Ashleigh Renard, aka “The Carrie Bradshaw for married people”, talks candidly about the taboos of swingers’ sex clubs, how to raise boys with integrity, and her secrets to making your marriage epic. All we ever want in a relationship or marriage is for our partner to want us, right? We want to feel loved and desired in every part of life, but especially in the bedroom… Listen in to this incredibly raw and real discussion about overcoming the challenges of marriage and keeping monogamy hot and sexy, even decades after your wedding day. Ashleigh Renard is the Author of “Swing: A Memoir of Doing it All” and creator of the viral video series, “How to Keep Monogamy Hot. She’s also the host of Keeping It Hot, a podcast created to improve your communication in and out of the bedroom.   Follow Ashleigh Renard @ashleighrenard Follow Chase on Instagram @chase_chewning Follow him on Twitter @chasechewning   Key Highlights One of Ashleigh’s major lessons from parenthood and coaching teen athletes is the importance of being open to having your mind changed. She speaks on how letting kids change your mind may be the bravest parenting decision you’ll ever make. About 1/3 of people who go to swingers’ sex clubs want to interact with another couple. The other 2/3 just go for the atmosphere and only want to connect with their own partner. Listen in to learn more about the culture of swingers and sex clubs and how they’ve inspired the best sex of Ashleigh’s life. Ashleigh shares her secrets to keeping monogamy hot and sexy after 10+ years of marriage. She highlights her personal experience going to a sex club with her husband, navigating the fears and challenges of marriage, and feeling unloved. Ashleigh sheds light on some simple, yet powerful parenting philosophies and techniques for raising boys into men with integrity. She details her relationship with anxiety and depression, particularly after having children, and how she navigates the stress of parenthood. Episode resources: Book your free health optimization consultation with Blokes for men or Joi for women and use code CHASE for 10% off Save 20% on the Sexual Performance Booster with code EVERFORWARD at https://www.UseJoymode.com/everforward  Watch and subscribe on YouTube https://youtu.be/3NuzuROmNwU  Get Ashleigh's book Swing or listen for free with your 30-day trial of Audible at https://www.AudibleTrial.com/everforward