This Thing Called Love: Understanding what Love is and what it is not

By Samuel Boafo Jnr

In a world where love is often misunderstood, misrepresented, and misconstrued, Samuel Boafo Jnr. offers a profound exploration in "This Thing Called Love." With clarity and insight, Boafo delves into the depths of the human heart, unravelling the complexities of love and revealing its true essence from a perspective that no one tries to search for.

Through personal anecdotes, timeless wisdom, and practical guidance, Boafo navigates the reader through the labyrinth of emotions, dispelling myths and uncovering the reality of love in all its forms. From the euphoria of romantic love to the enduring bonds of friendship, familial love, and self-love, this short but profound book illuminates in a few concise chapters the myriad ways in which love manifests itself in our lives.
 

But "This Thing Called Love" goes beyond mere definition; it challenges readers to confront the illusions they have built around love and invites them to embark on a journey of self-discovery. With courage and honesty, Boafo addresses the pitfalls of counterfeit love—obsession, possessiveness, manipulation—and offers a roadmap for cultivating genuine, healthy relationships built on mutual respect, trust, and compassion.

As you enjoy the pages of "This Thing Called Love," you'll find yourself drawn into a captivating narrative that inspires reflection, growth, and transformation. Whether you're navigating the complexities of romantic relationships, seeking to deepen your connections with others, or striving to love yourself more fully, this book is a beacon of hope and understanding in a world hungry for authentic love.
 

Prepare to embark on a journey that will challenge your assumptions, expand your heart, and ultimately, lead you to a deeper understanding of the most powerful force in the universe—love. Dive into "This Thing Called Love" and discover the true meaning of love, and what it is not.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Samuel Boafo Jnr
• Release date: Feb 8, 2024
• ISBN: 9798224250844

Samuel Boafo Jnr

Samuel Boafo Jnr is a vibrant and relentless seeker, a beacon of light amidst the shadows of ignorance. Samuel doesn't just write; he weaves tapestries of thought; each meticulously chosen to unravel complexities and illuminate the path forward. A fervent reader and impassioned blogger, Samuel's journey is one of perpetual exploration, an odyssey through the realms of God-given wisdom, knowledge, philosophy, and human experience. He believes in the transformative power of words, recognizing them as vessels of truth and catalysts for change. Driven by an insatiable curiosity and a deep-seated empathy for humanity, Samuel delves into the heart of critical issues, unearthing insights that challenge the status quo and ignite the flames of progress. With each word penned, he seeks to elevate discourse, foster understanding, and inspire action. In a world shrouded in ignorance and information overload, Samuel stands as a guiding light, a voice of reason and compassion. His words resonate with a clarity that cuts through the noise, offering solace to the weary and hope to the downtrodden. For it is through knowledge and understanding that we shall truly transcend. When the purpose is unknown, abuse is inevitable.

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SAMUEL BOAFO JNR

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THIS THING CALLED

LOVE

UNDERSTANDING WHAT LOVE IS AND WHAT IT IS NOT

CHAPTER 1:

INTRODUCTION TO LOVE

Ernesto Cardenal, a Nicaraguan poet, and priest once wrote, To love is to live, and to live is to love. That may sound correct, but in a world where we’re all confused about what love is, what does he mean? One thing that’s worth noting is that the poet never defined his terms. What’s this thing called "love"? Undoubtedly no aspect of human know-how has been deliberated, analyzed, and envisaged about more than the nature of true love.

Love is ubiquitous in our music, books, movies, and on our television screens. The conversation when it comes to love is always on our tongues, and never far away from our conversations. However, for all our thinking, speaking, and discussing, the question is how many of us truly understand love? Do we know what true love is? A 17th-century French author and moralist, by name Francois Duc de La Rochefoucauld made an observation when he indicated that, True love is like ghosts, that everybody talks about, but only few have seen.

Where can we go for honest information when it comes to matters relating to true love? The world has in its collection many different ideas of love, but then are they trustworthy? Contemporary and popular cultures lean