Healthy Love Hate Relationship: Quest for a Baby Boy

By Jeffrey Jefferson

Love hate relationship as an interpersonal relationship involving alternating emotions can be applied to relationships with inanimate objects, or even concepts, as well as those of a romantic nature or between siblings and parents.
Tom went to extreme trying to fulfill his personal desire to make his family proud, look good and respectful as to the standard in his home country but on the contrary, produced five girls while trying to have a boy. He showed unconditional healthy love to his wife and children despite not been able to achieve his dream of having a baby boy after five attempts, but, he never let that deter his love to his family.
He never wanted to hurt Jenet's feeling hence he decided to hide his country's old traditional rituals from her for such a long period of time. After trying those rituals himself, Tom then discovered they are only false believes and rituals their grand-parents inherited, and no one has ever questioned the authenticity of such rituals. He decided to get rid of it by trying to educate his people against the perils of such old false believes and rituals and on the process was fatally stabbed.
Love as a general expression of positive sentiment is commonly contrasted with hate, but to Jenet, understanding your partner before negative reaction is just the key. Love is sometimes contrasted with friendship, although the word love is often applied to close friendships.
Their unconditional love proved that you can easily turn hatred back into love by simply understanding your partner and the situation that created the love hate relationship environment at the first place. Love refers to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes that ranges from interpersonal affection to pleasure, and can refer to an emotion of a strong attraction and personal attachment.
It can also be a virtue representing human kindness, compassion, and affection and can also describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one’s self or animals.
Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and may be understood as a function to keep human beings together against menaces and to facilitate the continuation of the species. Despite the pressure, burning desire and quest for a baby boy from his parents, Tom was patient and never lose his cool and unconditional love for his wife and five girls until the elusive baby boy came when they are least expecting.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Jeffrey Jefferson
• Release date: Aug 29, 2014
• ISBN: 9781311312051

Jeffrey Jefferson

Jeffrey Jefferson worked as an Accountant for several years. He took a detour from accounting and became a marketing director with several private, multinational and manufacturing corporations before trying his hand at writing fiction.Educated in Asia and North America, Jeffrey Jefferson, holds two business degrees - a Bachelor of Business Administration (BBA), major in Accounting and a Master of Business Administration (MBA), major in Marketing and General Management.He is a webmaster and has written several articles and blog posts.

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Healthy Love Hate

Relationship

Quest for a Baby Boy

Copyright 2014 Jeffrey Jefferson

Published by Jeffrey Jefferson at Smashwords

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Table of Contents

Acknowledgements

Prologue

Chapter 1 - Early life of a young man

Chapter 2 - Academic adventure

Chapter 3 - First love steps in

Chapter 4 - When healthy love knocked

Chapter 5 - The graduation

Chapter 6 - Ultimate life decision

Chapter 7 - Healthy romantic engagement

Chapter 8 – Alex: baby girl number one

Chapter 9 – Alice: baby girl number two

Chapter 10 - Twin baby girls number 3 & 4

Chapter 11 - Parental love hate

Chapter 12 – Abigail: fifth baby girl

Chapter 13 - Love hate romance

Chapter 14 - Ultimate ventures

Chapter 15 - Compassionate love

Chapter 16 - Angello: miracle baby boy

Chapter 17 - Messages and tributes

What this book teaches

Epilogue

About Jeffrey Jefferson

Acknowledgements

Healthy love hate relationship is about friendship, dedication, loyalty and love, and is dedicated to two people I hold so dearly in my heart, who have been there for me from day one but could not live long enough to enjoy the fruit of their labor. My late mother, Madam Rose, and my late father, Mr. Christopher, without whom none of these would have been possible.

I also want to thank all my friends where ever they are, who so tirelessly supported me with so much kindness while I was writing this book under the most difficult of circumstances. I couldn't have done it without you guys.

Prologue

Healthy love hate relationship of Tom and Jenet, no doubt leaves one to wonder if it’s still possible to have healthy love hate relationship thriving beside each other at the same time. The answer is - yes love hate relationship can survive even at the last minute.

The word love can have a variety of related, but distinct meanings in different contexts. Love as a general expression of positive sentiment, is commonly contrasted with hate, but to Jenet, understanding your partner before, any kind of sarcastic reaction, is the key.

Sometimes, desperate situations push people to act against their wish. Tom was trapped by an old traditional believes and rituals, and found himself in a situation completely beyond his control. But she was clever enough to understand the situation clearly, and instead of turning her back on her husband, she supported him with lots of love.

Jenets's perception of love and relationship generally differs from everyone else - the more reason she was able to handle, and revived a love hate relationship that has developed in her marriage.

She quickly noticed that their marriage is doomed and heading to a rock, and something has to be done but her husband was in no situation to do anything to revive it. She acted firmly, proofing to everyone that love hate relationship could be repaired and kept alive irrespective of the circumstances.

To her, love is sometimes contrasted with friendship, although the word love is often applied to close friendships. Love refers to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes that ranges from interpersonal affection to pleasure. It can refer to an emotion of a strong attraction and personal attachment. It can also be a virtue representing human kindness, compassion, and affection.

It may also describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one’s self or animals. Love in its various forms, acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts. Love may be understood as a function to keep human beings together against menaces and to facilitate the continuation of the species.

A love hate relationship as described by experts is an interpersonal relationship involving simultaneous or alternating emotions of love and hate, something particularly common when emotions are intense. It can be applied to relationships with inanimate objects, or even concepts, as well as those of a romantic nature or between siblings and parents or children.

A love hate relationship develops between them, when he seems to have completely lost the intimacy within their loving relationship, but he still retains the passion and commitment to her and the girls. Her unconditional love to Tom proves that irreconcilable differences as claimed by many as courses for their divorce, is only a tradition and