Some people say that you can't have everything in this world- Like money, independence AND love? But in this episode, we're debunking that myth. If you're a successful high achiever who feels in control and confident when you're single but totally lose yourself and become anxious when you're in a relationship, listen up to today's episode. I talk about why this isn't your fault, discuss three reasons why Attachment is the culprit- Listen until the end to learn how to be that same person who's capable of giving AND receiving love. *Why Do Some Women Easily Attract Extraordinary Relationships... And Others Struggle?*Register for my FREE workshop The Lovable Woman, and learn my 3-step process of how to create healthy, high-quality relationships:➡️ bygloriazhang.com/workshopEpisode Highlights:One of the reasons why this is happening: You don't know how "NOT" to be the giverThe big possibility of attracting people who want to be taken care of because of this "caretaker" mindsetBeing overly attached to being independent might actually be a "mask" in neglecting your insecurities and vulnerabilities, which is somehow "exposed" when you're in a relationshipBeing in a relationship might be activating unresolved core wounds of abandonment, trust, neglect or guiltPracticing self-compassion as a way to change these kinds of trauma responsesCall to Action: Take back your power and be kind to yourself, get back to doing things that make you safe on the inside, and check out my programs for more helpful tips!Want even More?Ready to transform? Join my acclaimed 12-week course for women who want to attract Extraordinary, High-Quality relationships: Situationship to Soulmate.Follow Gloria on Instagram for helpful tips: @bygloriazhangRegister for my FREE workshop The Lovable Woman