Listen in to this episode as we dive into what freedom in pleasure means, passionate monogamy and the true key to keeping the spark alive in monogamous relationships, why our conversations about self-love need to be expanded in both directions & what that looks like, sex toys and more! Kait Scalisi, MPH is a sex educator and the founder of Passion by Kait, an award-winning resource for women and couples who crave a sex life that’s as intimate, exciting, and fulfilling as the rest of their relationship. Kait’s affirming writing, workshops, and one-on-one counseling help you create a new level of openness and intimacy with your partner—without feeling awkward, twisting yourself into a pretzel, or spending hours a day on intimacy-building activities.   Learn more + find #freedominpleasure at PassionbyKait.com or @PassionbyKait on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook. You can also find the context exercise we were discussing in Emily Nagoski's book "Come As you Are".