Hearts on Fire (101 topics illustrated with stories, anecdotes, and incidents for preachers, teachers, value instructors, parents and children) by Joji Valli: HeartSpeaks Series, #1

By Dr. Joji Valli

Heart is the centre of everything and source of all goodness. 101 carefully selected topics illustrated by relevant stories, anecdotes and incidents on various dimensions of daily life followed by a few points of thought-provoking reflections illuminate the multi-faceted human life in a day to day basis. each of these topics conveys the awareness which is forgotten in the business of a routine life. hearts on fire imparts the wisdom of the ages from various religious traditions and backgrounds, and is the first of a series of books on personal power, spiritual awareness and human values. hearts on fire provides answers for the why s and how s of daily problems that occur in routine life. the author tries to brush up the hidden treasures in each individual, empowering personal powers. sometimes we are ignorant of the powers or treasures within us, and look for solace and happiness outside of ourselves. hearts On Fire encapsulates the personal powers each of us has within and empowers it with awareness for happiness and contentment. besides providing wholesome reading pleasure, hearts on fire awakens individual s awareness and thereby leads to a happy and tension free life. the moment awareness occurs in life thereon life becomes beautiful, beauty surrounds, optimism prevails, miracles occur and we begin to experience the grandeur of god/existence. hearts on fire is an ideal present for a person of any age, who searches happiness and contentment amidst the modernization and development.

• Language: English
• Publisher: CreatiVentures Publishing
• Release date: Sep 5, 2014
• ISBN: 9781502213143

Dr. Joji Valli

Starting his career in management, he worked in India and abroad. He then turned to teaching and became an associate professor in management for MBA. After turning to writing, he authored eight books including the HeartSpeaks series. He launched CreatiVentures and started publishing his books to fight against the mafias of the publishing industry. He now publishes books with the intention of bloomering first-time authors and to challenge the traditional publishing and distribution systems. He has two Master's degrees and a doctorate in CSR. JojiValli bloomered himself with his first book 'Hearts On Fire' in 2003 and continues with his zealous vision of bloomering first-time authors through CreatiVentures.

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Hearts on Fire

101 topics illustrated with stories,

anecdotes and incidents for

Preachers, Teachers, Value Instructors, Parents and Children

HeartSpeaks Series 1

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Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow.

- Ronald E. Osborn

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Hearts on Fire

101 topics illustrated with stories,

anecdotes and incidents for

Preachers, Teachers, Value Instructors, Parents and Children

HeartSpeaks series 1

by

Joji Valli

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All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system without prior written permission from the author or publisher.

Copyright © 2003 by Joji Valli

First Edition : June 2003

Reprints: 2004-2010

Second Edition January 2011

Reprint 2012, 2013, 2014

Published by

CreatiVentures

C-22, Karan Gharonda

Sainikwadi, Pune – 411014,

Maharashtra, India

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Printed by:

Kunal Offset, Pune

CreatiVentures Design - Harish Pawar

HeartSpeaks Foundation

www.theheartspeaks.org

ISBN 81-88360-05-8

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Preface

Stories are an integral part of web of life. They convey valuable lessons, moral values, and wisdom to the human intellect. The wisdom of the ages is passed on to us through stories, to inspire us to lead better and happier lives. All religions and spiritual masters use this medium to convey spiritual truths to their disciples. However, pernicious literature can demoralize and devalue the human spirit.

The twenty-first century is suffocating humanity with technological advancement and modernization. We have no time to relax, to reflect, etc… We lead a kind of mechanical and artificial life. We are trying to cope with modernization but sadly the trips never satisfy us. Technological development leads to materialism and consumerism.

The internet has connected the world into a web where everyone is interconnected. A missing element in the emerging global village is peace of mind and happiness, which afflicts every culture, colour, caste and creed. It is possible when we draw ourselves to the source and find sometimes silence, calming our hearts. This will bring an experience of bliss and joy in our lives.

Hearts on fire is prepared to bring insights to the computer savvy world to retreat to the source, to find peace and happiness. The carefully chosen 101 topics illuminated by relevant stories, anecdotes and 6

incidents on various dimensions of day to day life followed by a few points of thought-provoking reflections. The inspiring and stimulating reflections will lead the reader step by step to a better understanding of life in a chaotic modern world and kindle the Fire in the Heart.

I wish all my valuable readers to fuel the hearts with understanding and thoughtfulness to experience the treasure within.

Joji Valli

Pune, June 2003

Contact details of the Author:

C-22, Karan Gharonda

Sainikwadi, Pune – 411014,

Maharashtra, INDIA

Email.: [e-mail]

www.theheartspeaks.org

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Dedicated to My Parents, Teachers & Friends 8

Acknowledgements

Over a period of time I have collected these stories, anecdotes and incidents from various sources such as Zen, Buddhist, Hasidic, Chinese, Hindu, Christian, Sufi, Contemporary, and so on and so forth.

I thank and acknowledge its source for making these invaluable resources available. Pardon is sought and apology is made if I have infringed upon the copyright of materials presented in this book. So I humbly acknowledge no credit for the stories, anecdotes and incidents used in this book because it is the wisdom of the ages passed on to me over a period of time.

And the reflections are the outcome of my hardcore encounter with the real life experiences.

I am thankful to Ms. Philomena Prazeres and Mrs. Radha Suresh for offering honest and invaluable editorial suggestions to bring this book into being.

Special thanks to all my friends for their love, friendship, inspiration and enduring encouragement.

Apart from this I thank Existence/God for the kindling insights which will transform and enrich the lives of many.

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Contents

1. Acceptance.................................................. 15

2. Alertness ...................................................... 17

3. Ambition..................................................... 19

4. Appreciation ............................................... 21

5. Attachment ................................................. 23

6. Awareness .................................................... 25

7. Beauty ......................................................... 27

8. Burden ........................................................ 29

9. Care............................................................. 31

10.Challenge .................................................... 33

11.Change........................................................ 36

12.Choice ........................................................ 38

13.Common sense ........................................... 40

14.Comparison ................................................ 41

15.Compassion ................................................ 43

16.Conditioning .............................................. 45

17.Confusion ................................................... 47

18.Conviction .................................................. 49

19.Criticism ..................................................... 51

20.Curiosity ..................................................... 53

21.Death .......................................................... 55

22.Decision ...................................................... 57

23.Dependence ............................................... 59

24.Desire.......................................................... 61

25.Difference ................................................... 63

26.Discernment ............................................... 64

27.Division ...................................................... 65

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28.Ego .............................................................. 67

29.Experience .................................................. 69

30.Expertise ..................................................... 71

31.Faith ............................................................ 73

32.Fear ............................................................. 75

33.Fixation ....................................................... 77

34.Foolishness .................................................. 79

35.Fortune ....................................................... 81

36.Freedom ...................................................... 83

37.Frustration .................................................. 85

38.God ............................................................. 87

39.God’s Love .................................................. 89

40.God’s Plan ................................................... 90

41.Growth ....................................................... 92

42.Guilt ........................................................... 94

43.Heart........................................................... 96

44.Hidden Treasures ........................................ 98

45.Human Being.............................................. 100

46.Humility ..................................................... 101

47.Identity ....................................................... 102

48.Imperfection ............................................... 104

49.Impossible ................................................... 105

50.Innocence ................................................... 106

51.Inspiration .................................................. 107

52.Intention ..................................................... 109

53.Joy ............................................................... 111

54.Knowledge .................................................. 113

55.Laziness ....................................................... 115

56.Love ............................................................ 117

57.Love & Share .............................................. 118

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58.Marriage ...................................................... 120

59.Maturity ...................................................... 121

60.Meditation .................................................. 123

61.Mind ........................................................... 125

62.Misery ......................................................... 126

63.Monotony ................................................... 128

64.Observation ................................................ 130

65.Obstacle ...................................................... 132

66.Ordinariness ............................................... 134

67.Perfection .................................................... 135

68.Pleasing ....................................................... 137

69.Possession .................................................... 138

70.Power .......................................................... 140

71.Practicality .................................................. 142

72.Practice ....................................................... 143

73.Prayer .......................................................... 145

74.Prediction.................................................... 147

75.Preference ................................................... 148

76.Preoccupation ............................................. 149

77.Preparation.................................................. 151

78.Pretence ...................................................... 153

79.Reason ........................................................ 155

80.Recognition................................................. 156

81.Religion....................................................... 158

82.Renounce .................................................... 160

83.Repentance ................................................. 162

84.Service ......................................................... 164

85.Sharing ........................................................ 166

86.Silence ........................................................ 168

87.Skill ............................................................. 170

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88.Source ......................................................... 172

89.Stinginess .................................................... 174

90.Tendency .................................................... 176

91.Thanks ........................................................ 178

92.Tit for Tat ................................................... 180

93.Totality ....................................................... 181

94.Transformation ........................................... 183

95.Trouble ....................................................... 185

96.Trust ........................................................... 187

97.Unexpected Fortune ................................... 189

98.Unity ........................................................... 190

99.Vocation ...................................................... 192

100.Worship .................................................... 193

101.Yardstick ................................................... 195

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"He is the Light of Lights, said to be beyond darkness. Knowledge, the object of knowledge and the goal of knowledge. He is seated in the Hearts

of all."

Bhagavad Gita. XIII, 17

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We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.

- Oscar Wilde

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1. Acceptance

farmer had a beautiful horse that he loved very much.

A One day the horse ran away and the farmer had no idea about its whereabouts. Some of his neighbors in the evening gathered to sympathize with him over his bad luck.

He said, It is perfect and fine.

The next morning the horse came back with other six sturdy wild horses, and the neighbors spoke highly of his good fortune. He said, It is perfect and fine.

Incidentally, his son tried to saddle and rides one of the untamed horses, was thrown, and broke his hand.

As usual the neighbors flocked to express sympathy for the bad luck.

The farmer in his normal tone said, It is perfect and fine.

A few days later conscription officials came to the village to recruit young men to the army. Due to his disability the farmer’s son was discarded.

Again, the neighbors approached the farmer to say how fortunate everything turned out. He said, It is perfect and fine.

Whatever happens — Accept it. It is very difficult to accept certain events that happen in our lives. Accept with awareness.

If we accept blindly it is not acceptance. If we are looking for solutions in life the first step is acceptance. Once we accept a problem, we no more brood over it instead look for solutions.

So the faster we get into acceptance mode will reduce the consequences and gravity of the problem. What is important is how soon am I able to bounce back when something

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happens. We should be like rubber balls when it comes to acceptance. When you throw the rubber ball to the floor, it instantaneously bounces back. The faster you bounce back the easier life becomes that is the bottom-line. If you are able to accept you move on. If not you are stuck with the situations or problems.

If you want to relax, acceptance is the way. Acceptance is the gateway to happiness. Accepting life, as it reveals itself is the only antidote to problems in our lives.

Resistance is persistence and anything that we resist persists in life. Sometimes rejection comes before acceptance and it makes us aware of acceptance.

Our entire life consists ultimately in accepting ourselves as we are.

—Jean Anouith

Once we accept our limits, we go beyond them.

— Brendan Francis

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2. Alertness

ronacharya, the great master archer, asked his disciples Dto shoot their arrows at the right eye of the bird sitting on a tree. As the disciples were ready with their bows and arrows, he interrupted them.

Before you shoot, I want to ask a question to each one of you.

What are you seeing? He asked the first one.

He said, I am seeing everything: the tree, the sky, the mountain, and the birds flying.

He went ahead asking the same question to the other disciples.

One disciple said, I can see only the tree on which the bird is sitting.

His answer was satisfactory, but the other one was even closer.

He said, I can only see the bird.

The other said, I can see both the eyes of the bird.

Arjuna was the only one who said, I don’t see anything except the right eye of the bird.

Human tendency is to get focused on many things at the same time and leave out what is important. Focusing with full awareness is essential for attaining any goal. Focus makes your mind alert for the opportunities around. When thoughts are scattered, alertness disappears.

Imagine you are in a market place where so much of commotion and noise happens. You feel like looking at everything and going all around, because you are not able to

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focus and the thoughts are scattered. When you are in a room or place which is very clean where everything is arranged properly and silence is all around. Ambience is good. Your mind calms down and gets focused. The inner talk stops, you become silent. Alertness puts you in a prayerful mood.

Thoughts stop, in alertness the mind disappears, meditation comes into the being. Live each moment as alertly as possible, because only in full alertness mask or false personality can be dropped.

The best gift you could give yourself is a good, relaxing ‘metime.’ When every one of us gets topsy-turvy on our day to day work, we sometimes forget to give ourselves a little break.

Getting overwhelmed by stress impedes our opportunity to enjoy life. So give sometime to yourself, the so called ‘metime.’ Enjoy life! Be aware and be alert!

Don’t empty the water jar until the rain falls.

— Philippine Proverb

You shall use all your senses to monitor very carefully all that goes on about you, inside and outside.

— Sandy Woodward

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3. Ambition

crow was flying with a piece of meat and a dozen of A

crows were chasing him. The crow was very worried and said to himself, I am not doing anything to them I am just carrying a piece of meat in my beak. They are all after me.

And they attacked him mercilessly and in the fight, the crow opened his beak and the meat fell down. At once, they all flew towards the falling meat and forgot him. Then he sat on a tree and pondered that they were not against him but were also on the same trip — they wanted the piece of meat.

billionaire was afraid of his death and at any cost he A decided to retain his life. He heard about an astrologer’s prediction of an atomic war that would occur in the near future.

He decided to survive it. He thought the desert would be the ideal place to build a secure shelter. He purchased some land in the middle of a desert and employed a labor force to build him a bunker three miles underground. It was equipped with all possible luxuries and every conceivable aid to luxurious living in the world which would last for at least ten years. The work was completed in one year’s time at a very high cost. It was time for the billionaire to examine his rescue shelter. The proud owner went to the desert and as he stepped down from his private aeroplane, he was bitten by a deadly poisonous snake and died instantly.

Life without ambition is like driving without knowing the destination. Ambition is important in life to keep you focused

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in life and enjoy every moment. Every time you achieve your goal you become happy. You begin to appreciate yourself for all your achievements.

If you are not careful ambition brings blindness in life. We tend to forget and ignore our surroundings and create enemies.