19-Initiating Sex

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19-Initiating Sex

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The women talk about why initiation matters and share some ideas to help you get things going!

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Oct 2, 2017

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Four Christian wives encourage other wives to enjoy God’s gift of sex in all of its awesomeness by presenting a biblical view, practical tips, and engaging discussion about godly sexual intimacy.

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