Jumping to the Skies: Additional Lessons from Parkinson’s Disease
By Allan Hugh Cole Jr. and Davis Phinney
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Allan Hugh Cole Jr.
Allan Hugh Cole Jr. is an ordained Presbyterian minister and Nancy Taylor Williamson Professor of Pastoral Care at Austin Presbyterian Theological Seminary. He is the coauthor of Losers, Loners, and Rebels: The Spiritual Struggles of Boys, and author of Good Mourning and The Life of Prayer.
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Jumping to the Skies - Allan Hugh Cole Jr.
Jumping to the Skies
Additional Lessons from Parkinson’s Disease
Allan Hugh Cole Jr.
Jumping to the Skies
Additional Lessons from Parkinson’s Disease
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Allan Hugh Cole Jr. All rights reserved. Except for brief quotations in critical publications or reviews, no part of this book may be reproduced in any manner without prior written permission from the publisher. Write: Permissions, Wipf and Stock Publishers,
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Names: Cole, Allan Hugh, Jr., author; foreword by Davis Phinney.
Title: Jumping to the skies : additional lessons from Parkinson’s Disease / Allan Hugh Cole, Jr.
Description: Eugene, OR: Cascade Books,
2023
| Includes bibliographical references.
Identifiers:
isbn 978-1-6667-4818-5 (
paperback
) | isbn 978-1-6667-4819-2 (
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) | isbn 978-1-6667-4820-8 (
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Subjects: LCSH: Parkinson’s disease—Patients—Biography. | Parkinson’s disease—Patients—Rehabilitation.
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May 24, 2023 1:04 PM
Table of Contents
Title Page
Preface
Acknowledgments
Chapter 1: An Anniversary Letter to My Daughters
Chapter 2: Ungated
Chapter 3: Making It
Chapter 4: Being Happy
Chapter 5: Spiritual Questions
Chapter 6: Memories and Realities
Chapter 7: Staring into the Fire
Chapter 8: Typos and 90-Degree Angles
Chapter 9: Feeling at Home
Chapter 10: Bittersweet Lane
Chapter 11: Miraculous Things
Chapter 12: Pluck the Day
Chapter 13: What I Have Learned from Michael J. Fox
Chapter 14: Parenting and Courage
Chapter 15: A Spiritual Thing
Chapter 16: A Letter to My Newly Diagnosed Self
Chapter 17: Five Keys for Living Well with Illness
Chapter 18: Five More Keys for Living Well with Illness
Chapter 19: Sandcastles
Chapter 20: Riding the Wave
Chapter 21: Darkness and Light
Chapter 22: Five Years
Chapter 23: Remembering Our Strengths
Chapter 24: More Mayo, Please
Chapter 25: The Button
Chapter 26: A Bucket and a Pot of Gold
Chapter 27: Jumping to the Skies
Chapter 28: Commencement
Chapter 29: The Long Hallways of Illness
Chapter 30: Stepping Outside the Cave
Bibliography
For the late Michael Adams, Jim Davis, Dean Engelage, Tom Goodrum, Mat Hamlin, Ethan Henderson, Dan Roberts, Jordan Steiker, and Dan Stultz
There are two kinds of teachers: the kind that fill you with so much quail shot that you can't move, and the kind that just gives you a little prod behind and you jump to the skies.
—Robert Frost
Wherever you are, it is your friends who make your world.
―William James
Preface
If a prolonged illness changes your life, an incurable illness transforms it. My transformation began in the fall of 2016, at the age of forty-eight, with a diagnosis of young-onset Parkinson’s disease. Progressive, degenerative, and currently incurable, over the course of many years Parkinson’s can rob your body of movement and of many other physical, emotional, and mental functions that most of us take for granted.
My knowledge of illness has also changed. Intellectual knowledge, cultivated through years of study in philosophy, theology, psychology, and social work, has turned personal and led to existential understanding. I have gone from knowing a great deal about illness to understanding it subjectively and experientially, from the inside; the point being that one may know a lot, for a long time, while understanding comparatively little. I have come to rely more and more on what I understand, or seek to understand, to help me make meaning of a life with Parkinson’s disease.
As was the case with my previous book, Discerning the Way: Lessons from Parkinson’s Disease (Cascade, 2021), the chapters in this book began with posts on my blog, PD Wise (pdwise.com), and the chapters move back and forth in time and need not be read in any particular order.
As illness transforms us it can also teach us. Parkinson’s has taught me the difference between living and being alive. The latter requires hearing the tick of your life’s clock and learning to welcome it because it prompts savoring and utilizing each second you have.
Acknowledgments
If adding to what I understand about life with Parkinson’s boosts me, relying more on who I know sustains me.
Rodney Clapp, my wise and perceptive editor at Cascade and a friend for many years, gifted me his guidance and wisdom and thus helped this become a better book. Indeed, the entire team at Cascade enriched this project, as they always do, especially Matt Wimer, managing editor, Jonathan Hill, typesetter, and Shannon Carter, cover designer. I remain grateful to work with them.
Elizabeth Gaucher, principal at Longridge Editors and a dear friend since our days at Davidson College, read many of the essays in this book, provided keen insights, and, as she has for years, helped me understand more and write better.
My friend, the late Michael Adams, read much of what I wrote about Parkinson’s disease and he observed on multiple occasions that my family and friends are my primary muses. As one who also lived with Parkinson’s, Michael helped me be a better writer and person.
Two of my colleagues in the Steve Hicks School of Social Work (SHS) at The University of Texas at Austin, namely, Mia Vinton, my executive assistant, and Stacey Jordan, my chief of staff, help me manage the rhythms and demands of my professional life and, among many other contributions, help me find time to write. I am grateful to work with both of them, and with the entire faculty and staff of the SHS.
My wife, Tracey, our daughters, Meredith and Holly, as well as my parents, Allan and Jeri Cole, with love and grace, keep adjusting to new ways of enjoying life, thinking about the future, and, importantly, living in the moment, all of which have been spawned by Parkinson’s disease. Individually and collectively, they help me ensure that Parkinson’s disruptions never carry the day while bringing the greatest joy and meaning to my life.
The philosopher William James, perhaps best known for his devotion to a philosophy of pragmatism and one of my intellectual heroes, taught me that Wherever you are, it is your friends who make your world.
Along with my family, among the many friends who have helped make my world with Parkinson’s, and who help sustain me in it, are Jim Davis, Dean Engelage, Tom Goodrum, Mat Hamlin, Ethan Henderson, Dan Roberts, Jordan Steiker, and Dan Stultz.
Jim and I work together and share an appreciation for The University of Texas at Austin, the writings of Ralph Waldo Emerson, and the reflective life. Dean is my go-to for many things, especially those related to leadership. Tom has been my friend since our days at Davidson College, and he’s one of the first people I told that I have Parkinson’s. Mat and Dan (Roberts), both valued friends, share my love of boating and other outdoor activities,