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A New Formula for Happiness

The happiness we seek can require investing earlier than we think—and may help us align our expectations and reality at the end of life.
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We often follow a misguided formula for happiness—pushing us toward material wealth and other worldly successes. But when our expectations set us down the wrong path, it may be time to reorient ourselves around something new: universal happiness principles we can practice at any age.

In our finale episode of this season, a conversation with psychiatrist Robert Waldinger provides a scientific insight into key elements for happy living, whatever your age.

This episode was produced by Rebecca Rashid and is hosted by Arthur Brooks. Editing by A.C. Valdez and Claudine Ebeid. Fact-check by Ena Alvarado. Engineering by Matthew Simonson.

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This transcript has been lightly edited for length and clarity.

Rebecca Rashid: Arthur, was there some point in your life where you realized that you weren’t where you wanted to be?

Arthur C. Brooks: Well, yeah, of course. Many times, like all of us. Maybe every day. I’m not sure.

But in my 20s I remember when I realized that my childhood dream wasn’t going to lead me where I thought it was. Since I was a little kid, all I cared about was classical music. I wanted to be a professional French horn player.

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