How I Became A Swinger

By Laura B. Cooper

This is a short guide for men who want to introduce the alternative lifestyle of swinging to their wives. I will tell you, from a woman's perspective, how my husband helped me get to a point that I would be receptive to this idea, as well as improved our relationship.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Sea Island Press
• Release date: Jan 14, 2011
• ISBN: 9781458078636

Laura B. Cooper

Born in Savannah but raised on Sullivan’s Island, South Carolina, Laura Cooper is a true southern woman. She believes that iced tea should always be sweet and has an entire Pinterest Board with over a hundred different ways to cook shrimp.Via an AOL chat room she met her husband of sixteen years, Chris Cooper. Together they have two children, (both in college at the same time) and fifteen, yes count ‘em, fifteen dogs.Prior to writing novels, Laura ran a large pure breed rescue organization for homeless animals. She, Chris and the kids found homes for over six thousand homeless dogs until they retired three years ago.Between calls begging for money (from her children) and squeaky toys, she somehow manages to embolden other southern women to explore their sexuality through reading. Claiming that fifty is the new thirty, Laura encourages her readers to examine themselves, crawl out from beneath the soccer mom status and live a little.Follow us on Twitter: www.twitter.com/lbcooper123Follow us on Facebook: www.facebook.com/pages/Laura-Cooper/279254182092261Follow us on my blog: [e-mail]

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How I Became a Swinger:

A Short Guide to Helping You Convince Her

by

Laura B. Cooper

SMASHWORDS EDITION

Published by: Sea Island Press

How I Became a Swinger:

A Short Guide to Helping You Convince Her

Copyright © 2011 by Laura B. Cooper

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Table of Contents

Introduction

A Real Event

Communication and Understanding

Physical Versus Emotional

My Environment

Security

Be Kind

Self Control

Get Your Act Together

Now What?

Sweets for the Sweets

No Money?

Getting to the Meat of Things

Recap

Break the Ice

Is She Ready

Checklist

About the Author

Other Books

Introduction

I have been asked many times, exactly how my husband got me to a point that I was open to the possibility of swinging. Well, to be honest, I never really wanted to. I never wanted to be with another person. However, my wonderful, attentive husband was persistent enough, and patient enough, to allow me to get to a point that I could open up and explore my sexuality without feeling guilty. Let me be clear, we are not full swap, have to fuck someone else, fully verified and certified swingers. What we are is open to fantasies, and thoughts, and possibilities. I personally do not feel our journey towards an alternate lifestyle is complete.

To begin, you will find an actual event; one that has taken place in my home. If you truly want your spouse to consider participating in something like this, you will have to put in a lot of time, patience, and love. Go slow, gentleman, the wait is well worth it. After