This week in The Labia Lounge me and two of my legendary pals chat about a couple of topics that really get our clams sandy! The main focus of this eppy is the way women are made to feel like bad feminists if we so much as shave our armpits or care about how we look or how others perceive us. We discuss the double whammy of guilt and feminist-shame that we feel as a result of, 1. caring about such 'vain' and 'vacuous' 'feminine' things in the first place, as well as, 2. the added layer of self-judgement that we direct at ourselves for being bad feminists for even worrying about such things.We also chat about how it's okay to ask your partner to take a nice photo of you if you're feeling fiiiiine (but wouldn't it be nice if they just thought to do it without you having to request it), how we feel about vanity vs. self love, and how it's such a bummer when you feel like a tosser who's completely up themselves if you ask someone else to take a picture of you. Among other juicy thangs.So get into it, gang!Thanks to Holly and Hannah for joining me on this one - seriously some of the most articulate and badass guests I've had!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.