Overcome Addiction by God's Grace: 12 Steps to Freedom

By Anthony Ordille

The Keys to Recovery That Will Eliminate Your Pain Forever!

In Overcome Addiction by God's Grace: 12 Steps to Freedom, Founder Anthony Ordille helps you target those hurts from your past, the shame, guilt, and self-pity you may feel from the addiction, so you can live an addiction-free life to chart a better course for your future.

Discover How To:
 Be set free from any addiction in 12 easy steps
 Accept the truth about yourself
 Renew the way you think
 Find inner healing through the help of God
 Learn to forgive and believe in yourself
 Walk-in forgiveness
 Let go of your past and find a new identity
And much, much more.

Created by a man who has experienced the pain that led him to a long-dark journey with addictions. He hopes that through his life experiences, those struggling with addictions will find the truth and follow his lead to a life of hope and forgiveness.

Helping those with addiction find a way to put the addiction behind them.

Overcome Addiction by God's Grace: 12 Steps to Freedom, along with its accompanying workbook, will help you overcome addiction. This guidebook is filled with directions to point you on the right path so that you, or someone you love, can live a life free from the pain that addiction can cause.

The AFL program is for anyone who struggles with any addiction. So, take the journey to freedom and see if this path is not suitable for you. Along the way, you will discover who you are.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Anthony Ordille
• Release date: Sep 1, 2023
• ISBN: 9798987800430

Anthony Ordille

Anthony Ordille was born in Hammonton, New Jersey, to a truck driver and a stay-at-home mom. He has three brothers and two sisters. He attended Catholic school and graduated from a public high school in 1976. Anthony walked away from serving God as a teen, becoming rebellious and hateful. He lived a destructive life filled with alcohol, drugs, lying, cheating, stealing, adulterous acts, and rock 'n roll until he was thirty-two when he entered a rehab that introduced him to 12-step programs. At forty-one, he struggled with alcohol again until he surrendered his life to Jesus Christ on October 9, 1998. Anthony wrote an autobiography, published in 2013. Since then, he has authored books on addiction and developed a Christ-centric, Biblical 12-step program. Beyond addiction, Anthony has written several other helpful nonfiction and fiction books for Christian living, including one that helps Christians read the Bible in a year. Upon returning to God, he completed the Associate Degree Program of Christian Studies (ACS) and Bachelor's Degree Program in Church Ministry (BCh.M). Anthony completed all the certifications required to become a licensed minister from the Sure Foundation Theological Institute. On March 18, 2013, he was ordained in the Deacon Ministry with Gateway Church, Southlake, Texas. Anthony, a father of two with one adopted son, now resides in Dalzell, South Carolina, with his son, Jarred, and is actively involved at Christ Community Church. He hopes his life experiences will inspire those struggling with addictions to find the truth and follow his lead to hope, peace, and forgiveness through his testimony and the program. You can connect with Anthony through his website, www.anthonyordille.com, or link.anthonyordille.com/ConnectLandingPage. Read a Free report on "The 5 Essential Ways to Living Addiction-Free" @ link.anthonyordille.com/report

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OVERCOME

ADDICTION

BY GOD'S GRACE

12-STEPS TO FREEDOM

Anthony Ordille

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Overcome Addiction by God's Grace: 12-Steps to Freedom

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This book details the author’s personal experiences and opinions about addictions and recovery. The author is not a healthcare provider. This information is given to understand that neither the author, publisher, nor any associate of AFL is engaged in rendering legal, medical, or professional advice. In addition, the author, publisher, nor any associate of AFL do not represent or warrant that the information accessible via this book is accurate, complete, or current. Except as specifically stated in this book, neither the author, publisher, nor any associate of AFL, contributors, or other representatives will be liable for damages arising out of or in connection with the use of this book. You understand that this book is not intended as a substitute for consultation with a licensed healthcare practitioner, such as your physician. Before you begin any addiction recovery program or change your lifestyle in any way, you should consult your physician or another li-censed healthcare practitioner for any treatment necessary for detoxification or ensure that you are in good health and that the examples contained in this book will not harm you.

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ISBN: 978-1-68270-118-8 (1st Edition, Published 2016 with original title)

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Self-Help / Substance Abuse & Addictions / General

Self-Help / Twelve-Step Programs

Religion / Christian Ministry / Counseling & Recovery

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Acknowledgments

Special thanks to the following people:

Reed & Reed Consulting

Renee Ordille

Jarred Ordille

The late Dale Hinz

Zach Neese

Crystal Maria Scott

Beverly Engel

To all those who have turned in a testimony,

Thank you!

Table of Contents

Introduction

Section 1

Chapter 1: What is Addiction?

Addictions to Substances

Impulse Control Disorders

Addictions – Behavioral

Chapter 2: Do I Belong Here?

Chapter 3: Is There Hope for Me?

Chapter 4: Stepping into Faith!

Chapter 5: Putting Your Faith into Action: Steps 1–12

The Twelve I Haves

Step 1: I have come to the realization that addiction has ruled my life

Step 2: I have acknowledged that God is the creator and restorer of all things

Step 3: I have decided to confess salvation according to Romans 10:9–10

Step 4: I have made a list of all my sins

Step 5: I have repented with my mouth and asked forgiveness for each one of those sins

Step 6: I have asked God for forgiveness and to remove any guilt or shame I put on myself

Step 7: I have been delivered from all unrighteousness

Step 8: I have asked God to show me all persons I have hurt and made a list

Step 9: I have prayed over my hurt list, seeking those I need to ask forgiveness from

Step 10: I have denied myself and will pick up my cross daily

Step 11: I have made a conscious decision to trust God and live a life of prayer

PRAY: Praise, Repent, Acknowledge, Yield

Step 12: Having had a spiritual experience resulting from these steps, I try to carry this message to others and uphold these principles in all my affairs, not forsaking a body of believers to fellowship with and call my home.

Chapter 6: 12 Principles

1- Honesty

2- Hope

3- Faith

4- Courage

5- Integrity

6- Willingness

7- Humility

8- Love

9- Discipline

10- Perseverance

11- Awareness

12- Service

Chapter 7: Living an Addiction-Free Life

Chapter 8: What Happens if I Fall?

Chapter 9: Recovery vs. Deliverance

Chapter 10: Vision

Chapter 11: Praying for Others

Daily Quiet Time

What is a stronghold?

Develop a prayer list

Section 2

Testimonies

The Secret by Tim R.

Never too Young by Gustavo G.

The Open Door by Alex L.

My Get Out of Jail Free Story by Brad Brown

Section 3

Helpful Scriptures, Parables and Prayers

Scriptures

Accountability

Anger

Baby Dedication

Baptism

Belief

Bondage

Born Again

Deliverance

Depression

Disease

Emotional Stress

Faith

Favor

Fear

Forgiven/Forgiveness

Grace

Healing

Hope

Hostile

Humility

Judging

Kindness

Love

Mercy

Pain/Suffering

Patience

Perseverance

Prayer

Repent

Salvation

Self-Pity

Shame

Sickness (see Healing)

Sin

Surrender

Tongue

Trust

Unrighteousness

Vision/Revelation

Wickedness

Wisdom

Worry

Worship

Parables

Prayers

Salvation

Repenting

Asking for Forgiveness

Hurt List

Sample Prayer

Lord’s Prayer

About the Author

Other Books by Anthony Ordille

Connect with Anthony Ordille

Endnotes

Mission Statement

Our mission is to reach out to the hurting, encourage the weak and extend hope to the off-course. To share the truth about the living word of God and give hope to those struggling with addictions of all kinds. To let them know they can recover through a process called deliverance and live a life of freedom from this crippling disease.

We are called to reveal the mysteries of God’s word from his word according to Matthew 13:11.

To proclaim the love of God to all the world and that he walked on this earth as a man by the name of Jesus. (Luke 2:11)

To proclaim that Jesus Is Lord, from the top of the world to the bottom, and all the way around, and to show that he is the only way to heaven. (John 10:1, 14:6, Hebrews 10:20)

We want to help people know who they are in Christ and God's will for their lives. (Psalms 118:8)

Our vision is to see the restoration of the hurt and dying in this world. To help the lost find a place of rest so they can learn how to cope with life in general through love and the help of the Holy Spirit. To be built up in all that God has for them so they too can proclaim the works of the Lord.

Introduction

This guidebook was written with the hope that it will help those who are struggling with addictions and show that there is a way out. It is designed to help those struggling with addictions of all kinds. The only difference between addicts is the choice of addiction, but in most cases, the mindset runs the same path. Most addicts are directed to the traditional twelve-step program, but for those who want to lean on the truth about God, there is another way to an Addiction-Free Life.

We want you to know that you are loved by so many people who are willing to love you until you can love yourself, and the only thing you need to do is show up. All of us who have walked this out before you are cheering you on and hoping that you will read and work on this guidebook so that one day you can share your freedom with others.

AFL will show you that way! As long as you keep the faith and follow the direction given, you stand a great chance to beat the addiction that holds you captive. One cliché we believe to be true is You cannot do this alone! That is found in almost every recovery program known to humanity.

The author has been where you are and has seen firsthand the recovery through the traditional way and now lives his life in freedom from this crippling disease because he has found what you are about to discover. You can read his testimony at the back of the book.

Today you have a choice to make: You can stay where you are and continue to live in your pain, sickness, disease, and the path to destruction, which leads to death. Or you can go through life in a recovery program with the hope that you will never use again. Or you can accept God’s way and live your life free of addiction. It is your willingness to know the difference between what is right and what is wrong. God will change your life if you let Him. If you open your heart and mind as you go through these chapters and steps, and build on the principles, he will meet you right where you are.

The guidebook layout suggests reading each chapter in section 1 before making any decisions. After reading each chapter and deciding you want the challenge, work on the steps in chapter 4 from step 1 to step 12. We have designed a workbook that you may find helpful when you start if you want to purchase a copy. Use the back sections as references and the scriptures in your daily living.

Unlike the traditional twelve-step programs, AFL is a Christ-centered fellowship that focuses on the word of God with a relationship with his son. Because, after all, Jesus came to free the captives (Jeremiah 29:14). Addiction is a form of captivity, isn’t it? You have become enslaved to the stronghold that binds you with the addiction. You are a prisoner of this way of life and must learn to walk in freedom.

Overcome Addiction by God's Grace: 12-Steps to Freedom will bring out the best of who you are. It will help you grow in your faith, learn God’s word, be an overcomer, and walk over the hurdles in your way. Most importantly, it will help you realize that just because you have made some mistakes, you are not doomed to nonexistence in this society.

You are about to embark on a journey you may not care for. Unfortunately, not everyone will take this journey to the very end. Some of you may disagree about what this guidebook presents; therefore, you will not receive what it offers. The foundations and fundamentals of the steps can work for everyone, but the freedom from addiction they offer will only come to those that believe.

Some of you are so sick and tired of fighting the addiction that you are about ready to do anything to eliminate it. In this case, you will have to be open-minded, and you will have to allow the work of the Lord to change your life. For those of you who have difficulty accepting this guidebook, we hope you will reconsider by the time you finish reading it. You will read many scriptures because God's word penetrates the human spirit. It will help, guide, and change every situation. When his word is spoken out loud, it creates what it says; plainly, when you get to some of the scriptures, you will need to speak them—not just read them but speak them out! The bottom line of this journey you are about to take; it is like nothing else in this world. You must apply wisdom and knowledge to your situation and work on the change. Change does not come without applying what you have learned.

You are beautiful and worth more than any addiction has to offer. You are a treasure waiting to be discovered, so the beauty that God made you will shine!

You are about to embark on the road to freedom!

Welcome!

As with anyone with an addiction, it is best to use the buddy system to work the program. Find one or two people, or more, get a few copies of the book and workbook and work through it together. If you have questions, refer to the contact information at the back of the book.

Section 1

An Addiction-Free Life! (AFL)

Chapters 1-9

The following chapters will change your life!

If you let it!

Let’s get started.

Chapter 1

What is Addiction?

Let us jump right in with the definition of addiction:

Source: The Britannica Dictionary¹

1. a strong and harmful need to regularly have something (such as a drug) or do something (such as gamble)

2. an unusually great interest in something or a need to do or have something

Source: Merriam-Webster's Dictionary²

1. the quality or state of being addicted

2. compulsive need for and use of a habit-forming substance (as heroin, nicotine, or alcohol) characterized by tolerance and by well-defined physiological symptoms upon withdrawal; broadly: persistent compulsive use of a substance known by the user to be harmful

Addiction is known as a complex disease that can be chronic and often a relapsing disorder. Over time, addictions can seriously interfere with your daily life. People experiencing addiction are also prone to relapse and remission, which means they may cycle between intense and mild use. Despite these cycles, addictions will typically worsen over time. They can lead to permanent health complications and severe consequences like bankruptcy.

Some people do not believe it is a disease but in the person's weakness, initiated for self-gratification and continued because of an unwillingness or lack of sufficient willpower to stop. In a way, they are right—at the beginning of one starting this process. When someone is addicted to something, it affects the functioning of the brain and body. Therefore, it is a chronic disease of brain reward, motivation, and memory, involving the network of interconnected neurons in the nervous system, especially the brain. Dysfunction in these areas can lead to characteristic biological, psychological, social, and spiritual manifestations.

This is reflected when there is relief from substance use and other behaviors, so the person will continue the same thing that caused the manifestations in the first place, not because they willed it.

Not only does addiction affect that person, but it also causes severe damage to families and relationships. It can even sometimes affect workplaces and neighborhoods, depending on the type of addiction.

The most common symptoms of addiction are severe loss of control, continued use despite profound consequences, self-absorbent with using, built-up tolerance, and withdrawal.

American Society of Addiction Medicine says:

Addiction is characterized by the inability to abstain consistently, impairment in behavioral control, craving, diminished recognition of significant problems with one's behaviors and interpersonal relationships, and a dysfunctional emotional response. Like other chronic diseases, addiction often involves cycles of relapse and remission. Addiction is progressive without treatment or engagement in recovery activities and can result in disability or premature death. 3

Addiction is a treatable, chronic medical disease involving complex interactions among brain circuits, genetics, the environment, and an individual's life experiences. People with addiction use substances or engage in behaviors that become compulsive and often continue despite harmful consequences. Prevention and treatment approaches for addiction are generally as successful as those for other chronic diseases. ⁴

The sad part about our society is that many medical and scientific communities do not believe that pleasure-seeking exclusively drives addiction. Many believe that people engage in potentially addictive activities to escape physical and emotional discomfort.

The classic hallmarks of addiction include impaired control over substances, behavior, giving full attention to the substance or behavior, continued use despite consequences, and denial, no matter how hard one tries to stop. Habits and patterns associated with addiction are typically characterized by immediate gratification (a short-term reward) coupled with delayed harmful effects, which lean toward long-term costs.

Withdrawal refers to physical and psychological symptoms people experience when reducing or discontinuing a substance the body has become dependent on. Physiological dependence occurs when the body must adjust to the substance/behavior by combining the substance/behavior into its normal functioning. This state creates the conditions of tolerance and withdrawal. Tolerance is the process by which the body continually adapts to the substance/behavior and requires increasingly more significant amounts to achieve the original effects. This process starts right from the beginning. That is why it is so ludicrous that people say smoking marijuana has no