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Clearing Space | BMS | Ep 050

Clearing Space | BMS | Ep 050

FromThe Big Money Stylist Podcast


Clearing Space | BMS | Ep 050

FromThe Big Money Stylist Podcast

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Length:
44 minutes
Released:
Dec 18, 2018
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

Whether you’re a hairdresser, entrepreneur, businessman or businesswoman, you’re bound to find massive value and enjoyment in the Big Money Stylist podcast. This week, creator and founder of NBR and DKW Styling, Danielle K White, and head trainer, Ani Rivera, have a riveting and spicy conversation around the many facets of Profit. Big Money Stylist, we go over the following formula each month: Week #1: Power Week #2: Production Week #3: Profit Week #4: Protection In This Week’s Episode…..PROFIT Point #1: Not Just a Hair Class BMS education is not your typical hair industry education, by any means. It is highly sought after with limited seating, thus making the enrollment process less than typical as well. It is extensive and is taken very seriously by the team. Coach Ani: BMS education is not normal: it’s hustle, grind, and commitment like never before, beginning with an intense three week lead up to the actual three-day event. Now we know what to look for in the applications that come in because we’ve gotten really clear on the different traits of those we want inside BMS, who will be a good fit for us, and vice-versa. QUESTION Where in your life are your hustle and grind lacking power and commitment?   Point #2: Communication Styles Coach Ani: The way I message Danielle is the same way I message Garrett – brief and to the point. When I hired Morgan on as my assistant, I told her don’t be offended, I’m not trying to be a dick, but I’m a very direct person and my mind moves very quickly. Danielle: I can’t play that role with Garrett because I’m his wife. When I have done that in the past, he would spout back at me as if I were a dude, then I would say fuck you buddy and get irritated. Now, I reframe it as a question, “Would you like to do this?’ Underneath it, though, I’m thinking “we’re fucking doing this!” I put the two emojis with a heart and sometimes with a flame, and he responds: Yeah, love it babe, fist bump… instead of being mad. It’s all about the packaging and the pre-frame. QUESTION What different communication styles do you use with the most important people in your life?   Point #3: Hats, Lids, and Boxes Coach Ani: When you wear so many hats, something can trigger you. If you try to solve it while you’re upset and pissed off, you’re not actually going to get a great solution. I never speak out of anger. If I’m that angry, I know I need to take a step back and quiet down. I don’t curse, I don’t scream, and I don’t yell because you can never take any of that back. I reel it in, reframe it, let it go, and move forward. Danielle:  Everybody has their level before they reach the point of explosion. Garrett is 1-2-3 BAM!  –  whereas I have to go through 16 levels before I’ll flip my lid. If you have two people who flip their lid simultaneously, you can’t have a productive conversation and are no longer in a logical space. If I step back and compose myself, Garrett comes back down into his box, and we’re able to have a logical and somewhat productive conversation. QUESTION What is your go-to response when you get triggered?   Point #4: Visions and Targets Coach Ani: When you get clear on what you want and set a goal or target, in the beginning, it has to be specific. If you say, “I just want to have the perfect client,” or “I just want to have more money,” what does that actually look like for you? Everyone’s picture is going to be different – the perfect client for you may not be the perfect client for someone else, or the amount of money you want may look different for someone else. Get specific, and at the same time, be flexible. Danielle:  I don’t create some kind of a vision board; they’re messy and look like a five-year-old’s collage. Also, I’ve noticed my Vision will change, so if I’m stuck on what I’ve put on this board, that can hold me back. If I’m so focused on this “one thing,” what other opportunities am I missing out on? When people have a set plan and shit goes sideways, where the plan doesn
Released:
Dec 18, 2018
Format:
Podcast episode

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Over ten years ago, Danielle K. White, owner of DKW® Styling Salon and creator of Natural Beaded Rows®, had the vision to bring value and purpose to Artists through the art of extensions and strategic business, marketing, and sales strategies. With the help of co-host Ani Rivera, Director of Education for NBR®, Danielle brings you the Big Money Stylist Podcast! Learn the mindset and strategies crucial to your career as an Artist, and be inspired by each episode to create the life you’ve always dreamed of.