I Didn't Survive: Emerging Whole After Deception, Persecution, and Hidden Abuse

Written by Naghmeh Abedini Panahi and Eugene Bach

Narrated by Naghmeh Abedini Panahi

It’s hard enough having a painful secret that you are terrified of sharing.

It’s even harder when you find yourself in the international limelight as the advocate wife of a Christian hero imprisoned for his faith.

The worst part is fearing that, if you did share this secret, it might devastate the lives of your family and close friends, alienate tens of thousands of active supporters, and cause persecuted people around the world to become even more vulnerable.

Naghmeh Abedini Panahi lived in constant tension from the irreconcilable realities playing out in her own life, in her family life, in the conduct of others, and on the worldwide stage as she interacted with power brokers and well-known religious leaders. Tension involving:

• Steadfastly honoring God versus being carried away by the tide of circumstances
• Personal reality versus public persona
• Genuine faith versus hypocritical religion
• Truth and caring versus the end justifying the means
• Obedience to God versus loyalty to others

For Naghmeh, it all came to a breaking point, and the only way through it was to die. Not physically, but in experiencing a death and rebirth in her understanding of God, her faith, and her identity as a woman. “I can't tell you how I was able to make it through, because I didn’t,” she writes. “Like the Phoenix rising from the ashes, the new me emerged from the catastrophe of my marriage.”

I Didn’t Survive: Emerging Whole After Deception, Persecution, and Hidden Abuse is Naghmeh’s firsthand story, which takes you from war-torn Tehran to the quiet Midwestern U.S. to the halls of power in Washington D.C. It vividly describes the Islamic upbringing that shaped her, her unexpected conversion to Christianity, and the events that led to her marriage to Saeed Abedini, a magnetic pastor in the Iranian underground church. The book details Saeed’s arrest and imprisonment for preaching the gospel, her fateful decision to share the truth about her husband, her betrayal and abandonment by former supporters, and the new life of advocacy for women that has arisen from the brokenness.

Through the pain, abuse, and loss, Naghmeh clearly demonstrates what it means for us to find our true identity in God, discover the protective care God has for His children, and participate in sharing the love and healing He desires to bring to the world.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Whitaker House
• Release date: Nov 3, 2023
• ISBN: 9781646898343

Reviews for I Didn't Survive

[Tokyo Mommy · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Excellent book and very inspiring! After years of following Nagmeh Panahis story of her trying to rescue Saeed from imprisonment in Iran and succeeding only to confess to his abuse of her, this has been a much anticipated story. She has come out of this whole crisis as a giant for abuse in the church both in the united states and in the persecuted church. This book tells her story in her own words and how the Lord has used her circumstances to raise her out of the ashes. I can definitely identify with her story greatly after going through a couple of tough relationships with Christian middle eastern men which left me emotionally, mentally and spirituality confused and heavily burdened. Reading this book really helped me to escape the situation I have been in. Seriously I could listen to this book over and over and just draw strength knowing I am not alone. Wonderfully done and I hope her story will continue!

[renee.bahrs · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I could not stop listening - what a beautiful story - shocking, sad, but all the way through her encounters with God were impactual & humbling!

[Darlene Sanderson · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Highly recommend everyone to listen to this book.
I thoroughly enjoyed it as it makes me pray how I can help others and shine Jesus’s light.