Implementing Christain Values in Parenting

By P. Anthony McAnelly

This text aims to explore the intricacies of understanding parental motivations, fostering healthy relationships with your children through Christian values, and examining the impact of your own upbringing on your parenting behaviors. Drawing from teachings and writings of prominent Christians and the book "Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart of Conflict," this book will equip you with practical insights and spiritual guidance to become a more effective and compassionate parent

• Language: English
• Publisher: P. Anthony McAnelly
• Release date: Oct 20, 2023
• ISBN: 9798223089155

P. Anthony McAnelly

P. Anthony "Tony" McAnelly Bio Tony McAnelly has over 30 years of executive management experience in public, non-profit and commercial sectors advancing and leading teams and business development. Tony began his professional career in 1990 with the Evergreen Council of the Boy Scouts in Everett. WA.  His relationship with the Boy Scouts was 17 years of continuing advancement and recognition. While working for the Boy Scouts of America he earned a reputation for developing and training top preforming professional and volunteer teams. For 15 consecutive years he was recognized as a national top performer in fund-raising and membership recruiting. In 2006 Mr. McAnelly was recruited as the Executive Director for the American Diabetes Association in Northern California. The market included an office in Sacramento in addition to two remote offices in Fresno and Redding. In 2013 Tony started as a civil servant with the State of California as manager for the California Secretary of State and subsequently as Branch Chief for Vital Records with the California Department of Public health. He was a leader in driving efficiency and automation integration for organizations doing business in California. Mr. McAnelly joined The California Community Action Partnership Association in 2018 as the Executive Director. He worked to build CalCAPA's advocacy capacity on behalf of low-income Californians and return California to the forefront in leading the fight against poverty. After retiring Tony and His wife Loris spent about a year towing their trailer all over the United States.  Settling in Brookshire, TX in 2021 Mr. McAnelly holds degrees in Deaf Studies and Recreation Business. He has received national recognition for his fund-raising and management achievements and is both TQM and Six Sigma Green Belt trained. Tony is a proud bearer of the Eagle Scout award. Tony lives in Brookshire, TX with his wife Lori; they have eight children, four son/daughters-in-law and six grandchildren.

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Chapter 1: Understanding the Foundation of Parental Motivations

This text aims to explore the intricacies of understanding parental motivations, fostering healthy relationships with your children through Christian values, and examining the impact of your own upbringing on your parenting behaviors. Drawing from teachings and writings of prominent Christians and the book Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart of Conflict, this book will equip you with practical insights and spiritual guidance to become a more effective and compassionate parent.

By the end of this book, you should gain a deeper understanding of parental motivations, develop practical skills for nurturing parent-child relationships based on Christian values, and recognize how your own upbringing influences your parenting behaviors.

Fundamental motives behind parenting

PARENTING IS A DEEPLY ingrained aspect of human existence, a timeless endeavor that transcends cultures, eras, and societal norms. At its core, parenting revolves around nurturing and guiding the next generation, a responsibility laden with profound motives and implications. Reflecting on the fundamental motives behind parenting unveils a complex interplay of biology, psychology, and society, shedding light on why individuals choose to become parents and the forces that drive their decisions.

Biologically, the urge to procreate is a fundamental instinct shared by all living organisms. From an evolutionary perspective, the perpetuation of one's genes is paramount. Humans, like many species, have evolved to prioritize the survival and thriving of their offspring. This biological motive underlies the profound desire to become parents. The instinct to care for and protect one's offspring is hardwired into our DNA, compelling individuals to take on the role of parents.

However, biology alone does not fully encapsulate the motives behind parenting. Human beings possess a unique capacity for complex emotions, self-awareness, and social bonding that adds depth and nuance to the experience of parenthood. Psychological motives play a significant role in the decision to become a parent. One of the primary psychological motives is the desire for emotional fulfillment and a sense of purpose.

Many individuals find profound joy and meaning in the act of nurturing and raising children. Parenting offers an opportunity to experience unconditional love, watch a child's growth and development, and leave a lasting legacy. The emotional rewards of parenthood are immeasurable, and the desire for these rewards is a potent motive for many prospective parents.

Furthermore, societal and cultural factors exert considerable influence on the motives behind parenting. Societal expectations, cultural norms, and family traditions often shape individuals' decisions to become parents. In many cultures, parenthood is viewed as a rite of passage, a way to carry on family legacies, and a means of ensuring social continuity. Pressure to conform to these societal norms can be a powerful motivator for some people.

Economic considerations also play a role in the decision to become parents. The costs associated with raising children are substantial, encompassing expenses for food, clothing, education, healthcare, and more. Financial stability and the ability to provide a comfortable life for one's offspring are significant motives for many prospective parents. Conversely, economic instability can deter some individuals from embracing parenthood.

Parenting is not solely driven by selfish motives. Many people become parents out of a deep sense of altruism and a desire to contribute positively to society. They view raising well-adjusted, responsible, and empathetic children as a means of making the world a better place. In this sense,