MJ Singletary-Villalobos practices Gentle Parenting, but there are many other names for it - Conscious Parenting. Mindful Parenting. Respectful Parenting. He believes that all of them come down to a long-term approach in regards to both discipline and the relationship one has with their children. He believes the parent-child relationship should focus on respect and seeing a child as a whole person (no matter their age). From parenting without the use of fear, to handling meltdowns on the trail respectfully, MJ is here for all of it! 
 
Skills of gentle parenting: 
Love 
Patience 
Positive Affirmations 
Treating yourself AND others with love and respect 
NEVER using fear as a guide 

 
In modern society, we separate nature and life…but, in reality, they are one. MJ says that the root of a loving relationship with our children is the same root of our love for nature. He calls on us to empower our children; to let them lead.  
 
When it comes to child meltdowns on the trail:  
Don’t worry about concurring the summit; concur your relationship 
Get on their level 
Let them talk and lead the conversation 
Accept their emotion 
Be a “safe spot” 
Don’t tell them what to think or feel 

 
*In America, a lot of highway systems make nature inaccessible for various classes 
 
Call to action: Get involved. Vote. Speak at town halls. Advocate with non-profits that make nature accessible. In nature, do unto others as you would want done unto you. Be a gentle person, not just a gentle parent. 
 
Book recommendation: Raising Cain by Dan Kindlon, PhD & Michael Thompson PhD 
 
Find MJ Singletary-Villalobos’ book, A Flower Never Picks Itself via Amazon 
 
Follow MJ: 
IG: @verdelobosproject 
 
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Production: @kpmediaproductions. Music: @michaelferraro_music.