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Why do people have affairs in happy relationships? Why does sex decline in some long term relationships and not others? Esther Perel is here to answer all of the biggest questions in sex and relationships.
Esther Perel is a world-leading Belgian-American psychotherapist and relationship expert, best known for her work in human relationships and ‘erotic intelligence’. She is the New York Times best-selling author of, ‘Mating in Captivity’ and ‘The State of Affairs’, as well as the host of the podcast, ‘Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel’.
In this conversation Esther and Steven discuss topics, such as:

Why the quality of your life is determined by the quality of your relationships

How we discover ourselves in the presence of other people

The ways that childhood impact your relationships

Independence vs interdependence

The negative impact of phones on relationships

Why to change someone else you have to change yourself

How to know when a relationship has died

Why falling out of love doesn’t exist

The ways that leadership is a relationship

How to have better fights in a relationship

The 3 things people fight for in relationships

The power of eroticism

Why you need to be able to tolerate uncertainty

How the idea of the soulmate has changed

Why sex has become measurable

The reason you cannot solve relationships

The difference between genders in communication

How the meaning of sex changes through time

What does it mean when a woman doesn’t have desire

The appeal of porn

Why couples stop having sex

The reasons people cheat

Why people have affairs in happy marriages

How affairs are about feeling alive

The moments when people are most attracted to their partner


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