Do you know what a fleshlight is? if not, go Google it. I’ll wait... Today we’re going to talk about the Fleshlight Freak as we continue our relationship discord series. In what ways can pornography be healthy in a relationship and when does it become vicious? These and more! Enjoy the episode, my spices! I’ll answer these common questions... Is porn fine for couples in a relationship? Who is seeking out porn more often? Is porn easily accessible? Why do people turn to porn to spice up sex life? What are the advantages and disadvantages of watching porn? Can you become a porn addict? You will learn... Porn as a relationship discord When will porn be safe and when will it become unhealthy How accessible pornography is in today’s world Porn can be a poison  How to get out of porn addiction Grab these takeaways... A lot of people turn to porn to spice up their sex life.  Porn in moderation is fine for most couples.  Some people can get into the extreme where pornography is getting abused and it becomes an addiction. Some people say that at least 65% or almost two-thirds of young people are actively seeking out pornography weekly or even more often. Teenage girls are more likely to seek out porn than older women. Pornography receives more traffic than Netflix, Amazon and Twitter combined each month, and almost a quarter to 40% of downloads are porn-related. Porn gives a huge kind of shoot up of dopamine. In this sense, porn acts like heroin, meth, opioids, even sugar in stimulating that reward center of the brain. If you are constantly overdosing on dopamine, you’re not able to function in a normal sexual encounter. Porn addicts sometimes have to withdraw like drug users and may experience symptoms like loss of libido, insomnia, irritability, panic despair, and flu-like symptoms. Examine how often you are looking at porn. If you find yourself retreating every day to watch it, that can be an issue.  Your next best steps... Join me in The ME Spot Community, where we'll be able to talk all together 24/7 about these and other issues! This is something that I love to pop in and be a part of, and I just want you to come and join us in this community, have your questions answered by me and other marvelous ladies! http://TheMeSpotPodcast.com