The Human Skills: Elicitation & Interviewing
By Frank Stopa
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The Human Skills provides you the conversational skills that will enable you to successfully collect the information you need during interviews and conversations. Frank Stopa's techniques have been employed in the worlds of domestic and foreign counter terrorism, during law enforcement interviews as well as during difficult interrogation scenarios.
Frank Stopa
Frank Stopa is a former intelligence officer who has negotiated and worked successfully with law enforcement, intelligence and military services worldwide. In addition to his writing pursuits, he is currently engaged in training police officers across the United States in homeland security issues.
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The Human Skills - Frank Stopa
The Human Skills: Elicitation & Interviewing
by Frank Stopa
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What is it that makes the difference between success and failure in almost any endeavor? Good Information is the difference. Knowing how your contacts will respond to your sales approaches could determine whether you achieve your sales goals. Good Information is at the root of that. Reading your suspect’s personality and behaviors will drive the success of your interrogation and investigation. Good Information is at the root of that. Understanding how your counterparts will respond to your negotiating positions determines whether you are able to craft win-win solutions in the toughest of negotiations. Good information is at the root of that.
Whether you are working in sales or business strategy, law enforcement or intelligence, education or politics, you rely on collecting information. Good information provides the foundation for good decision-making. It stands to reason then that collecting good information, more effectively, more efficiently, and while building stronger working relationships, would help you achieve better results in everything you do. That is exactly what this book is about.
The Human Skills: Elicitation is an e-manual that will show you how to apply the core concepts and specific conversational techniques underlying the art and skill of maneuvering yourself through conversations to collect the information you need to make sound decisions. We will explain each technique and you will see examples of how they are applied in real world situations. We encourage you to discover each technique for yourself, to learn which ones work best for you. Then, we encourage you to experiment and practice. The more you practice, the better you will become at applying the techniques.
Webster’s New Collegiate Dictionary defines elicitation as to draw forth or bring out, to derive by logical processes, to call forth or draw out (a response or reaction).
For the purposes of collecting human source information, this means that elicitation can be viewed as a simple cause and effect. It begins with building a relationship, either personal or professional. Next, it continues with application of various manipulations of conversation – or logical processes
– that draw out a response or reaction. And finally, it concludes with the passage of information from the contact to the elicitor.
This isn’t all that’s involved in elicitation, however. The decision to employ elicitation techniques may include a need to maintain a degree of discretion or confidentiality in your information collection efforts. Whether you intend to elicit information from a business competitor while keeping your agenda concealed; or prompt revelations from a taciturn suspect intent on concealing his involvement in a crime; or even determining your teenager’s weekend plans without becoming an interrogator, the idea of concealing your information collection agenda and interests is part and parcel of elicitation. Otherwise, you could simply resort to classic – and rather blunt – question and answer techniques.
Given all of this, it is a simple matter to construct a working definition of elicitation that suits our purposes:
Elicitation is the collection of information from a professional or personal contact that is characterized by the development of a human relationship that sustains the employment of discreet conversational manipulation.
Defining elicitation in written terms is one thing, but understanding how it works is the essence of this book. Elicitation is both art and science. It is a complex activity involving a basic understanding of human nature, knowledge of the techniques that render your contacts amenable to providing you with information, and practical experience in interpersonal contacts.
In your efforts to collect information from others, this means first applying our Core Concepts to your interactions to build strong rapport and long-lasting relationships; then, employing our Conversational Techniques at specific moments in your conversations; and finally reaping the rewards, the information you need to make good, sound decisions.
The Relationship
All information collection from others is rooted in the relationships you build. You may not spend months or years getting to know a professional contact, but you still build a relationship with that person. This might take place over a few weeks or a few months, or it might take place within the span of fifteen minutes. Regardless, building a relationship is the key to unlocking the information you want to collect. The stronger the relationship grows the more it facilitates the flow of information. Our battery of core concepts emphasizes the benefits of building long-lasting relationships, which sustain the exchange of all kinds of information over time. Whether you are working with one contact on a specific issue, or networking with a wide range of individuals, the informational benefits of building durable relationships is undeniable.
The core concepts encourage you to consider a range of ideas that complement your relationship building abilities, enhance your preparation, planning and risk management skills, and help you understand why people talk and why they reveal information, knowingly and unknowingly, during conversations.
The Conversational Techniques
Once you have built a relationship with a contact, and understand how and why he talks, you are ready for the ‘business end’ of elicitation, the employment of the logical processes
that result in actual information collection. In practice these processes are the conversational and interrogative techniques that enable us to manipulate a conversation to collect the information we want, while preserving the relationship. These techniques include a series of discreet conversational manipulations or techniques that facilitate the flow of that information from your contact.
The Result
Finally, the result of our effort is the information. Assuring we collect what we want and need requires preparation, planning and, most importantly, attention to maintaining the relationship we have with our contact. The optimal elicitation scenario is one in which we develop a strong relationship, rely less and less every day on conversational manipulation, and seek information openly and sincerely.
1. The Information Collection Spectrum
The Information Collection Spectrum describes a continuum of human source information collection activities, which share common techniques and concepts. They are at their foundations similar in that they all share the objective of prompting your contact to provide information. What differentiates them, one from another, are the degree of control you exercise over the interaction, including the setting, and the degree of willingness displayed by your contact in complying with your agenda, hidden or not.
Interrogation
Interrogation is most often considered a military, intelligence or law enforcement tool to prompt a suspect to provide intelligence information or evidence. The interrogator typically exercises control over the setting, as well as the direction, of the