Let me guess… at some point in your life the idea of handcuffs has come up in the bedroom, right? Or maybe it was a riding crop or some other sexy toy...  Ropes? Bondage? Foot play?  The list goes on! The common denominator is that thinking about -- let alone trying -- any of these things may have made you feel a bit kinky. But what does it actually mean to have a kink? Is it normal? And how does a kink differ from a fettish?  You’ve come to the right place to find out! In this episode I’m going to help you understand and share your fantasies with your man -- without getting shut down, some of the most common mainstream American fetishes, how to avoid the dangers associated with certain kinks, and more! Who knows, maybe you’ll even get some new ideas to try out so tune in! I’ll answer these common questions in this episode of The ME Spot Podcast... What is the difference between a kink and a fetish? Is it normal to have rape fantasies? Is having a foot fetish weird? How can I tell my partner about my sexual fantasies? What is necrophilia & is it legal? How do I know if I’m considered kinky in the bedroom? How can I convince my partner to be more kinky? You will learn... The differences between kinks, fetishes, and fantasies How to share your fantasies and turn ons with your partner without getting hurt Questions to ask yourself before engaging in sexually deviant acts The most common mainstream American fetishes Why it’s important to engage in play in the bedroom The dangers associated with certain kinks and how to avoid them Remember these takeaways... “There is absolutely NOTHING shameful about being kinky in the bedroom. Don’t be afraid to let your freak flag fly, Sister!” “Remember: different strokes for different folks. Just because YOU aren’t into something in the bedroom doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with it.” “It’s so important to engage in bedroom play! Don’t take yourself too seriously… sex should be fun!” “Everyone has sexual fantasies, from your neighbor to A-list celebrities. It’s part of being human, and it’s a pretty exciting part if you ask me!” “Whether you’re into vanilla sex or BDSM, as long as you’re being safe, it’s your business. Don’t let other people’s judgments of what gets you off get into your head!” Your next best step now is... Come and join me in The ME Spot Community by visiting http://TheMeSpotPodcast.com -- it’s free to join & we’re having a blast! You belong there too!