In today's episode, Alexa sits down with Vanessa and Xander, authors of "Sex Talks" and advocates for improving intimacy through open conversations. Vanessa, a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years in the sex therapy field, and Xander, who brings the perspective of being married to a sex therapist, discuss their mission to take the intimidation out of intimacy. They share their personal journey, including the ups and downs they've faced, and provide actionable strategies for couples to navigate common sex and intimacy challenges. The pair highlight the importance of cultivating connection outside of sex, starting conversations about sex before problems arise, and understanding the key reasons behind low sex drive. Their approach combines psychotherapy insights with real-life experiences, making their advice relatable and practical for any couple.Today on That Sex Chick:Vanessa & Xander’s journey: challenges, breakthroughs, and lessonsBuild a positive foundation with open sex conversations5 key conversations every couple can haveUnderstanding and navigating low sex driveCultivating connection and intimacy outside of sexThis show is sponsored by:Yoni Pleasure Palace | Visit yonipleasurepalace.com and get 15% off with the code THATSEXCHICK.Sex Coach Prep School: sexandlove.co/prep-school Connect with Vanessa & Xander:Instagram: @vanessaandxander  Book: Sex TalksPodcast: Pillow TalksConnect with Alexa:Instagram: @thatsexchickWebsite: sexandlove.coFree resources: sexandlove.co/resourcesFacebook Group: Sex & Love Co Community Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! This show is produced by Soulfire Productions