I Love You but I'm Not in Love with You: Seven Steps to Saving Your Relationship

By Andrew G. Marshall

How do you fall back in love? This was the underlying problem of one in four couples seeking help from relationship therapist Andrew G. Marshall. They described their problem as: 'I love you but I'm not in love with you'. Noticing how widespread the phenomenon had become, he decided to look more closely. Why were these relationships becoming defined more by companionship than by passion, and why was companionship no longer enough?

From his research Andrew has devised his own unique programme. By looking at how a couple communicate, argue, share love, take responsibility, give and learn he offers in seven steps a reassuring and empowering map for how two individuals can better understand themselves, strengthen their bond and recover that lost magic.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing
• Release date: Feb 15, 2010
• ISBN: 9781408810989

Andrew G. Marshall

Andrew G Marshall is a marital therapist with twenty-five years' experience. His self-help books include the international best-seller I Love You But I'm Not in Love With You (Bloomsbury, 2007). His books have been translated into over fifteen different languages. He also offers private counselling and workshops in London and writes for the Mail on Sunday, Times, Guardian and Psychologies magazine. He lives in West Sussex.

Reviews for I Love You but I'm Not in Love with You

[john257hopper · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

This is a useful book for exploring relationship problems, particularly in situations where things are not dreadfully bad, but just...meh, to use a very useful and expressive modern coinage. Not a life changer, but I have picked up some useful techniques and ways of keeping a proper perspective on relationship issues.