“I’d rather focus on my career instead of a relationship…”    It is so much easier to focus on areas of your life where if you work harder, you get better results i.e. your career !    I see so many women who are GREAT at their jobs: doctors, lawyers, nurses, teachers, therapists, etc    They have achieved so much professionally; yet their love life is a huge source of shame and unhappiness…    Why? Because relationships won’t get better if you work “harder” at them.    The same formula that makes you successful at work, is sabotaging your love life    Without doing the healing work FIRST, all of your energy spent on dating is wasted.    And girl, I know you’re busy, and you HATE wasting your energy.    Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered!!    Inside of today’s episode we talk about:  -WHY we choose to work instead of focus on relationships  -How to work hard, be successful AND have a great relationship  -Ways to begin to make space for relationships in your life    Did you know I just released a FREE workbook?    The Top 4 Secrets to Getting the Love You Want    Inside of the workbook you will find:  Tools for unbreakable self-confidence  The exact strategy to set clear relationship standards My process for letting go of unhealthy relationship patterns The key to deeply understanding your unique relationship needs CLICK HERE FOR YOUR WORKBOOK   P.S. Ready to do the internal work? Make sure you apply to the E.S.L. program before spots fill up in February!   Click Here to Apply!