Today on the show, I’m answering your questions about jealousy and what to do if you’re feeling insecure about your partner watching porn. I also share my interview with Dr. Amy C. Moors where we debunk some major myths about consensual non-monogamy. Like how many people are doing it? And is everyone jealous all the time?! Amy shares the most up to date research and practical advice on how to navigate romantic relationships, monogamous or non-monogamous.
References from the show! 
Dr. Amy C Moors: moors@chapman.edu
website: http://www.amycmoors.com/ (www.amycmoors.com)
Perceived Effects of Pornography on the Couple Relationship: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-016-0783-6
Polyamory is more common than you think: https://www.publichealthpost.org/research/polyamory/
Prevalence of previous engagement in consensual non-monogamy: https://www.amycmoors.com/publications/prevalence-of-experiences-with-consensual-nonmonogamous-relationships (https://www.amycmoors.com/publications/prevalence-of-experiences-with-consensual-nonmonogamous-relationships)
Prevalence of the ideal type of relationship: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/10.1080/00224499.2019.1580667 (https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/10.1080/00224499.2019.1580667)
Comparisons of relationship quality among people engaged in consensual non-monogamy and monogamy: https://www.amycmoors.com/publications/the-investigation-of-consensually-non-monogamous-relationships (https://www.amycmoors.com/publications/the-investigation-of-consensually-non-monogamous-relationships)
New language people create to describe "jealousy": https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1363460706069987?casa_token=L7A3je_LtVAAAAAA:65czk8sF5lUr9AHgAADj4qkPbVENdnq78MFEGoLgbkGvYcvD_xPbNwe2G5_eHCXJCnlbkAjYXuE5Woo (https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1363460706069987?casa_token=L7A3je_LtVAAAAAA:65czk8sF5lUr9AHgAADj4qkPbVENdnq78MFEGoLgbkGvYcvD_xPbNwe2G5_eHCXJCnlbkAjYXuE5Woo)
Safer sex practices among people engaged in consensual non-monogamy and ostensible monogamy: https://www.amycmoors.com/publications/unfaithful-individuals-are-less-likely-to-practice-safer-sex (https://www.amycmoors.com/publications/unfaithful-individuals-are-less-likely-to-practice-safer-sex)
STI rates among people engaged in consensual non-monogamy and monogamy: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609515344222 (https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609515344222)
Willow Smith Opens Up About Being Polyamorous: https://www.bbc.com/news/newsbeat-56852099
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