No matter how much we want to succeed, our brains have a tendency to sabotage us, and sometimes, the only way to move beyond that is by completely breaking down our existing ways of thinking. So, with that in mind, today I want to let you know the only reason you’re overwhelmed or not getting the results you want is because…you’re selfish. The real question is, how can you kick that self-defeating selfishness, once and for all?  In this episode, I’m sharing a tongue-in-cheek (but effective nonetheless!) guide to changing the way we think for the better.  Sometimes, a nonsensical angle can change the way our brain processes things and allows us to have a completely different experience. -Dana Malstaff 3 Things You’ll Learn in This Episode Why we need to stop thinking we can be everything to everyoneHow is trying to help everyone ‘selfish’...and is it even possible to do that, anyway?  The importance of listening to our audiencesIt’s great that we want to solve our clients’ problems, but how clear are we on what those problems are?  How to draw the line between teaching and preaching When are we actually providing value, and when are we just sharing information because that’s what we think we have to do?