If you are trying to get your ex to come to an agreement with property or parenting arrangements so you can move on with your life this episode is for you (if you have a lawyer or not.)    We explore seven tips to approach your divorce negotiations with an iron fist, but in a velvet glove. We talk through the strategies you can put in place today to help your property settlement or custody arrangements not drag on.    There is an art to negotiating, but an extra special art to negotiating with someone who you’ve shared a large part of your life with. Listen to the episode today and make sure you are on the right path.    Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.    Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course   Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below Cost and Calderbank Offers Separated Under One Roof   Master Your Divorce Negotiations: The Iron Fist Within the Velvet Glove You Don’t Want to Miss Out On How to get your mindset right to negotiate with someone you’ve shared your whole life with.  Is it problematic to avoid negotiations and delay facing the realities of divorce? What factors can change during divorce proceedings, such as values, job loss, and time limits? How can a friend's support and assistance in booking a lawyer make a significant difference? What should be the approach when dealing with high-conflict negotiations during divorce? Why is it important to selectively respond to irrelevant and petty issues during negotiations? How can giving in strategically and knowing your desired outcome benefit negotiations? What is the significance of the individual's role in negotiations, rather than solely relying on the lawyer? Why is it important to make sure your lawyer doesn’t inflame the situation. How can the concept of an "iron fist in a velvet glove" be applied to divorce negotiations? What strategies can help expedite the divorce negotiation process? What is the importance of generating options during divorce negotiations? Why is it important to be cautious about having an overly aggressive lawyer during divorce negotiations? What should be the primary focus of lawyers during divorce proceedings? Why is sending a reasonable letter from a lawyer considered more effective than a sarcastic one? If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you’ve found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you.  Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.