PODCAST 304
HOW TO BE OKAY WITH THE RISK OF PEOPLE NOT LIKING YOU
In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we're chatting about:

How to be okay with the risk of people not liking you
Some ways to dive into taking the risk of being yourself
The most freeing question to ask yourself


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HOW TO BE OKAY WITH THE RISK OF PEOPLE NOT LIKING YOU
Some things to know:
The Rule of 50/50.
Some people will like you, some won't. This isn't about you, it is about social statistics.
Spend Your Emotional Energy on Your Inner Circle
Focus more on the people who like you than the people who don't. They are the ones who matter.
Embrace being a risk-taker.
Anything in life that matters comes with risk. Position your self-view as adventurous.
Listen to What You Really Want and Stop Creating Stories that Aren't Happening. 
Want to order pizza? Do it.  You don't need to explain yourself to anyone.
Everyone Just Wants to Be Part Of
People aren't judging you as fiercely as you think they are. They are really actually more worried about you liking them than they are worried about what they think of you.
People are Drawn to Authenticity 
Remember those people who are wild, themselves and totally inspiring, and remember thinking, gosh, I wish I could be like that? Well, you can be. It's simple, and it's the secret to true confidence ... not only will you free you but you will inspire others as you do.
SO, TAKE THE RISK, WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSE?
If not being a risk-taker hasn't gotten you where you want to be, or gotten you the level of happiness or confidence you crave, then what do you have to lose by being a little more risky?

I was a rule-follower my whole life, and then I decided to do things differently. Because, if we want to see or experience change, then we need to do something to change what we are doing or feeling.

For me, a pivotal decision and shift happened by wrapping my mind and heart around the concepts of enthusiasm and adventure.  I want a lifestyle of adventure - I want to make life a terrific adventure, and so I have to choose daily to be less serious, more risky and to have more fun.
THE MOST FREEING QUESTION TO ASK YOURSELF
What's the worst case scenario? 
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