Communicating to Seduce, Engage and Excite Series

If until now you have believed that your sensitivity, shyness and impulsiveness have interfered negatively in the development of your relationships, well, it is time to change your perspective. What you have in your holster is the most powerful weapon of seduction, attraction and communication in the world. The bad news is that you have never learned how to properly manage all the power that runs through your veins and is called “emotion”. In short, you have been an ‘emotional kamikaze’ until now. Think for a moment: how many opportunities have you wasted because of your shyness? How many toads have you swallowed because you were unable to respond in kind? How many times have you felt blocked and unable to handle a dialogue properly? How much more time are you going to waste in the limbo of the “unspoken”, of inner suffering, of regret with no possibility of appeal? We are all in search of the ‘Lost Emotion’ and you, as a sensitive being, have a stratospheric advantage over the rest of the world. This will allow you to achieve personal satisfaction, higher self-esteem and more satisfying and lasting relationships. The point is that you don’t know this yet. The good news is that thanks to this manual you will be able to see with new eyes the enormous potential that lies within you. A potential you didn’t even think you had. Thanks to the “mechanism” explained in this book, you will learn how to channel your impulses and emotions in the correct way, transforming what you thought was your “factory defect” into a skill capable of radically changing, immediately and without any effort, the way you communicate in sentimental, friendship, work and family relationships. Because remember that every relationship failure is a communication failure. If, up to now, your sensitivity has created more disasters than opportunities, if your relationships are poor because you struggle to communicate your inner self in the right way, if you want to know the secret to transform what you thought was your worst flaw into an irresistible tool for seduction and attraction, don’t hesitate. Continue reading this book. CONTENTS THE EMOTIONAL KAMIKAZE About the Author In Search of Lost Emotion Breaking the Schema The Primordial Need to Give and Receive Emotions Doesn’t “I Love You” Mean Anything? Just One Word: Transformation The Power of the Word You Have Never Communicated Truly Emotionally You Think and You Say Subconscious Penetration Communication and Targets Only if You Can Manage Emotions Can You Convey Them Forgetting Impulsivity to Embrace Reflection Sparking Emotional Memories Through Stories The Mechanism. What You Say is not What You Think The Misconceptions of the Sensitive and Emotional Man Why We All Fear Approach Shyness is Often an Excuse Not to Act Shame: An Emotion Difficult to Control Mental Approach, Fear and Benefits of Communicating with Emotions Zero to One Hundred (with Handbrake Pulled) Using Sensitivity to Stand Out Being Sensitive is a ‘Plus’ (which has to be properly managed) Logical and Metaphorical Language Re-Learning to Communicate Orienting the Emotional Spyglass Emotional Discussion Topics Deep Talk How to Develop a Quality Dialogue A Few Final Tips Conclusions

“Where there is feeling there can be no logic. That would be a paradox, wouldn’t it? This, in a nutshell, is why men and women do not understand each other. In reality, the ‘unspoken’ or ‘implied’ is the basis of communication, and therefore also of seduction and the maintenance of relationships”. Why do men and women not understand each other? Why do conflicts and misunderstandings arise? Is it possible to generate more authentic and emotional connections with others? In this short and valuable essay, the theme of the difficulty of communication between men and women is addressed. It contains techniques and solutions for finding a ‘common code’ between the two sexes: the holy grail of all success in the sentimental sphere. TABLE OF CONTENTS Synopsis WHY MEN AND WOMEN DON'T UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER: HOW TO FIND A COMMON CODE Owls Are Not What They Seem Leave no Room for Misunderstandings The Meta-Message and the 'Unspoken': Nothing is As It Seems Story of a Girl Terrorized by the Words 'I Love You The Reason Men and Women Don't Understand Each Other Men and Women Speak Different Languages The Bad News is That You Are Already Communicating Silences and Monosyllabic Messages How I Turned an Introverted Girl into a Loudmouth We only put up walls to defend ourselves Just a Matter of Time The Basics of Communication: Feedback We are still today dominated by Primordial Impulses Kindness is Revolution Investment and Balance in Communication The Power of Silence and Incompleteness What matters is always what the other person understands. APPENDIX 7 Ideal Features for Your Communication Raising the bar (Paraphrase of Emotions) Exercises in Emotional Paraphrasing Do You Only Communicate With Silence and Anger? Conflict Management in Relationships Are You Dealing With an Introvert? Interpreting Subtext in Communication Why Men and Women Don't Understand Each Other: How to Find a Common Code The Author

“Seduction is an ongoing process that does not end in the first few months but must continue throughout the relationship”. In this essay, the topic of seduction is treated in a new way. The assumption is that a partner must be attracted to him or her even after the initial phase. In order to ensure continuity in the story, it is necessary to maintain lively communication that can guarantee positive emotional involvement. What can we do, then, to achieve long-lasting and satisfying relationships? A good place to start is with advanced dialogue skills in order to use your sensitivity to gently penetrate your partner’s mind. This book, full of ideas and reflections, will accompany you in the development of new skills (from emotional communication to relational storytelling) to improve your life as a couple and, more generally, the way you relate to the world. TABLE OF CONTENTS Synopsis SEDUCTION IS CONVERSATION Seduction is a Continuous Process Things Don't Happen in Love. They Are Made to Happen. Seduction in the Initial Phase (The Great Classic) We are Eight Billion, All Different Seduction is a Question of Values and Dignity Sniffing the Ass to Know the Air Deep Talk Beats Cheap Talk at Hands Off How to Always Look Cool, Even If You Don't Feel Cool Watch out for Red Flags Keeping the Conversation Level High The Damned Conversations Online The Art of Storytelling to Convey Your Value Somewhere You Have to Start (First Meeting) Communication Environment Analysis Interpreting the Communication Context Mistrust and Incommunicability Listening is Always Sexy The Power of Silence APPENDIX Seduction: Perception, Prejudice and Mental Image Female and Male Signals of Interest Communication and Objectives Igniting Emotional Memories Through Stories INSIGHTS 5 Ways to 'Challenge' by Creating Interest Igniting a Dialogue with the Mystery Technique Creating 'Emotional Tension' to Better Understand Men and Women Creating 'Emotional Tension' With Live Stories Generating Positive Tension in a Dialogue How to empathise with a person Generating Authentic Interest in People Improvising a Live Story How to Start Telling an Anecdote How to Start a Conversation How to Keep the Level of a Conversation High Flashback and Flashforward in Relational Storytelling 3 Simple Steps to Tell a Story Non-Verbal Errors to Avoid The Weapon of Storytelling in Interpersonal Relations Tell Your Anecdotes Like a Film Why Your Dialogues Go Dull More Charisma and Confidence With 23 Daily Communication Exercises The Author

Did you know that the lower part of your body is governed by the unconscious and is able to send hundreds of messages into the world in a completely unconscious way? Have you ever wondered how your head movements, hand gestures, glances and facial expressions are interpreted subliminally by others? Would you like to know the secrets of making a good first impression on a romantic date, at a job interview or when presenting your project or idea to the public? If you have always been curious about this topic and would like to broaden your knowledge in the field of communication, here is an ‘honest’ guide to interpreting body language in everyday life. Learning to recognise and interpret our own and other people’s body language is a skill that can be crucial at work, in seduction and more generally in relationships with others. Noticing the small mistakes you have always made will give you a competitive ‘edge’ and radically improve your image in the eyes of others. It will also enable you to get to know yourself better and to establish deeper relationships with colleagues, partners and friends. TABLE OF CONTENTS Synopsis Three Clues Make a Proof? The challenge of communicating Reflecting oneself in others Seduction Through Your Body Words Can Confuse, the Body Cannot Female and Male Signals of Interest The Perfect Job Interview Eyes Don't Lie: The Power of the Eye The state of mind that passes through the face Recognising Head Movements The Hands: Shaping What We Imagine So Close, So Far: Proxemics and Space Management Conclusions

An invaluable text written by a specialized communication coach intended for all those who wish to perfect their communication skills within the couple, during seduction and maintenance of relationships. This book represents the result of more than ten years of study and insight into the topic of communication applied to improving romantic relationships. Table of Contents: 1. COMMUNICATING TO SEDUCE, ENGAGE AND EXCITE IN ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS Communicate to Seduce, Engage and Excite Quality of Relationships and Quality of Life Technology Has Caught Us Unawares The Boiling Point Failure is Always Easier The Responsibility is Only Yours Communicating is a Real Casino Being Alone Sucks You Are A Diamond It All Depends On How You Communicate I don't think you'll fuck more (or maybe you will) The Great Illusion of "Seduction" What Other Coaches Don't Tell You Interpreting Communicative Contexts But I Can't Communicate Well... The Discomfort of Feeling "Out of Place" Ever heard of Social Intelligence? The Story of Philip, Perennially in the Friendship Zone In Love, the Fugitive Wins? Always Identify Communicative Objectives Expectations Are for Children Everything seems easy at first... You Create Your Relational Destiny Feeling Inadequate? Maybe You're Missing A Block The "Can Do" and the "Nerd". No Opportunities? Create them, Don't Make Excuses Anymore Making Love With the Mind Before the Body Don't Be Afraid of Making a Fool of Yourself You Have Your Whole Life To Improve Prince Charming Doesn't Exist ... and The Princess is Bipolar I Have Bad News: You Are Never Yourself But it's the shyness that gets me... 2.INSIGHTS The 6 things you CANNOT control in a relationship Is Love A Choice? How to Overcome Unrequited Love Communication - or Quality or Silence The Importance of Recognizing Emotions Always be respected, even in Chat Manage Emotions, Don't Bury Them! Learning to Say No, Feelings of Guilt and Self-Image Love in the Time of Tinder - Superficiality, Idealization, Immaturity and Self-Image What are the 5 wounds of the inner child within us? How to Win an Argument (Without Making a Slaughter) Dangerous Consequences of Communicating Emotions Quietly Possessiveness, Being Sexy and Insecurity Use Style and Sensitivity to Stand Out from the Competition Being Sensitive is a 'Plus' (which must be managed well) You have to Give Authentic Emotions to Receive Quality Emotions