Episode 24 Summary:  Lyn discusses the road blocks you may come across in negotiations and how to overcome them. She discusses the 2 main reasons why your ex partner may not be open to finalising an agreement. She gives you a few strategies on how to approach the negotiations keeping these reasons in mind. We discuss the easy way to keep your communication during this time in check using the divorce course communication compass.  Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.  Links and resources:   Follow us on Instagram Join us on Facebook   Sign up to hear more about our divorce course online  https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au   You don’t want to miss   Why just saying “calm down” won’t work. The two main reasons you may come to a roadblock in negotiations Why reflecting on your past relationship may help you negotiate successfully in property and childrens matters What mediators are trying to do to get you to come to an agreement and how you can harness that in your own negotiations with your ex.  How and why negotiations take time but your hard work can pay off.  Why it is important not to throw mud in negotiations even if you ex partner does. How to negotiate with a high conflict partner How to negotiate with a amicable ex partner How to negotiate with an avoidant ex. How to negotiate with a high controlling partner How to negotiate once you’ve left an abusive relationship Why it's important to know each other's triggers and to avoid them.   If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you’ve found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you.  Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.