Do you find it spooky to explore new boundaries? Former political organizer & Bonobo Network founder William Winters really connects with Jamie when they speak on a panel called “Liberate your ass: sexual freedom is key in fighting the right” and their brain boners for each other are mutual. Then late one night, Jamie texts; she’s in town but sleeping on a friend’s couch, so feverish with lust, William & Jamie cast caution to the wind while they search for horizontal space to hook up before her flight home. Lessons & Takeaways: she’s an exhibitionist, and 3 feet isn’t as far as you think it is! #RulesOfEngagement #Sketchy #Consent #SexClub   Song: ‘Demons’ (Hayley Kiyoko)   About the Storyteller: An activist, educator, and intimacy coach, William Winters is the founder and co-organizer of the Bonobo Network, an Oakland-based organization that builds community, connection, and capacity in the sex-positive and non-monogamous worlds.  William has long been an advocate for polyamory in the media, appearing in San Francisco Magazine, KQED's Forum, the San Francisco Chronicle, and the New York Times. He has facilitated conversations about polyamory and sex-positive culture in settings including university campuses, political conferences, living rooms, Burning Man, and beyond.   A campaign strategist by profession, a culture nerd by avocation, and a philosopher by major, William lives with his wife and their stupid cat in Oakland, CA.   Episode links:   SAN FRANCISCO: ‘This Feels Dangerous’ is happening on Friday, October 28th. Kick off Halloween weekend by donning your sexiest costume and getting Bawdy with us at the Verdi Club in San Francisco - or tune in to the Livestream, wherever you are. Tickets are on sale now at https://bawdydangerous.eventbrite.com   Lumi Labs: Our show this week is sponsored by Microdose.com. Microdosing was commonly used to help folx with pain, workout recovery, and anxiety…I definitely have anxiety, and I bet you do too. I found it really nice to bite into a gummy, relax and just focus on the right now. That was what they did for me, and I really enjoyed the vacation from my constant worry. And Microdose is available nationwide. Try them out. Microdose Gummies deliver perfect, entry-level doses of THC, and that can help you feel just the right amount of good.  To learn more about microdosing THC, go to https://www.microdose.com/ and use my code: DIXIE to get free shipping & 30% off your first order.    Uberlube just won Lubricant of the Year in Europe! Uberlube is a luxurious, high-grade silicone lubricant made from clean, body-friendly ingredients; it’s just silicone with a little Vitamin E. Uberlube is Dixie’s favorite lube, and they’re offering Bawdy Storytelling listeners a special offer – 10% off and free shipping when you use my code “Dixie” at https://uberlube.com/   Referenced in William Winters’ story: Reid Mihalko’s ‘Date your Species’ relationships series: https://reidaboutsex.com/category/date-your-species/   Patreon: Live shows attendance is really hit and miss lately due to COVID fears, and as we get close on a new year, I’m having a hard time figuring out where to focus my energy. As I face this new post-Lockdown frontier, do I buy new equipment for online shows? Do I agree to the exorbitant venue rate increases I’m being quoted, and focus on live shows? There’s so safety net for Performers, and so many shows are calling it quits in 2023. As a Bawdy Patreon member, your support for Bawdy’s important work can help to ensure that it continues and that we don’t go away, too. Join Bawdy’s Patreon now and you’ll get exclusive rewards when you join (like monthly free livestream tickets at the $10/mo level and our ad-free podcast episodes) Please consider becoming a Patreon member. I need your support, now more than ever. Join the Club now at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy   Want to support Bawdy in another way? Every little bit helps, and it’s easy.  Our donation links are:   Venmo: Venmo.com/Baw