Sara interviews author and former journalist/news anchor, Jillian Benfield as she shares her unexpected journey of having a child with Down Syndrome and the societal pressure to "overcome" grief quickly. Jillian emphasizes the importance of allowing yourself to fully grieve and unlearn negative beliefs about worth and disability. She also discusses her book, "The Gift of the Unexpected," which talks about laying down her thoughts and leaning into what God was showing her.  Ep. 123; April 11, 2023Key Moments:[3:39] Jillian’s diagnosis story[10:25] Undergoing grief, not overcoming it[13:17] Life after diagnosis is transformative[15:27] Worth attached to my resume[22:12] How to handle the seasons when there is no bright side[26:22] Asking ‘why’ is a worthwhile questionResources:Jillian Benfield’s WebsiteThe Gift of the Unexpected: Discovering Who You Were Meant to Be When Life Goes Off PlanWorking Through Weariness: 6 Tools to Reclaim Goodness 5 Spiritual Comforts for Parents of Kids with DisabilitiesGoodreads GiveawayJoin our Book Launch TeamIf you enjoyed the show:Join our Book Launch Team HerePreorder The Other Side of SpecialSubscribe to our newsletter on the Take Heart WebsiteReview and like us on Apple Podcasts Follow us on Instagram @takeheartspecialmomsFind Amy at www.amyjbrown.com/  or on Instagram @amyjbrown_writerFind Carrie at www.carriemholt.com or on Instagram @carriemholtFind Sara at www.saraclime.com or on Instagram @saraclimeTake Heart is supported by our listeners. When you buy through links on our site, we may earn an affiliate commission.Support the show