Today on the show, I answer your questions about porn and how to know if you’re addicted to it and about gay sex between folks with penises -exclaimer, it’s not just anal!
I also share part 2 of my interview with invisible illness advocate and CEO of Spark Clarity, Clary Chambers. In episode 9, we got to hear from Clary’s partner, Percy, about who said I love you first and who initiates sex more. Now it’s Clary’s turn and we get into the nuts and bolts of healthy relationships, particularly for folks with disabilities. I mean, did you know that masturbation is a great medication?!
Resources from the show!
Clary's Website: Sparkclarity.ca
Instagram: @sparkclarity
How We Met / Q&A YouTube Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FovqUPb_oKM&ab_channel=LeviHildebrand (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FovqUPb_oKM&ab_channel=LeviHildebrand)
The War on Masturbation: https://canvasonic.com/watch/anna-akana/the-war-on-masturbation (https://canvasonic.com/watch/anna-akana/the-war-on-masturbation)
Is Masturbation Okay? (Yep.): https://www.scarleteen.com/article/gender/is_masturbation_okay_yep (https://www.scarleteen.com/article/gender/is_masturbation_okay_yep)
Why We Should Stop Calling Porn “Addiction” an Addiction:  https://www.lehmiller.com/blog/2015/7/10/why-we-should-stop-calling-porn-addiction-an-addiction?rq=addiction (https://www.lehmiller.com/blog/2015/7/10/why-we-should-stop-calling-porn-addiction-an-addiction?rq=addiction)
Clitbait: 10 Things You Didn’t Know About The Clitoris: https://www.theguardian.com/society/2017/jan/23/clitbait-10-things-you-didnt-know-about-the-clitoris (https://www.theguardian.com/society/2017/jan/23/clitbait-10-things-you-didnt-know-about-the-clitoris)
Clitoris Visual Guide: https://lioness.io/blogs/sex-guides/where-is-the-clitoris-a-visual-guide-with-troubleshooting-steps (https://lioness.io/blogs/sex-guides/where-is-the-clitoris-a-visual-guide-with-troubleshooting-steps)
The Bees and...The Bees: A Homosexuality and Bisexuality Prime: https://www.scarleteen.com/article/relationships/the_bees_andthe_bees_a_homosexuality_and_bisexuality_primer (https://www.scarleteen.com/article/relationships/the_bees_andthe_bees_a_homosexuality_and_bisexuality_primer)
Tips for Anal Sex: https://www.optionsforsexualhealth.org/facts/sex/tips-for-anal-sex/
Oral Sex, Manual Sex, Anal Sex..What It All Means, Jellybean!: https://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/oral_sex_manual_sex_anal_sexwhats_it_all_mean_jellybean (https://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/oral_sex_manual_sex_anal_sexwhats_it_all_mean_jellybean)
Options for Sexual Health Contact Info: 1-800-739-7367 throughout BC* or 604-731-7803 in the Lower Mainland https://www.optionsforsexualhealth.org/sex-sense/ (https://www.optionsforsexualhealth.org/sex-sense/)
Orgasm Gap: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-017-0939-z (https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-017-0939-z)