Rude: Stop Being Nice and Start Being Bold
Written by Rebecca Reid
Narrated by Rebecca Reid
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About this audiobook
During a TV interview with a comedian, journalist Rebecca Reid found herself unable to get a word in edgewise. So, when she put her finger to her lips and shushed him, she became instantly known on the internet as “Rebecca Rude.” It was only then that she realized that being rude could actually be her superpower.
A captivating blend of advice and pop culture, this “breezy feminist guide” (Publishers Weekly) shows you how to use the power of boldness in every area of your life. Exploring famous women who have been perceived as rude—including Princess Margaret, Anna Wintour, Taylor Swift, Meghan Markle, and others—Rude demonstrates how those women used their “rudeness” to get what they want and deserve out of life.
Reid also addresses whether there are different rules of rudeness for women compared to men (yes, there are) and how being taught not to be rude actually prevents women from being successful—especially because when women are assertive, they are often judged as being aggressive. And while there’s a place for politeness, Rebecca argues that it’s never a bad time to stand up for yourself and achieve your dreams.
Rebecca Reid
REBECCA REID has an MA in creative writing and is obsessed with the way people relate to one another. She’s a playwright, a screenwriter, and the author of five books. But after almost a decade in journalism focusing on sex and relationships—not to mention the demise of her own marriage—she finally felt ready to write a love story. Reid lives in Southwest London with her toddler. Seven Rules for a Perfect Marriage is her debut novel.
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What our readers think
Readers find this title to be empowering and validating. It provides perspective and guidance on handling certain issues. The book is described as bold, funny, and honest, and is seen as perfect by readers. Some reviewers believe it should be taught in schools, as it has the potential to positively impact lives and help individuals overcome guilt and become more assertive.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Nov 9, 2023
It’s everything I needed now. I really want to be a badass who just does what she wants and when she wants. Wish me luck.1 person found this helpful
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Nov 9, 2023
I needed this book! I have to read it again. I felt like all the things I’ve been feeling about certain issues were validated. It’s amazing to KNOW we are not alone and it’s so refreshing to have perspective in how to handle it. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Nov 9, 2023
This is *just* what I needed. Rebecca was bold, funny, and honest. This book was perfect! - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Nov 9, 2023
I think this should be taught in schools to girls
In kindergarten even
If only someone gave me this book years ago i would have had a less painful life
I am a guilt machine and i want to change that and be rude?
