in Mechanical Engineering. He delivered motivational speeches in several occasions and passionate with travel, books, movies, script writing, lyrics and poetry. He also penned lyrics and directed a private music video. When he had personally addressed several human lives are undergoing misery due to marriage crisis, and the way their emotions manipulated by the system devastated him. People waste time, energy and money in therapies, legal aids haunted him. The people suppose to help them were actually exploiting them, irrespective of their education and experience most of the people actually don’t know how to handle those situations. His views and suggestions helped many people in both genders. He wrote this book with intention of reaching more of such souls, longing to hold someone who can support.

• Language: English
• Publisher: JAGADEESAN RAJENDRAN
• Release date: Feb 22, 2018
• ISBN: 9781386647744

Jagadeesan Rajendran

Jagadeesan Rajendran was a Sales & Marketing expertise for 20 years has origin from Chennai, India. He held a MBA in Marketing Management, a B.E., in Mechanical Engineering and discontinued his M.E., in Printing & Packaging Technology. He perceived his career in various industries like Engineering Instrumentation, Laser Marking & Coding, CIJ Printing, and presently working in IT industry in Dubai. He delivered motivational speeches in several occasions and passionate with travel, books, movies, script writing, lyrics and poetry. He also penned lyrics and directed a private music video. When he had personally addressed several human lives are undergoing misery due to marriage crisis, and the way their emotions manipulated by the system devastated him. People waste time, energy and money in therapies, legal aids haunted him. The people suppose to help them were actually exploiting them, irrespective of their education and experience most of the people actually don’t know how to handle those situations. His views and suggestions helped many people in both genders. He wrote this book with intention of reaching more of such souls, longing to hold someone who can support. His travels gave him opportunity to meet and discuss on similar issues with more people in different countries and cultures made him to realize this as a universal problem. Email: [e-mail]

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INTRODUCTION

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Life is a simple, and the beautiful gift earned by us. The very first lesson we must learn in life is that we are here to learn. In the process of learning, I am always curious and attracted to things which I can’t define. One of such thing is how to understand human emotions in simple way, especially when they are undergoing a relationship crisis. Life is simple, only people are making it difficult. I have not reasoned for the cause of problems in marital crisis with god or karma, because the one and only reason for such crisis is our own decisions. The advance modern civilization means finding solutions for the problems we have created.

There is no such thing called a perfect life. Every human have their own version of problems and recent days most of them experience marital crisis. This book is a sincere attempt of spotlighting the impact of human emotions in relationships and perseverance of reader will help them to self-study of their life to understand how those emotions influenced their life. This book will help you how to think during the hard times of marriage, not what to think. This book is for every person in or was in or wants to in relationship, no matter your current marital status. Recommended if you are in Love, Living together, Married, Separated, Divorced, Single Parent or Joint Parents; not knowing how to handle emotions is cause of most marriage crisis.

This book written after a long-term exploration and opportunities of discussing with people's (Name’s and profession changed) those experienced problems with their marriages. It’s written without any gender bias and addressed to both genders. I believe most of the emotions are common for the both genders and only the depth varies with every person. This book will help you to understand how human emotions changed the behavior pattern of your life, no matter at which stage you are now.

Although, therapy is the best approach during marriage crisis, personally I am not fond of therapist and their tasks and exercises. There is a difference between discussing and experiencing a problem, it’s merely very hard to fit hundred percent in the shoes of another person mind. I am always happy about the things I have done in my life. Not always happy about the results, but happy about the decisions. Because I made them myself and I believe that is an important way to go through life. Sometimes one small incident is enough to change you for the rest of your life, like falling in love at first sight or falling out at first fight. Success of this book will accomplish, if it can change at least one person’s life.

CHAPTER 1 - RESPECT YOUR EMOTIONS

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Love is nothing but a bunch of emotions and love is the final truth behind all existence. Sometimes love dies but relationship goes on and sometimes relationship dies but love goes on. These both cases happen with a common reason that not competent to handle emotions. Marriage built on the emotional ground and it’s crucial to conceive it in more legitimate way shall help us to decide either to treasure or neutralize the relationship. Emotions are collective state of mind and mostly it’s a combination of multiple feelings. The original role of emotions is compelled to motivate human life with better and stress free relationships. In human psychology emotions considered to study the behaviors pattern and self treated by practicing of alternative right emotions.

Marriage is a crazy game and like any other game, sometimes you win and sometimes you learn. But contending for the survival and see if you’re worth it is the most important part of this game.  You just have to learn to fight for yourself and no one’s is going to save you. Any relationship has to constantly move forward or it dies at some stage. To deal this process more efficiently one must to know how