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    Lover?: A Guide to Reflections on Life, Death, Caring & Grieving
    Lover?: A Guide to Reflections on Life, Death, Caring & Grieving
    Lover?: A Guide to Reflections on Life, Death, Caring & Grieving
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    Lover?: A Guide to Reflections on Life, Death, Caring & Grieving

    By Nkaré Zekelaga

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    Lover? honors the simple ways that we connect in the here and now. Each page contains just a few words that invite you to fill in your story of life’s most profound experiences: caring, loss and grieving. Death, the ultimate loss, seems so permanent, so unforgiving. Telling our stories cracks open the shells of grief, transforming the pain into precious pearls of wisdom.
    When it is transformed, the grief of lost love can sweeten the relationships that remain, inspiring us to love more consciously, to care more gently and to live more presently. As we pursue our goal-oriented modern lives, this little book reminds us, in the words that my mother often quoted, to give our loved ones their flowers while they yet live.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherNkaré Zekelaga
    Release dateFeb 13, 2018
    ISBN9781370183951
    Lover?: A Guide to Reflections on Life, Death, Caring & Grieving

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