This week in The Labia Lounge I had some ace chats with Erin Kyna, a trauma informed s*xuality healer, coach and teacher who loves a bit of BDSM! Erin's happy place is as a sub and so I got the lowdown on her best tips about how to explore this part of the kink world and experiment with BDSM. We spoke about her journey with BDSM and the process of coming to terms with and accepting that she was into some pretty confronting stuff. We covered the common red flags and risks involved that a newbie should be watching out for. And we also discussed how trauma impacts this side of s*xuality, the importance of communication before and after engaging in kink, and the necessity of good aftercare. Erin shares so many epic stories and openly speaks from her depth of experience in such a fun and authentic way, so this one is a great listen even if BDSM isn't your thang!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Lounge!Check out her work and follow her stuff here: erinkyna.com IG @erinkyna, and her fab podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/romantic-hardcore-a-podcast-about-sex-and-healing/id1539111728Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.